After weeks of trying to figure out my crush and his true feelings for me,i finally found the light at the end of the tunnel..guess ive been so stupid ignoring all the obvious signs tht hes just treating me as a fren while telling myself all this while the sweet things tht he did is becos he does actually like me...and today he did something which i wont dwell on but i begin to realize tht is an obvious sign tht he just see me a fren..so im letting go my hope on him...i know its gonna be hard becos ill still see him around..so any wisdom words for me? really need it guys..thanc
2007-09-27 17:54:18 · 6 answers · asked by Stephanie Y 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can I just say that I know EXACTLY how you feel?
My words of wisdom are: too bad. Pick yourself up. Find someone new to dream about. Unrequitted love is the worst sort, but when you find the right person it will feel like the best thing in the world, and all your pain and sorrow of loss will be washed away with the waters of fresh romance.
The sooner you can move on from him, the better. If you are going to have him as a friend, it is only going to hurt you to have to be with him while secretly loving him.
Good luck!
2007-09-27 19:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Ivy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Melissa . . . Consider how lucky you are to have a good friend, as friendship is a thing to be cherished. Now that you know how he feels about you -- and considers you to be a friend -- broaden your vision to see other available men, and to meeting people. Open your mind to the possibilities, and let things happen for you.
Best of luck to you . . .
2007-09-28 01:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by AgonyAuntie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
same here i have given up on my crush but now i am crushing over some else its like he is showing some signs but if he was to say something like lets go out id say no because he was making me wait and they should have to do the same
"dont let the fear of striking out , keep you from playing the game""
get back in there ^^^^let him see what he is missing
2007-09-28 00:58:57 · answer #3 · answered by Blondii 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is his loss! He may regret it later. Don't sit around and wait. Have a good time looking for someone that will appreciate you.
2007-09-28 00:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be thankful to have a nice friend and move on, you will one day find the man of your dreams
2007-09-28 00:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away and do not look back.
2007-09-28 00:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by The Eternal Squire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋