ok so last year i got into the musical and i took a leap of faith and invited him to come on friday and he said he couldn't cause he was going to play laser tag. it was freshman year and i'm over it now but i was reading something about laser tag and i remembered it so i thought i would ask if most guys are jerks and lame
2007-09-27 14:43:04 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The dude already had plans (lame though they may be). If he was interested, he would have suggested another time or asked you out later. If he wasn't interested, he would have done just as he did.
To summarize, yes most guys are jerks, but you can't call a guy a jerk just because he doesn't want to go out with you.
That's like calling a girl frigid just because she won't sleep with you.
Unfair, right?
2007-09-27 14:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably. At least sometimes. At 15, most of the time, at least according to girls. We're more interested in laser tag, sports, whatever. When we get older we get slightly less jerky--well some of us do, because we start to share some of the same interests--or at least have a somewhat common goal. If we're smart, we know that by being slightly less jerky, we can be pleasantly rewarded. Some of us, if we have a good upbringing even develope a profound appreciation for women and actually enjoy making them happy in a slightly less self-serving way. Some of us just stay jerky indefinitely. Sorry. Basically you have to set your standards and don't settle for anything less. Good luck.
2007-09-27 22:01:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, only the jerks are jerks. Alot of girls will ask a guy out because they think the guy is hot, and not because the guy has proven himself to be worthy of the girl's attention. Don't stop being brave, and don't stop taking leaps of faith, but just know going in that not all guys are worth it.
2007-09-27 21:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depends.. on if he's into you or not #1.
#2 if your not already dating the guy or good friends, you can't expect him to drop friends and plans for you . He may have had these plans for months or went with a girl he liked and just didn't want to hurt your feelings telling you. Don't judge everyone else over one experience.. and try not to be so judge mental about guys. You'll meet a lot of jerks but the ones that aren't are worth dealing with the ones who are. Good Luck!
2007-09-27 22:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by vicky30pa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omgosh girl lemme tell yuh, all the guys I've been with the past 4 yrs turned into jerks, they play this line where they are nice then once they get u closer they turn into a jerk.. not all are like that, but good ones are harder to find I guess
2007-09-27 21:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by Lorelei's Mommy ( & prego) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. he was a freshman so he was immature, and he didn't know what to say so he said he was going to play laser tag. i bet if you asked him that now he would either say yes he would like to or no he doesn't want to because he is hopefully no longer immature.
2007-09-27 21:47:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're not jerks just insanely clueless, I've confused plenty of possible relationships that way.
However if the real question is "do we act like jerks" hell yes.
2007-09-27 21:51:02 · answer #7 · answered by Nicholas A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at that age yes in general they are --- we on the whole get better with age but it can take a long time --- like a fine wine it may take 20 or 30 years --- have fun
2007-09-27 21:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup
2007-09-27 21:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. I happen to have snagged a great guy. Lots of things are situational, not intentional.
2007-09-27 21:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by kleo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋