Family & Relationships - 27 September 2007

Is there anything that I can say that can be funny or lighten up the day for everyone, oh and I don't want to get in trouble so I need something funny or something that wont get me in trouble. Can anyone think of something that will get people to listen to the announcements because hardly anyone hears them.

2007-09-27 16:36:08 · 3 answers · asked by Hi 3 in Friends

No matter how much you try to teach them or tell them what you like...

And yes s.ex is part of a marriage and my s.ex life sucks with my husband really bad...

He is done in like 1 minute or so and this is true.

2007-09-27 16:35:35 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How is technology good, bad and ugly? give complete setence and examples for each categories (good, bad and ugly).

2007-09-27 16:32:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I thought this guy gave me good signals. He told me that he was thinking about me when he was in my neighborhood the other night. Even though he has a pager he told me to get in touch with him on his cell phone. We had lunch together (we both work at the same place) and afterwards he brought me to this spot where you can sit down together (we were alone) and see a great view of the city.

What do you all think? I texted him and I'm waiting for a response.

2007-09-27 16:30:25 · 6 answers · asked by quirkyfunnyone 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean guys with no class at all. She cheated on her boyfriend back home with several guys when she first got to college - one was with a guy on the first night of frosh orientation. The second time was in her college dorm room with an out of town guy who paid her by check for sex.

There were a few other guys who got her drunk in bars and then took her back to her dorm room for sex - noticed by others on her floor.

One of those guys is a college grad 5 years older than her who works two dead end jobs - probably because of a shoplifting conviction. She not only slept with him, but his older married half-brother - behind his back, and also in a threesome.

The latest guy is 19 years older than her, who beat his wife and a child, divorced the wife, went bankrupt, and had to be taken to court twice to pay child support. He always seems to have money for flash clothes and a car, although he can't pay his property taxes or auto insurance.

Could it be she is compensating?

2007-09-27 16:29:47 · 13 answers · asked by Raleigh Guy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am the luckiest daughter alive to have the cooliest parents in the world who are happily married of 21 years. i can just cry right now for typing this, this has been bothering me for years, i have tried and tried and tried to get this out of my head, i imagine my mom getting attack by a pack of dogs, or her head cut off screaming so much, or my dad getting in a car crash or falling off the bridge into the water with sharks, i can't stop being worried because all of these are CAPABLE of happening. i hate this throb in my throat, i love them so much i can't stand of thought of knowing they wont be around one day, it hurts so bad and i need some help. im going to miss my mom's smile and she laughs alot, and my dad, hes such a geek and always wants me to be happy, i hate that they are working, i rather work for them and let them relax. please is there anybody who can help me, im so sick of feeling this way, i worry every single day!!!! please please help.

2007-09-27 16:26:52 · 13 answers · asked by A Decade Ago 7 in Family

I've been happily married for almost a year. I like to socialize and am still in contact with my ex-boyfriend.

My husband and I have no issues with trust. I tell him everything, except this. To me, there's no big deal abt being in contact with my ex-bf coz I have no feelings whatsoever for him. Thing is, hubby seems to think that I dumped him earlier becoz of the guy.

Ok basically, I dumped my hubby once because of some relationship issues. and then I got attached to this ex-b/f. and then I dumped this ex-b/f because he was not ready for marriage and then I married my husband. I know it sounds really mean but, anyway, hubby still thinks I dumped him back then coz of this guy. which is not true. but since we got married, both he and I never ever mentioned about this ex-b/f again.

I am not really in frequent comms with my ex but I do refer to him as a reference on certain things becoz we share some specialised interests.

Issue is, am i betraying hub's trust in me?

2007-09-27 16:26:28 · 35 answers · asked by Girls O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My first wife left becasue of the spanking but this one loves it. Is it wrong I like to spank her? Oh yea and my first wife? She was a bad bad girl

2007-09-27 16:24:59 · 48 answers · asked by Big D 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-27 16:19:53 · 28 answers · asked by Spartacus 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-27 16:19:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this man 12 years ago when we first got together i though it was going to be like a couple of weeks of a few months but was i rong it turn out 12 years. Now i have grown to love him. But recently he has slow down with me in my heart i know that is the best but i miss him so much. Sometimes i just want to come out with it and tell eveything because i get angry with him. I wonder and wonder does he love me any at all after 12 years. See he is not much of showing his feelings. Right now i'm trying with all of my heart of letting go. Then i get to thinking he should not get off that easy and leave me holding the bag. i have done everything that i know i gave him my soul my mind and body i'm so tired of hanging on but still cant let. he knows how i feel but yet he tells me its all in my head Boy i wish!! It took me 12 years to see what is going on it hurts me but its base up on sex! I know he is not going to leave the girfriend at home but you know she needs to know.

2007-09-27 16:18:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So a friend and her fiance want to get married at JOP then they are having their church wedding a few months later. They want to keep it secret but is it possible because at the wedding at the church don't you sign documents with the Paster?! How can they do this without NOBODY knowing? Not even the pastor. please help!

2007-09-27 16:17:01 · 18 answers · asked by married to my hero 1 in Weddings

how do u heal a broken heart?

2007-09-27 16:15:21 · 11 answers · asked by That Girrl♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

okay so my husband and i have been together for 8 years and married for 4,my mother in law was the perfect mother in law until the day we got married.she always is rude to me and saying things i didnt even say.she tells other family members lies about me.my husband and i have worked things out with us and he understamds how his mother is but it still bothers me she gets away with this stuff she does,how to i say to back off with out causeing more ripples in the water and with out her spreading more lies??

2007-09-27 16:14:20 · 16 answers · asked by his_wife72603 1 in Family

To whom it may concern:

Everyday for the last 7.5 years of my life has been an adventure. Not a bad one, but not a good one either. I have a daughter whom I love very much that means the world to me, but after 7,5 years of life, that is about it. I am not proud of my marriage nor am I happy about it. Not that it has been a bad marriage, it has just been a very dull excitmentless marriage between two people who are EXTREMELY different. My finances are a frickin nightmare! I have been foreclosed upon, repossessed and called 24/7 by bill collectors who want there money. I am 26 years old. I feel as though I have been an adult my whole life. I just want to slow down, and see what life could be like if I tried to experience it and enjoy it more. If I could enjoy the simpler things in life and learn to appreciate what I have and not cry about what I want. If I could just start all over that would be so fantastic, but I can't. No one can. We can start new, but not all over.

So, that is what I want! I want to start new. I want to look in the mirror one morning and see a woman that I am proud of. See a woman that I can look right in the eyes and say "you go girl." I want to be a woman that my daughter can idolize and say I want to be just like her when I grow up.

Unfortunately, that means that I am going to have to be selfish and move on. Start a new life without being married. I love my husband dearly and I care for him, but I am not in love with him. I do not want to hurt him, and I do not want to make his life miserable, but I want mine to be better. The only way to do that is to start completely new.

I would love to hear what others have to say about this. Please let me know your thoughts and opinions. Please be honest as I am not looking for your help or asking you what to do, I have already made up my mind what to do. I am simply asking for your opinions.

2007-09-27 16:13:40 · 17 answers · asked by luvin the life 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-27 16:12:24 · 8 answers · asked by ilovesesshy 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-09-27 16:10:35 · 11 answers · asked by Destiny 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend's sisterin-law called her a wh*re and warned her to leave her husband alone because one day she was depressed and vented to him in an email about everything she was going thru and feeling.
The two of them(her and her brother-in law) talk otherwise about stuff and I guess she just felt comfortable venting to him.Was it inapropriate for her to vent to him?
I saw the email and she didn't come on to him or make like he was her boyfriend..it just seemed like one person talking about their issues with another person(like a friend or family).
His wife sent her something saying to stop sending desperate emails to her husband and called her a whore..Who's was wrong?

2007-09-27 16:10:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you could be the new student in school, at your Mom's highschool, and become her friend....would you do it....?

2007-09-27 16:10:08 · 3 answers · asked by Sweet Judy 7 in Singles & Dating

your best friend's boyfriend told you that he likes you and he is willing to break-up with her just to be with you.... what are you going to do???,..

2007-09-27 16:08:19 · 3 answers · asked by Andrea Lopez 1 in Singles & Dating

If she insists on moving out, should I help her with furnishings or money? I am stumped.

2007-09-27 16:06:18 · 17 answers · asked by MBA-MsBadAss 3 in Family

I feel like I need to get a new women after having sex with a women after 2 or 3 times. Is this natural for guys?

2007-09-27 16:05:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-27 16:02:07 · 29 answers · asked by slim_unique1 1 in Singles & Dating

My kids father shows at least 7 signs of antisocial personality disorder. Everything he does, says, looks at a certain way, thinks... it all benefits him eventually. When he keeps the children, how long he keeps them, it is always at his convenience, and if it's not convenient for him, he makes his mother take them by guilt tripping her about how bad a mother she was to him. He lies about what he's paid to the daycare, leaving me responsible and I'm so strapped that milk is a luxury. He constantly gets on his mom and I about carseats, but never remembers them... he is manipulation central. I don't want my children to grow up thinking it's ok to use people like he does.
He's a liar, he has no respect for ANYONE/THING. He feels the world owes him something. No self accountability at all.
He's illegal. His help at this point is worthless.Which is better; seeing him do nothing or be sure that there is no way I can even try to ask for some fairness?
He does love his kids.

2007-09-27 15:59:49 · 5 answers · asked by julianna85014 1 in Family

i want to get marryed in a court room in saan diego, cali.

2007-09-27 15:59:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

This girl in my college is sooo nice...i mean i've had a HUGE crush on her...She sits beside me in Chem lab but English is my second language and im just afraid that i wont be able to have a good communication with her...i mean i can speak about random things but when it comes to joking or some other things i have some difficulties to understand or talk....but im really into her !!! GOD...i dont know what i should do !!!i cant stop thinking about her ! i will do anything to get her but im just afraid...

2007-09-27 15:55:24 · 9 answers · asked by Ali 4 in Singles & Dating

I have come to realize that the man i wrote about in the last question is so incredibly amazing. We have been together for 7 months now and everything is awesome. All the spark and chemistry is still there between us. I am so incredibly in love with him. We are now trying to have a baby and have talked about getting married.We have been trying to have a baby for a little over 5 months now. But so far we haven't had any luck. We are patient and we know it will happen. My family love him and so do i. so incredibly much. We are both so happy .. My family and his support us 100% and think we are being rational. It isn't like a spur of the moment decision.This is something we talked about and made sure we are financially able. I want to be a mother so bad, and not just any mother, the mother of HIS children and I have never even attempted to have a child with anyone else, except him. Everything just feels so right. I KNOW this is the next step we both want to take. What do you think?

2007-09-27 15:55:19 · 6 answers · asked by linderlou2006 2 in Family

I liek this guy a lot and i barley know him! I've been at this for a month now and nothign has happened yet! i am so sick of not getting what i want ever!! i know this sounds stupid but like when i see him and i want to say something, but then i automatically go into cool mode. i want to write him a note, but my friend did that once to another guy and he just laughed at her. What should i do? and if i write the note what should it say?

2007-09-27 15:53:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am having difficutly coming up with wedding location ideas. I haven't really started looking yet I am just racking my brain & not coming up with much. We don't have a church that we regularly attend right now. Are there old churches in cities that you can just get married in? (as in do those exist or did I imagine that? and how would I find them?) I don't really feel comfortable just finding a random church but who knows. I am not against outside except I'm afraid I would worry about weather too much (and I don't want to sweat at my wedding!) Besides, church & beach & cruise where else are common wedding places? preferrably indoors

2007-09-27 15:50:21 · 7 answers · asked by Amanda 4 in Weddings

Well my girlfriend is turning 18th on October 31st, well also its halloween! I was just wondering how to make it memorable for her, i dont have a lot of money, meaning i dont have a job right now cuz i am concentrating on school, but i saved up around $200 what would be romantic,cute, memorable for her! Appreaciate all ideas! thanks

2007-09-27 15:47:17 · 1 answers · asked by justanotherguy 1 in Singles & Dating