why do i get bored with women after having sex two or three times?

Question

I feel like I need to get a new women after having sex with a women after 2 or 3 times. Is this natural for guys?

Answer 1

I think it is a very natural feeling for some guys. And some women as well. The fun is in the chase. And after you get what you want, the chase is over. I think it just means you haven't met the right woman yet. When you meet the right one, sex won't seem so important. And you won't be able to wait until the next time you get to be with her. Until then, as long as you are not hurting these women emotionally, and they are not getting attached...casual relationships seem just fine to me.

Answer 2

It is natural. You discovered the lie about how sex is a natural healthy thing with no moral implications.

Casual sex never, ever satifies. It only makes you want more sex. After you've "been there, done that" with a woman you realize she isn't going to satisfy you so you move on to the next.

What we all really want and really need is to love and be loved. Stop having sex and learn to focus on connecting with a woman on a deeper level. That will help you find what you are looking for.

But it's not just about you. Stop being so selfish. Don't you realize that many of those woman are just having sex in hopes that you'll love them? You're doing a lot of harm.

Answer 3

Have you ever considered the fact that you may be having sex with the wrong women?

When you meet someone that you really connect with you'll understand what I mean by that.

I'm sure after having sex with these women you feel like you've conquered the mountain and you seek another to climb. I don't think that's unnatural, but very risky. You could slip and fall (i.e. STD's). Protect yourself, and good hunting.

Answer 4

It is not natural for men. It is natural for self-absorbed little boys who don't care about anyone but themselves. How would you feel if you finally met "the one" and after having sex 2 or 3 times she dumped you? Think of other people, not just yourself. Also, you obviously are having sex before you even get to know or care about them, or you would not leave so easily. Have you heard of AIDS???

Answer 5

It is probably because it is "Just SEX" to you...You aren't letting yourself get attached to the girl. If you go in with only the intention of SEX then of course it is going to get boring after the first few times because there is no Challenge there anymore, you aren't having to work for it.

Answer 6

natural or unnatural isn't the question ask you your self why you get bored after 3times if you cant find out its normal play the field just be safe and have fun no need to sit on the sidelines till your ready by the way it is natural your a guy variety is the spice of life no one want toast every day for the rest of their life have fun mixing it up

Answer 7

Some men, but not all, tend towards this. They feel the need of a "conquest". Also, "variety is the spice of life" and all that. Sooner or later, most will settle down with that someone special.

Answer 8

if you're having sex just to do it, then it's a sign that you aren't connected with these women. Afraid of commitment possibly?? When you find a woman that you really want to be with or really like, maybe you'll change your mind.

Answer 9

Because you never took the time to develop a true connection with them. They are no more special than toilet paper to you.

Answer 10

All it means is you aren't ready to settle down.