I have come to realize that the man i wrote about in the last question is so incredibly amazing. We have been together for 7 months now and everything is awesome. All the spark and chemistry is still there between us. I am so incredibly in love with him. We are now trying to have a baby and have talked about getting married.We have been trying to have a baby for a little over 5 months now. But so far we haven't had any luck. We are patient and we know it will happen. My family love him and so do i. so incredibly much. We are both so happy .. My family and his support us 100% and think we are being rational. It isn't like a spur of the moment decision.This is something we talked about and made sure we are financially able. I want to be a mother so bad, and not just any mother, the mother of HIS children and I have never even attempted to have a child with anyone else, except him. Everything just feels so right. I KNOW this is the next step we both want to take. What do you think?
2007-09-27 15:55:19 · 6 answers · asked by linderlou2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Drink four glass of milk every day, one before bed and in 3 months you will get pregnant, but you must be married for it to happen.
2007-09-27 17:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by Goodhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exchanging marriage vows insures that you BOTH really mean to be together - for better or worse - and it insures Daddy wont try and run off and leave you high and dry.
You are in the romantic thrill of it all, and you are not thinking straight - - GET MARRIED first, babies later. Is there any reason why you are not already married?
2007-09-27 17:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of you adult men sound like Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes the way each and every thing is so "superb" and "staggering" and "surprising". It grow to be as though those are the only 3 words in the dictionary those 2 knew. Being mom and dad is extensive. Having youngsters transformations your courting. you desire a solid commencing up for that form of stress. you're saying each and every of the spark and chemistry is "nevertheless" there after 7 months. nicely it would be. in case you are able to say that once some years and a pair of infants, now this could be a assertion. the nice and comfortable button is you are going to do what you are going to do and our comments shouldn't and don't recommend something. Spend here couple of months attending to be attentive to one yet another extra advantageous. If existence is surprising such as you're saying, there should not be something you are able to't talk. those conversations could be fairly enlightening and exciting. they are going to the two carry you even closer mutually or make you think of a few extra. those are themes that many times arise over the years, yet if you consider which you adult men have bolted for the time of the traditional stages of attending to be attentive to one yet another, there is not any time like the present to start up speaking.... funds--spend it, keep it, joint account, separate account? intercourse--have you ever overtly stated sexual desires, alternatives, and fears? infants--how many, who would be the prevalent caregiver? How will this influence funds? faith--have you ever overtly stated and many times going on one yet another's perspectives on faith? How will the youngsters be raised? wellness--have you ever the two totally disclosed healthful histories, the two psychological and actual? buddies--do you like and appreciate one yet another's buddies? Are there any buddies that annoy you? family members--do you like and appreciate one yet another's mom and dad and family members? Are there any family members participants that annoy you? verbal substitute--are you delicate with the point of verbal substitute? Do you somewhat pay attention to one yet another and extremely evaluate one yet another’s innovations and courtroom circumstances? COMPROMISE--Are there some issues that the two of you're actually not arranged to resign in courting? If one in each and every of you have been to be presented a profession possibility in a region a ways from the different’s family members might you be arranged to pass? solid success.
2016-10-20 04:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by gustavo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do this right!
Get married FIRST, then talk about babies!
You need that piece of paper to get benefits... including any life insurance if he happens to suddenly drop off the side of the earth!
Don't sell yourself short!
2007-09-27 16:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't you have this a bit backwards.
don't you think you should be getting married FIRST and THEN be trying to get pregnant???
2007-09-27 16:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well hate to wreck your little twillight moment your having here,but it'll never last but have fun till it does!
2007-09-27 16:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋