Family & Relationships - 27 September 2007

i ran for student council and i didnt win. i worked really hard and i put 100% effort into it and i didnt win. My good friend won and she didnt do have the stuff i did :-(
I cried a lot, i really thought i was going to win the election(people voted for us, i guess they knew my friend more than me)
did you ever run and you didnt win? whats your story?

2007-09-27 17:28:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How Is It Done, Girls What Was Your Best Memory Of A First Kiss With Some One, For The First TIme With A New Guy Or Not

2007-09-27 17:26:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Stretch marks are inevitable right?
withdrawals
weight gain
I'm really scared. what else will happen?

2007-09-27 17:26:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-27 17:24:36 · 9 answers · asked by Lucky 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How have you been hurt by girls- what behaviour or words

2007-09-27 17:24:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Looking for others who are polygamist or are interested to discuss pros and cons about this lifestyle.

I have been married to my husband for two years now, been together four. Never did either of us think he would ever fall inlove with another woman. Yet three months ago, it happend. I was at first very upset and hurt, and I guess I still am. The fact he didnt tell me before he had decided to do something was the worst part of it all. I have since accepted what has been happening. and cant really bring myself to leave him. I see he does love this woman, but also loves me at the same time.
We have been discussing the possibility of the three of us moving in together, and bringing our families under one roof, alot because we see no point in having to spend the money to go the 60 miles back and forth to see eachother.
I would like to find others who are also interested or in this type of relationship to give me some feedback on how life is, and if its worth it. Thank you.

2007-09-27 17:22:29 · 12 answers · asked by Jessica P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Looking for others who are polygamist or are interested to discuss pros and cons about this lifestyle.

I have been married to my husband for two years now, been together four. Never did either of us think he would ever fall inlove with another woman. Yet three months ago, it happend. I was at first very upset and hurt, and I guess I still am. The fact he didnt tell me before he had decided to do something was the worst part of it all. I have since accepted what has been happening. and cant really bring myself to leave him. I see he does love this woman, but also loves me at the same time.
We have been discussing the possibility of the three of us moving in together, and bringing our families under one roof, alot because we see no point in having to spend the money to go the 60 miles back and forth to see eachother.
I would like to find others who are also interested or in this type of relationship to give me some feedback on how life is, and if its worth it. Thank you.

2007-09-27 17:22:13 · 10 answers · asked by Jessica P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just wondering

2007-09-27 17:20:29 · 11 answers · asked by Ray 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How did it make you feel and did anything come of it?

It's not something I'm experiencing personally but I'm studying human cognition and am interested in people's experience of it.

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2007-09-27 17:16:30 · 14 answers · asked by soulgirl76 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been swamped the past couple of days, otherwise I would've called. Is it okay to call the third day? Any opinions on this topic in general would be appreciated.

2007-09-27 17:16:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband(29) has been taking anti-depressants for 3 years. I(24) have had several partners in college. I find myself telling my husband "we're not having sex enough".I think the anti-depressents interfere with his sex drive. I crave sex all the time...I would love it once a day...he could go a week or two without wanting to have sex. How often should we be having sex? What can I do to increase his sex drive without taking him off drugs or giving him more drugs?

2007-09-27 17:15:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my husband met in January, and married in July. Recently, it hasn't been going good, and divorce has actually crossed my mind a few times because he jumps on my case about stupid ****. Our relationship was good when we were in Texas, then we moved to Kentucky and got married, then it seemed to have fallen apart. When I left Kentucky to come back to Texas, we were fighting everyday over everything. I came back to Texas and our relationship seemed to start mending back, but for the past two days, we have done nothing but argue about work and bills.

I ran into a guy tonight that I knew from a job 2 years ago. I liked him then, and have found that I still like him... a lot. We went and played pool for 2 hours, and it was hard for me to have a good time because I know my relationship with my husband is going sour, but I don't want to break his heart. My husband is super jealous and doesn't like me to hang around guys b/c he's afraid I'll cheat on him.

What should I do?

2007-09-27 17:13:19 · 17 answers · asked by chasincansonclyde 2 in Marriage & Divorce

is it wrong if i have a sexual thing going on with a guy to try it with a girl for the first time with his sister? will he get over it?

2007-09-27 17:10:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband is the main source of money in our home. He pays all the bills and I take care of the home and our girls. He now wants to move his brother into our home to sleep on the couch. His brother isn't a very upstanding person and he has plenty of issues and I would rather not have him live with us. My husband knows this but is going with it anyway. How do I tell him no way I can't allow this to happen without causing a fight? Is there anyway when it's family involved?

2007-09-27 17:08:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We've been together for over a year and he is my first sexual partner. I enjoy giving him oral sex and don't mind doing it for a long time but it has never gotten him to climax. I feel like I'm just not good at the entire sex thing and am in way over my head thinking I can please him having no previous experience.I've tried several different techniques and things and nothing.I feel so bad that he's not climaxing and that he's probably also having unsatisfying sex. I feel bad that at his age (38) he is putting up with an inexperienced 26 year old. I don't know why I waited so long to have sex; I now regret not getting experience. Should I just break up with him and put us both out of our misery?

2007-09-27 17:05:15 · 23 answers · asked by ConfusedHMD 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-27 17:04:04 · 1 answers · asked by Curious 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend wants to sleep with my sister ..... is that ok????

2007-09-27 17:01:07 · 61 answers · asked by ali 1 in Singles & Dating

what are some good topics that we can talk about?interesting,funny,anything that will lead to a long great converstation.

2007-09-27 17:00:07 · 5 answers · asked by ragnarok4 2 in Friends

2007-09-27 16:57:45 · 6 answers · asked by Stephanie S 2 in Friends

my marriage life in in trouble as i have a bf and because of whom i want to divorce my hubby. but now when my hubby agreed i dont feel like staying away from him as i realised that i love him a lot and cant stay without him one moment also... i do care for my daughter too but my bf is ready to accept me and my child.he also says that we wont have a child and he will treat my daughter as his own blood. he is 23 i am 25. i dont undersatnd what do i do? i dont wanna hurt anyone. but my hubby has also told his parents and now i dont think any chances of patching up with him. i dont want to keep relations with my in laws as i dont like the way they treat me. my bf is ready to leave his family for me and stay with me.please help.

2007-09-27 16:56:30 · 25 answers · asked by tisha k 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So, there is this guy that I went out on a date with and everything went really well...He texted me the day after and we spoke like a week ago and made plans to hang out this weekend.

I spoke to him, and he made it like him and his friends were going out and he wants me to come and now I dont know what to do...

I dont want to go out with him and his friends by myself but I dont want to seem clingy or complicated by declining the offer to go out...My friends are unavailable and I dont want to be too available to him eitehr


UGHHH dating sucks, what do I do?

2007-09-27 16:56:27 · 11 answers · asked by Annie M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-27 16:50:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy was not my boyfriend. but we had feelings for eachother, he lives 2 hours away and i only see him about once a month. we were involved sexually. and i got extremely drunk one night and had a bi curious experience with his sister. i feel awful about it, he found out and now hates me and says he lost all respect for me and says any chance that there was for us is now gone. i was just soo drunk when it happend and i figured if i was going to do somehting like that it should be with someone who i knew well. its not like i would have not wanted him and wanted her. its not like i did his brother and got preg or fell in love or anything like that. it was just a one time experience thing. will he ever forgive me? should he forgive me? i truly am sorry and wish i never done it! b/c i do love this guy!! and i really want to be with him!! i just think if me and her can act as if it never happend then why cant he move past it and give me another chance?

2007-09-27 16:50:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-27 16:50:16 · 23 answers · asked by daisey mami 1 in Singles & Dating

My God Child was dropped off at my door two months ago because her mother (a good friend of mine) has lost her way again. What rights does a God parent have? Will I be able to enroll the child into school next year and if I start a Saving account for the child will the mother be able to get to the money if I but the account in the child’s name?

I have been thinking about this for sometime and i wanted to ask online before i make my next move.


Thanks to all that helps

2007-09-27 16:49:53 · 9 answers · asked by Black Beauty™ 4 in Family

My mom died a year and like, 2 months ago and my dad already has a new girlfriend. It upsets me, and i have told him that it does. She took me out to dinner tonight and i could tell she didn't really like me at all.

How can i work this out?

2007-09-27 16:49:49 · 5 answers · asked by Dear prudence, 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He's used to masturbating almost every night. But in college, he has 2 room-mates and his bed is squeaky. So he can't do it in his dorm.
He doesn't want to use the shower because the shower stalls are co-ed, and he doesn't want there to be *** where total strangers and women take showers.
We see each other every weekend, but where can he masturbate during the 5 days he can't have me? I've noticed he's been more tense and difficult lots of issues have come up because of it.
Ughhh, men and their hormones =P
Anyway, what did you guys do in college? Besides hooking up, of course...

2007-09-27 16:48:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anita 3 in Singles & Dating

Did he get excited?
at work ( i work at a restaurant) i bended over to clean something, so i had my butt up in the air, this guy comes around the corner and opens the door to the room im at and sees my butt in the air and immediately says "omg!" and wow! his face turns bright and has a happy face- a smile to be more exact and calls his friend over and i'm like what? i didnt do it to disgust you and he says "no thats not it-wtf did he mean by that- GUYS i need answers?i'm 20 and hes 25 and my friend told me he thinks i'm attractive..

2007-09-27 16:47:47 · 8 answers · asked by angel 2 in Singles & Dating

And what are the legal issues?

2007-09-27 16:45:59 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I are getting a divorce and I am seeing this guy that my daughter once liked till she knew we started going out. Now when we comes around she gets all hyper and acts out. She gets angry at me and says I don't pay her no attention, which I do. What am I suppose to do?????? Please help

2007-09-27 16:42:41 · 14 answers · asked by rosepedal_25 1 in Marriage & Divorce