If your spouse got very fat, or suddenly got very thin, could that be a relationship "deal breaker"?
2007-09-27 13:38:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
perhaps, but consider the mental changes too that both partners go through. Psychologically, what kept the person one way physically, may have met some need in the other person's psyche.
2007-09-27 13:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by turtle girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not a deal breaker. It is not a valid reason just an excuse
2007-09-27 21:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking if it would be an ethical deal breaker? Sure....why not? You married them hoping they were going to continue taking care of themselves like they had been prior to being married, and if they don't care enough about themselves or you to put some effort into their looks, it's hurtful that they simply don't care enough to take some action.
2007-09-27 21:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if a spouse suddenly gains a grand amount of weight, then why? Why did they get fat? Why did they get skinny? So, if it impacts your relationship, then you need to work on it. I wonder how good your relationship was to start.
2007-09-27 20:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by momeeeof1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe that person should see a doctor that might be a problem with their thyroid and I also think that you should talk to them frist and make sure that they are not depressed because that too can cause weight loss or gain no that should not make you want to end your relationship because if you do than you are petty
2007-09-27 20:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Go back a re read your marriage vows. Obviously she hasn't divorced YOU for your vast lack of grey matter.
2007-09-27 22:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, getting obesely fat is a sing of sloth and self loathing
and why would anyone stick around for a person who does not respect himself
very thin...
as in how thin?
2007-09-27 20:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, remember your vows "for better or for worse". In God's eyes, the only valid reasons for divorce are infidelity and physical abuse.
2007-09-27 20:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Did you marry them only for their body? If your wedding vows were, "Until you drastically change your body shape do we part", then go ahead and get divorced.
2007-09-28 02:22:13 · answer #9 · answered by Linni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the change was only in appearance no way. You wouldn't if you really love them and are commited.
2007-09-27 20:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by Mindy R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋