I know he is playboy. He has so many girls and he likes play game with them. But now he is tired and stressful cuz he lies too much and girls are chassing him everyday, he has no single time to relax. His life like a awful drama on the circle of girls, sex and money...which i wish i never know that.
We hooked up at random and had a really opened conversation, he told me everything true about his life cuz we both foreigners, & i am not belong to his circle-life so no need to lie me. With me he just simple wants to share (or tell the true) and i am a good listener. I feel so dispointed and really sad...oh why life is so bad like that? i feel so sorry for him, sorry for the local young girls or old woman those spent money on him and be cheated by him (but probably they enjoyed/accepted that way) even i hate the social life and ppl living here at the city where we are living now...it makes ppl less human being and live so sinful..
He said he wants to meet me again and he really wants
2007-09-27 17:56:29 · 16 answers · asked by BB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(obviously he has to lie his girls to meet me), he likes to talk with me (cuz his girls just for money and sex, cant talk much - different languagues! haha...i know girls in this city and thats true)...Bitter!!! I know he is not only wants to meet me for just talking (you know what i mean) and i feel so confused. I am beautiful and smart single girl but i am alone and lonely at this city...he is also smart guy and yeah he looks so gorgeous/fabulous (he is model)...feel so guilty just only think about him but i also feel want to be with him...i am just a normal human...and sometimes i am stupid...i have fumble though of living on a whim?
please help me out...dont judge or criticise me...i really need help...he is crazy and he drives me crazy too
2007-09-27 17:57:19 · update #1
its so damn long i dont want to read this
2007-09-27 17:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by ILOVEU 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You said your beautiful and smart, well being smart you knew what kind of a guy he is, he was like a devil advocate, what he was doing was very sinful as you categorised, then you are planning to have a relationship with him, well with him happiness is short live but the hell is every moment of your life, you're going into a situation where you want to be hurt and miserable, your beautiful as what you said, a one night stand or for the heck of it to with a challenge is not worth all the pains you will be going through with him. You have a good judgement and you deserve a happy, honest relationship where you can enjoy and be proud of the guy you choose unlike if you choose him maybe he is best in bed but every minute he is out of your sight what an agony that you are thinking he was with another girl or another old woman doing all the dirty act, you will be jealous, jealous to the max and later own hatered, anger and even worst crime....crime of passion who could tell he is a womaniser, its very nice to be with someone you love, respect and have trust. Positive attitude attracts good vibes, avoid him he will damage you beyond repair, you deserve a decent one, respectable and honourable guy , there are still a lot of those in the world and they could create magic too. Just pray and wait he will come into yourlife.
2007-09-27 18:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by carla gomez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u want to be his friend only, it wont hurt u but u would advice him , show him how bad he do to these women, tell him would he like it if his own mother was in such situation and being used by men like him, would he like 2 see her in pain and sadness.
But if u want 2 be his gf or lover or have a life with him DONT u ever sleep with him , until u get married , make him crazy about u , take and pull things, dont be like any other girl he knew, be strong and dont melt for him right away , if u did DO NOT show it , tell him yes , never get in bed with him, show him how strong u r than him , how weak and helpless he is around u, but not too much, ( GIVE AND TAKE ).
when he feel he dont want u anymore , show him feeligns and passion, so he comes back, tell him that if he want u , he need 2 show it to u , TEST him , tell him ill be urs but not in bed yet.
Do it right cos very difficult to ( give and take in the same time, difficult to push away and pull in the same time )
GOOD LUCK.
2007-09-27 18:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by michael 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
anytime you question your gut instincts.... you are in trouble. You already know he is no good. He isn't honest. He lies. He deceives. He uses women. So that only leaves me with one question. Why in God's name are you even thinking of seeing him?? Trust me on this, I've lived long enough to know.. He is a Mack. He uses women and he is using you. You think he is telling you the truth. But honey, that just isn't so. He is running game on you just like every other woman in his life. He changes the game to suit each and every different woman. His game with you is to share enough about himself so that you believe he is being honest with you. As the old saying goes..... Wake up and smell the coffee. And get him the hell out of your life before you end up being left in the dust, heartbroken. I wish you the best sweetie.
2007-09-27 18:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly u are patently no longer in love with the guy if u understand that he's not the single for you. So in the experience that your no longer in love with him how are you able to get harm? yet another ingredient is marriage isn't this form of massive deal presently living in a defacto dating is precisely the comparable ingredient in basic terms without paper.
2016-12-28 05:59:29 · answer #5 · answered by auldridge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using that sad story on you to get to you, and I certainly hope you are aware of it. If you really want to enjoy him, just don't let him take your heart. Keep it light hearted and simple. Meet, talk, and have PROTECTED sex, since he has probably been with plenty of women!!
2007-09-27 18:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not in love, run!!!! while your still safe...please do yourself the favor...but if you already are, there is no way of not getting hurt, unless you accept it and stop caring. But this is a a sucky way to live...it takes alot of self disipline...i suspect my bf is a playboy too...
2007-09-27 18:00:46 · answer #7 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are kidding yourself if you think this guy is going to treat you any differently. you are not "special" to him. People like that don't change, so don't waste your time with someone you will always be suspicious of cheating on you
2007-09-27 18:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by Count Chocula 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He's a user,users don't get hurt But....one day hes going to meet someone who is going to hurt him.
2007-09-27 18:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by JP023 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Just try to be a playgirl. You will never be hurt. If you can't be that way then refrain from him.
2007-09-27 18:00:25 · answer #10 · answered by ron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being insensitive, but the truth is you cannot get hurt, because you are still human and not a robot
2007-09-27 18:00:55 · answer #11 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋