How often do you and your husband argue, and does he talk down to you ever?

Answer 1

My husband used to try that with me so I started doing the same thing with him, it stopped really quick. I couldn't understand how he could be so condescending to me and try to talk "at" me or down to me instead having an adult argument, per say.

Let's just say it is so much better now!

Answer 2

My husband never talks down to me, but yes we argue. We tend to have arguments about 1 time a month. He is a really great man. I love him w/ all my heart. My advice to you if you are arguing a lot is to first focus on what you are arguing about. After that just try to go to the softer and lighter side of your soul to help you w/ this problem. I am NOT a religious person, but when I am stuck in a situation that is tough and I that I really do not have an answer for I ask the part of me that has the higher power inside myself what I should do!!! Good luck in your life and your marriage!

Answer 3

In the last 2 weeks we have argued 3 times.

We have asked each other "are you angry" and chose not to discuss it 4 times.

We have sat there with "tudes" 5 or 6 times.

In the last 5 weeks, he has made snide remarks to poke a needle in my side at least 6 or 7 times.
I have done it to him about 4 times.

Talk down to each other? Hmm... I don't know.

Answer 4

My husband and I argue once a month (usually during my period). He does talk down every once in a while, but it is usually during a heated arguement. I can't complain because I sometimes catch myself doing it to him too. So far it has been 6 weeks since our last fight.

Answer 5

pretty often. about once every 3 - 4 days. when we are not fighting, we are the best thing that ever happen to LOVE. perfect couple. when we fight, we are the worst. can be violent and really mean, and often ends up with him kicking me our or him packing his stuff.
we have been married for only 3 years.
talking down, yes, but only when we are fighting. he is sweet. we are both good people i guess, but we bring the worst in eachother and when we fight both of us become really really evil. like different people.
we may not last long. i love him very much though

Answer 6

Has been times, yes. In marriage there has to be Respect
at all times. In good times and in bad times. If there is respect not a lot of room for critisim.
God Bless.
People get mad because there air hose has been stepped on, anger does not come from nothing. Not being Respectful to Husband and not being Loving to Wife is same as there air hose being stepped on, and they react out of anger.

Answer 7

YES, we are argue atleast once a day and FIGHT once a month. The fighting is not physical at all, it is all verbal. He usually starts with I hate you, I let him know the feelings are mutual, and it always ends up going to things that realy bother each other, he always says something about my weight, cause he knows it gets the tears going, and I go with either his performance or his abnormally large head. Then we have great sex and make googly eyes at each other the next day, until the next fight. That is what a healthy marriage is all about. You don't want it to get boring do you?

Answer 8

Once in a blue moon and he doesn't talk down to me. After 28 years of marriage you get all that out of your system and you settle down and enjoy each others company.

Answer 9

sure, sometimes, and I have to calmly remind him that it's ok to have a differing opinion without criticizing me or using a patronizing tone. He sometimes equates different with wrong....it comes from his childhood and at this point we've finally gotten to the point where we can laugh about some of the stuff that used to set us both off....we're workin on it! LOL

Answer 10

Interesting question!

Argument start over small mistakes that are made.

Why not try together and solve them one by one.

Love is an eternal thing,

Argument is nothing