i met this man 12 years ago when we first got together i though it was going to be like a couple of weeks of a few months but was i rong it turn out 12 years. Now i have grown to love him. But recently he has slow down with me in my heart i know that is the best but i miss him so much. Sometimes i just want to come out with it and tell eveything because i get angry with him. I wonder and wonder does he love me any at all after 12 years. See he is not much of showing his feelings. Right now i'm trying with all of my heart of letting go. Then i get to thinking he should not get off that easy and leave me holding the bag. i have done everything that i know i gave him my soul my mind and body i'm so tired of hanging on but still cant let. he knows how i feel but yet he tells me its all in my head Boy i wish!! It took me 12 years to see what is going on it hurts me but its base up on sex! I know he is not going to leave the girfriend at home but you know she needs to know.
2007-09-27 16:18:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the sounds of it - he's moved on to someone ELSE as well...
Looks like Karma reached up, and bit you right on the @$$ - the guy you are cheating on your husband with is now cheating on YOU ;);););)
2007-09-27 16:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
". . . you know she needs to know". Dear, why does she need to "know" all of a sudden when this has been going on for 12 years?
I'll tell you why. You made a truly stupid decision to stay in such a relationship for 12 years. And now it's coming to an end. The fun is over. The sex is over. So you want to screw up his life as revenge.
He may have some feelings for you . . . as the village bicycle. I mean, dear, 12 YEARS. I'm not saying what he did was "right", but you are trying to blame him for not "loving" you.
Face the reality. You were a 12 year shag. Nothing more or he would have left his girlfriend. Take responsibility for YOUR decision. Act maturely and leave gracefully. If you pursue the "revenge" and destroy another person ... namely the girlfriend . . .then you are indeed nothing mroe than a vicious sl*t.
2007-09-27 23:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by Skully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of that relationship as soon as you can and just run. 12 years is a lot of time to waste on a man who obviously dosn't really love you the way that you love him. Don't worry so much about the girlfriend just be happy to get out. If you feellike you just have to tell her then do it but you need to get away from him. Good luck to you and be strong.
2007-09-27 23:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by Janice M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're scum for having an affair and pathetic for doing it for twelve years. Grow up and move on.
2007-09-27 23:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by CJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has the right too know. If he did this to her with you whats too stop him doing it with someone else... you both deserve better... give her an anonymous phone call/letter and then keep right away from him
2007-09-27 23:22:34 · answer #5 · answered by sammy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wow you should go on Springer
2007-09-27 23:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋