What would you do if you met the One for you after you were married?

Answer 1

i would stay with the person i was married to. i'd feel so bad if i divorced her. you better not hope that she's looking at this right now...

Answer 2

That's not possible! If you got married then you have already met that person. If by meeting someone else you feel this way then you are going on feelings of lust and your being unfaithful to your wife. Thats the problem with this country today, that everyone thinks marriage is just a glorified boyfriend/girlfriend and don't thank about the purpose God has intended it for and that is complete love to one another and love your wife like Christ loved the church. Even if your not a christian you know how much Christ loves the church.
My advice is to get as far from the person that you are starting to have feelings for if you truly love your wife. Good luck

Answer 3

Remind yourself that you already have the ONE. You made a commitment to someone you love very much. What do you really know about this other person? Things would probably change with her if you got a divorce, she may be flirting with you because she knows your married. That may make her feel safer flirt, cause you wont do anything, your married!

The grass is never greener on the other side, it just looks nice from a distance.

Answer 4

Have sex on the sly until I was certain that I would be happier with her than my wife. Then divorce my wife and marry her. However, that is almost impossible in the real world. That is because there is no such thing as "the one." There are millions of girls that would be acceptable and that I could be happy with and they are all very much alike. There would be tiny differences but basically they would all be the same.

Answer 5

Only fate knows if he is really the one. Let's be honest how many times have we found the one and be let down.? But lets just assume he is: easier said then done, try to be somewhat honest with your husband, I am not saying to tell him you are having an affair, just tell him the same ole stuff, we are growing apart and perhaps it time for a seperation. Just be real careful the exact same situation happen to me last year. After leaving myboyfriend and starting my life with the "one, man of my dreams" it didn't end up a happy story. In fact I am back with my prior boyfriend now with child. (not his, and he knows) So just be careful and don't rush, even though your heart is telling you something else is my advice

Answer 6

I'd say, "I'm sorry, I've already met the One twenty-three years ago. I committed then, and I'm committed now."

Really, I think "the One" is a misnomer. In any one person's life, I think due to different choices that we make, we could run into several potential spouses in our lifetimes. Whether we react by choosing to begin a relationship is up to us, if we hurry. The heart is a sticky organ, and it falls in love easily. Even in the wrong time, wrong place, and with the wrong person.

Answer 7

I have a better one for you. What if you believe you have met the one for you but they were married? Yeah like sucks

Answer 8

geezuz
there is no "one"
when will you learn you are both replaceable in any relationship
and all those people who find the "one" get divorced at 50% of the time
so what does that tell you?
that it's a myth
and you may fall for another
and think she is the end all of end alls
but that's because you think you cannot get better or another
so you put women up on a pedestel and lower you own self value

Answer 9

If I met the onr after I was married, and my marriage was already fallin apart I would, walk out and divorce, adn marry the one!

Answer 10

I will laugh because, my life is with my husband. It is okay and I will say hello and act normal. I will not cry or think about the One but, if my marriage is falling apart. For sure I will go after him again and he has to be a single.

Answer 11

I simply wouldnt get married unless I met the One for me!!!!!