So, there is this guy that I went out on a date with and everything went really well...He texted me the day after and we spoke like a week ago and made plans to hang out this weekend.
I spoke to him, and he made it like him and his friends were going out and he wants me to come and now I dont know what to do...
I dont want to go out with him and his friends by myself but I dont want to seem clingy or complicated by declining the offer to go out...My friends are unavailable and I dont want to be too available to him eitehr
UGHHH dating sucks, what do I do?
2007-09-27 16:56:27 · 11 answers · asked by Annie M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is really no harm in going to hang out with him and his friends. I understand it's uncomfortable but if you two could pontentially be a couple, you will have to spend time with his friends either way.
Hanging out with him and his friends will show you how he acts in front of his friends. If he is an immature mess, then you will know he is not someone you want to spend time with.
2007-09-27 17:02:27 · answer #1 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean but the upside to going would be you might get to see him in a different light right away. some guys are jerks to their date when they are around their friends, some are just the same as always and are great people. it might give you some insight before you get too involved. would be nice if one or two of your friends could come along too but they are busy. good luck, hope it works out
2007-09-28 00:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by AlwaysWondering 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him you would rather it just be the two of you. explain that it makes you uncomfortable right now going out with him AND his friends without your friends around too. tell him you'd be happy to go with him and his guys another weekend when your friends are available, but if he's not willing to compromise this weekend then you simply can't go. if he wants to date you too then i think he'll compromise with you.
2007-09-28 00:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to go alone than don't, tell the guy that you want to go out with him before you start going out with him and his friends. However, the friends could be an icebreaker.
2007-09-28 00:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last minute emergency at home. Let him hang out with his buds. Why should you? Enjoy your weekend and meet him for a soda or slice next week.
2007-09-27 23:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by wife2denizmoi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's worth having, one opportunity of you're not being available to go somewhere with him and his buddies won't destroy the relationship
just be natural- if you don't wanna go, don't go, and if that ultimately closes a door for you, so be it. you won't want to be in a relationship where you can't tell him you feel awkward or uncomfortable.
2007-10-05 23:47:19 · answer #6 · answered by giuseppi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple,
if u like him, go
have a good time
he must really like u to ask u to hang with his friends
if ur even unsure, u dont like him enough. dont go. just say u dont want to of he really loves u, he'll understand
2007-09-28 00:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by Hanzhou P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not be a prude ..... simply go out with the fellow if you want to and stop playing baby games with him or yourself
2007-09-28 00:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
reschedule your date or something. if he likes you, he'll make time for you.
2007-09-28 00:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by canucme1603 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to go then go, if you don't then don't.
2007-10-05 23:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by Alyse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋