Family & Relationships - 27 September 2007

I know i know... But he broke up with me, just a few days ago. And at first i was like, okay i can understand why *(he said there was no chemistry) then when i called my friend to tell her, i boke out in tears!!!!But she's the only one who knows that it upset me. Everyoen i told thinks i'm okay with it, even him. And now i'm starting to like his best-friend, but i still like him and he seems to want to get back together (not that he's siad anything about it). Do i go after his friend or see if he wants to give it another try?

2007-09-27 14:44:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I get home from work, I'm tired. All she has to do is stand at a cash register all day. The heavyest thing she has to lift is a 5 pound bag a sugar. I work hard for my money. She should have dinner ready when I get home an not aspect me to wash dishes or take the dog out. I dont get what she matters. How do I conveince her to do the girl things around the house? we have 2 kids 3 and 4.

2007-09-27 14:44:02 · 72 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so last year i got into the musical and i took a leap of faith and invited him to come on friday and he said he couldn't cause he was going to play laser tag. it was freshman year and i'm over it now but i was reading something about laser tag and i remembered it so i thought i would ask if most guys are jerks and lame

2007-09-27 14:43:04 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How long did it last?

2007-09-27 14:38:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how tight? wet? or if you were a guy, would you like do things to yourself to see what you felt like?

(yea I know i posted this question twice, this is worded different, I think)

2007-09-27 14:37:55 · 8 answers · asked by Hater2 3 in Singles & Dating

It's not like we are that hard to figure out.

2007-09-27 14:34:20 · 23 answers · asked by hungryeyes001 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I think its really funny..like when guys fight its all serious...

But its funny when girls do...

DO guys think its funny...have you ever seen girls fight..

2007-09-27 14:25:08 · 11 answers · asked by KK 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been with this guy for like 5 years (we have a 3 year old son) and he wants me to marry him. I love him a lot and he knows all of my dirty secrets (like my family is nuts). Should I say yes? I love him a lot... just don't know that I am willing to spend the rest of my life with him.... I want to get married and even though he can be a jerk, don't know if I can find better. So, the big question is if I should say yes to his proposal. We have been together 5 years tomorrow.

2007-09-27 14:21:59 · 12 answers · asked by Valerie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 14 year old guy and one of my good friends is having a party at his house. I was not invited. My X girlfriend was invited though. She asked him if he was going to invite me and he said "IDK he won't know anyone" and I know 3/4 of the people going. Is he mad at me? Im so confused. What should I do I feel rejected haha

-Matthew

2007-09-27 14:20:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-27 14:19:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she was once my best friend. we were not on good terms in graduating year. had graduated for 3 years already and have not keep in contact. will be seeing her at my friend's wedding soon. i'm worried we will be placed at the same table. how can i happily attend the dinner w/o feeling uneasy. help.:)

2007-09-27 14:14:44 · 3 answers · asked by cheer 3 in Friends

I mean seriously....who can you trust then?

2007-09-27 14:13:55 · 18 answers · asked by I want to eat your soul. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been married 12 years. Have a 4 year old. My sex life would not exsist any more if I did not "harass" my wife to have relations. I do not remember the last time she made an effort to jump me or even surprise me by wearing lingere...so as a result I tend to be agressive. What do I do to constitue harassment? Well I grab her here and there and try to get close with her...feel like that is the only way I can cajole her. What the heck is going on with her? She always says she is tired but will stay up watching TV until 11 or so and then I AM too tired to enjoy it. Do I repulse her? Is she out of love?
I recently met another woman and have had sex with her and now do not know wtf I am doing...am having feelings for the other woman but probably because she pays attention to me and we have fun together. Please help. I am almost to the point of running away with the circus...ie divorce...but have the kiddo and a new house. I am miserable...please don't judge me...just help. Thanks.

2007-09-27 14:10:01 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married what will be 5 yrs soon, I am 25 yrs old going on 26 and my husband is 35 yrs old.I have a daughter who is 5 yrs old from a previous relationship and a son who will be turning 2 yrs old(he shares the same dad as my daughter).Our divorce is a bit ugly he cheated we seperated i cheated in retalition which is how my son was concieved.We tried to make it work but that turned out badly.The result was my hubby vandalized our home,took apliances,left the house pretty much vacant,and he also destroyed some of my personal things along with the some of the kids stuff.
My hubby said he is willing to give $850 for destroyed items
and $400 a month for 6 months in alimony?Do negociate frome here?

2007-09-27 14:05:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a fat guy that's extremely attracted to thin women

2007-09-27 14:05:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yeah so I really like him and he never notices me I'm a skater and he used to be one to but then he changed and like other people also like him I will cry so badif he doesnt like me cause I am really crazy over him and I can not stop thinking about him please help me to try to get a way to get him to notice and like me. Oh and I am really emmbarassed to talk to him cause the one time I did my friend told him straight up I thought he was hot which was true so now its hard to talk to him

2007-09-27 14:01:34 · 4 answers · asked by Skater_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-27 13:56:42 · 3 answers · asked by carey underwood 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, i really like this girl and well i really don't chat with her much. Sure we say HI and and there sometimes in the hallways but thats about it. I know that she has like me before and now the thing is i don't even know how to approach her. I am terrified, last time i talked to her, we spent the period in silence....I FROZE! UGH!, now if i approach her how do i do it? What are some good help on breaking the ice and getting to talk to her mostly everyday! Thanks~

2007-09-27 13:56:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are arrogant men an instant turn off or do you find them attractive in some ways?

2007-09-27 13:55:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So i moved in with this girl who is not my g/f in fact i posted an ad on myspace for a roommate and she responded so she moved in. Anyways my question is she has a b/f of 4 years but it is a long distance relationship, and they both agreed it can be an open relationship. So my difficulty is one night we are drinking as she says that she doesn't have sex with roommates but yet we both flirt with each other and we get along great and i am falling for her. I don't know what to do any advice would be great.

2007-09-27 13:52:04 · 1 answers · asked by lb_surferman 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-27 13:50:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it you?☺☻

2007-09-27 13:46:31 · 10 answers · asked by †ღChristian♥Girlღ† 2 in Friends

How do I hint to this boy to ask me to homecoming?
Homecomings really soon, I want this boy to ask me.
We're becoming friends, I thought he was going to ask me today.
A bunch of us were talking in class while we were waiting for the bell to ring, and he turns to me and says 'do you have a date to homecoming?' and I, not really thinking, said "nah. I'm just going in a group of friends' and he's like 'yeah, i don't have a date either, and am also going in a group of friends' and then we just both said something stupid (i don't remember what) and then he suddenly turns to the rest of the group and is like 'what about you guys? do you guys have dates?' and I was just thinking 'damn.'
So I cant bring up that subject again,
but what are some ways to hint to him that he can ask me and i would say yes???

2007-09-27 13:43:55 · 7 answers · asked by cambrexia 4 in Singles & Dating

Did you hug, kiss,hold hands a lot? anything else like that? Thank You.

2007-09-27 13:41:08 · 6 answers · asked by sammy55 2 in Singles & Dating

my mom is starting to take drugs cause she is depressed due to my dad abusing all of us.i wanna get her to stop.when i saw drugs i am not talking about pot i am talking about taking a bunch of uneeded meds at once.i wanna runaway cause my dad is always yelling and abusing leaving us all with bruises.how can i stop my mom from doing this?i can actually related to the song runaway love the part about nickole.

2007-09-27 13:39:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If your spouse got very fat, or suddenly got very thin, could that be a relationship "deal breaker"?

2007-09-27 13:38:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was at work when she left. I found out she was unfaithful to me. Was married 23 yrs.

2007-09-27 13:37:01 · 10 answers · asked by e76jc 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a crush on this guy who I'm pretty sure likes me back, well until today that is. This action completely confused me! We were talking before class when this girl comes up to him and asks what he got on a test. While he's getting out his test to the time he hands it to her, she finds every excuse to touch him! First she ruffles his hair, touches his face commenting that he didn't shave that morning, touches his arms etc. He didn't touch her back, but he didn't exactly stop her either. He did look a little flushed though. Then he goes "This is my friend ____." And he turns to his friend and goes "This is-" then he pauses. I was like how could he NOT know my name? (We just met this year in class and we've talked and hung out a couple times so I know he knows my name!) Then the girl shoots me this look like she's wants to say HA! but plasters a smile on her face (touches his arm again) and starts giggling commenting on how dare he not know my name. [CONTINUED BELOW]

2007-09-27 13:36:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that love comes when you least expect it?

2007-09-27 13:34:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thank goodness I am a good honest boy.

http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20070927/od_nm/china_kiss_dc;_ylt=AkweNgoJi_ZVGAuhkmTsZRCs0NUE

2007-09-27 13:31:06 · 2 answers · asked by Patrick the Carpathian, CaFO 7 in Singles & Dating