I am a 14 year old guy and one of my good friends is having a party at his house. I was not invited. My X girlfriend was invited though. She asked him if he was going to invite me and he said "IDK he won't know anyone" and I know 3/4 of the people going. Is he mad at me? Im so confused. What should I do I feel rejected haha
-Matthew
2007-09-27 14:20:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe he ummm yeah feel bad but who needs that 14yr old partys are lame come to mine :D
2007-09-27 14:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by Felipe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to me. People can be so thoughtless and hurtful. They can let you down and hurt you... it's not right. You need to forget about it. If you dwell on it it will only wind up hurting you in the long run. If you are concerned that he's mad at you, maybe you need to clear the air. Maybe he didn't invite you because he thought your ex wouldn't want you there... there are loads of possible explanations. Whatever the reason, you'll have to try to forgive his actions and move forward. There will be other parties, and other gf, and new friends in the future, focus on that. In the meantime, you'll need to be doing something while the party is on so I suggest that you find some other friends to hang out with during that time. Good luck!
2007-09-27 14:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by spiffy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely! u would desire to tell the "chum" thats having the social gathering in the adventure that your invited or now not get the braveness to ask! and if ur chum is a genuine real chum she wouldnt bypass with out u cuz it wouldnt be no exciting! LOLz yet i advise thats as much as her i advise if she desires to bypass then perchance u would desire to enable her and get a team of acquaintances and dangle out on the day of the social gathering so u'll forget approximately with regard to the entire concern there'll be different partys'z
2017-01-02 18:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by pavick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a 60 year old man, I have 2 answers:
1. Learn to live with disappointment.
2. Get a new friend.
2007-09-27 14:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let it bother you, dont stress yourself or worry about it.When you have a party dont invite him. may be he is jealous of you and thinks you may win the hearts of all the good looking girls at the party and he wont have a chance with you around. Hence he has left you out. Just forget it. Its nothing to bother about. Be happy cheer up and dont regret.Dont let it get you down.
2007-09-27 14:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by live and let live 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man and confront him. Tell him that a true friend wouldn't do that... and tell him that if you were having a party, you would invite him.
2007-09-27 14:22:54 · answer #6 · answered by leigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your ex is behind it. I would confront him and remind him that if she is the reason your not invited that he's letting a chick get in between your friendship. "bro's before hoe's" as they say...
2007-09-27 14:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by ♪♬ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's your friend & didnt invite you to his party, that means somethings wrong. i think you should talk to your friend and ask him why you weren't invited. thats the right thing to do.
2007-09-27 14:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teen years are sooo fun, aren't they :)
Your friend probably felt like he had to take sides. I wouldn't
let it ruin your life. The party will be over and life will go on.
2007-09-27 14:23:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and do things with our other friends. When you discribe this guy, you might not call him a friend, but someone you know from school.
2007-09-27 14:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋