Why don't men understand woman?

Question

It's not like we are that hard to figure out.

Answer 1

Because if we are sexy, they think that we are trying to hook them. If we are not, we have no sex appeal. If we are close to them, they think we are flirt. If we don't they think we are snob. If we give attention to their faults they say, "whoa are you?" If we don't they wonder why. If we agree with all their likes they're abusing, if we don't they think we don't trust them. If we are wearing mini-skirts they think we want every body's eyes focus on us, if we don't we are hiding for something. If we let them visit us often they claim it is boring, if we don't they accused we are waiting for someone. If we are visited by another man they accused us of double-crossing. If were a minute late (on a date) they don't accept any alibi, if they're late "sorry dear" the traffic is heavy. If accept their proposal within brief acquaintanceship they think that we are easy- to- get type, if we don't they say were shy. If we beauty ourselves they think that we are trying to captivate their attention, if we don't were as good as nothing. If we let them kiss us always they ask for more, if we don't they doubt our love. If we attempt romance they think that we are experienced woman, if we don't they claim we are dry. If we contradict them they don't like it, if we don't they think we are gullible.
Oh, Man! thou art so many and yet so smug, so self centered and yet so self-sufficient yet so proven.

Answer 2

Men and Women are equally different from one another so you would expect equally incomprehensible. However generally women spend more time thinking about relationships. So the generality is that Women understand men better, but generalities do not apply to individuals. I've known women that are clueless as to the inner workings of the male psyche (and think they know a lot). And, I've known men that are quite interested in understanding women and spend the time, ask questions, listen and learn.

Answer 3

The simple, age old answer is that men are head (logical ) thinkers and women are heart(emotional) thinkers. Yes, that may sound sexist but it's not meant to be. I am merely stating that many women think with their hearts and many men have difficulty understanding women because of that. As men we are often taught NOT to let our emotions show and that this is a sign of weakness. Things that we consider weak, we don't give much credence to and as a result, sadly, don't pay too much attention to those that exibit them.
In a nutshell, we don't take the time to understand that women look at many situations from a different perspective. And that their pespectives are just as valid and in many cases, better than our own.

Answer 4

It all varies from one woman to another. several factors may play a big role as to why men find it hard to understand there wives. They were all brought in different cultures, temparament and family backgrounds. Most of them however some similar similarities including, crying unnecessary, keep on changing minds, personality different, and even the degree on honesty, truthfull and trustfull varies from woman to woman. They can say one thing meaning the other way and us men find sometimes hard to understand them if they meant what they said or it means another way round. Some women like complaining too much.Some prefer to hit back and equalizes whenever they are hurt. A small margin actually would prefer to react in a different way to solve a problem peacefully at home.

Answer 5

Men use logic and reality to reason out life where women use feelings and emotions before truth, reality and logic. Neither seems to be able to find a peaceful middle ground and hang tightly on to their approach, never grasping the other's perspective.
And men do like to hear the story that goes along with the direct questions we ask, but we get a bit impatient waiting through the "story" to get the answer to the question.

Answer 6

It's a cliche but to expect someone "from Mars" to readily figure out someone "from Venus" or vice versa is I think asking too much. Let us celebrate each other's similarities and be thankful for our differences. The latter is simply a validation of the fact that we are unique. Now isn't that enough to smile about? When nothing's left to figure out, life loses its mystique...Thank the Heavens that your husband/friend/lover/whatever can't always "see through you" or "read your thoughts" (that would be more disastrous in any relationship, don't you think?).

Answer 7

You are easy to seduce and to cajole. But to understand? C'mon. You all spend your lives analyzing everything from 'what did she mean by that' to 'I wonder why oranges are orange'. Men are pretty straight forward. The smarter ones can seduce you with looks and flattery and attention, the dumber ones fall in love with you and actually try to understand you. But you are only interested in analysis and as soon as you think you've got one of the dumb and or ugly ones figured out you drop him for someone who is dangerous, bad, or 'intense'. You are just kidding us.

Answer 8

I'm 46 and I have done my share of dating and was married for 16 years.I still don't understand woman.I know alot about them but understand them NO.Guess I never will.After a while guys just get tired of trying to figure them out.

Answer 9

Men usually think of themselves and think that women think the same way they do. They can't get their heads around a woman thinks because its not in their nature to do so.
They can only see the male point of view.

Answer 10

Because it takes time to be educated on the other sex.
Actually, we women are complicated creatures. Full of
emotions that men do not experience being a Male.
God Bless.