Family & Relationships - 27 September 2007

ok so today at school this girl whom i don't even like looses her 10 year old cousin on the b train he kept on going and would not listen to her when she told him to get off all of my friends and i are 12 in 7th grade that girls cousin is in 6th grade but he had never taken the train before so i offered to help look up and downtown with her because if that little kid got hurt i didn't wanna feel guilty that i didn't help look for him just because i don't like that girl who just happens to be his cousin also she looked really bad and i knew she couldn't go on her own she was super sad so i asked my mom permission and we looked all over we eventually found him in the Bronx but do you think i did the wrong thing i don want people thinking im two faced cuz one moment i dont like her and the other im helping her should i have done nothing??

2007-09-27 12:43:37 · 5 answers · asked by Carrotsz!! 2 in Friends

I am on punishment and am not allowed to get on the computer unless its edacational purporses she asked me once if what i was doing is for homework i said yes 10 minutes later she asked again i said yes 18 minutes later she asked again i got mad and told YES WHY YOU KEEP ASKING ME THE SAME THING then she said your on yahoo then im like yahoo answer geting help with my homework now can you quit buging me now for like 5 minutes shes been going on and on about me being dissrespectfull im the son shes the mother and no matter how much times she ask i must answer so after her rambeling i tell her im trying to do my homework can you stop then she hits me with the belt and say its her house and she pays the bills and she can go on and on as long as she wants then i ask her can she do that in her room im trying to study for a test and she hits me again what her problem

2007-09-27 12:40:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I really didnt confront the girl but I text her and told her to knock it off or I will tell her husband and it made her mad and my man mad so I feel things were going on but he's not man enough to admitt it cause he doesnt want to hurt me, well its hurts even more not knowing the truth in my eyes . I have been showing trust to save the realationship but not sure really whats going to happen. I think and hope this is all a test of our realationship to make it a stronger one but in reality not sure . I hate it for the fact that I cant say I love you and have that closness agian I really do still love him and I want it to work and Ido forgive anything that might of happend but I cant get him to be honest with me I mean maybe he is but I get the feeling he wants to tell me something but is affriad to. If you really love someone and want it to work should you stay and be patient and see what happens???

2007-09-27 12:35:06 · 3 answers · asked by Brenda 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

With stepkids.
When you were dating your husband/wife what did the kids do to try to get rid of you? Did it work?

2007-09-27 12:33:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Help, the shower is this Sunday! A bridesmaid was supposed to bake cookies and attach them to sticks to serve as centerpieces in vases on the tables and individual gifts for the guests to bring home. Well, the bridesmaid screwed them up and they all broke!
Please post ANY ideas for easy, inexpensive wedding shower decorations that can also serve as a little thank you for coming. The mother of the bride ran out and bought little Renuzit candles, but they look tacky and will only be our back up plan.
Thank you, thank you, thank you in advance! (Fingers crossed)
Addt' Details: Fall wedding, red/harvest theme

2007-09-27 12:33:24 · 10 answers · asked by Spoiled 3 in Weddings

how do u talk to a guy that u like

2007-09-27 12:31:44 · 7 answers · asked by Olivia 2 in Singles & Dating

i was talking to this girl in class, and she's gorgeous, and she was telling me this story about her parents back home...

then i asked where she was from, and she quickly just said "iran" and continued to talk about her story... does this mean she's insecure about her nationality and where she's from? i know she's only been in this country for a few yrs./

2007-09-27 12:31:05 · 3 answers · asked by puaporn3 1 in Singles & Dating

well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while but lately he hasn't ben that much into me. it's like he changed. he dosen't say he loves me or any sweet things to me anymore. and he has been talking about a friend of his but he says he's not cheating and if i keep accusing him then i might break us up. i really don't know wat to do and i really need some answers.

2007-09-27 12:28:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had a dream about me and my little brother in a park on my birthday.and some guy i never met gave me a bear and a purple flower.then me and my little brother walked towards some benches and my parents were there sniffing crack. but my parents never did drugs. and i had to work at the age of 16 to support my little brother and me and some family members sent us money for support..what could this mean?

2007-09-27 12:26:08 · 3 answers · asked by mulatata t 1 in Family

I feel terrible.
lifes been hard this year .
my dad died about ten weeks ago.
he had lukemia.we became a family again for a while.
it was good. i love the time we had together.
Now i am living in his house. and i have no job yet after careing.
also my girlfriend who lives 200 miles away wants to move in.I dont know if i can do that. with out her life would have been realy hard. i care a about her,but we didi live together once and things didnt work out to well. thats why she lives away. i understand that she wants to settle down .she loves me and she keeps telling me the clocks ticking. but for some feeling i dont truely feel happy to be in thie relationship. i want to be .i want her to be happy .i want to be happy.but i feel trapped.in some ways it hurts.like its not where i want to be.that i feel i cant give her all she deserves.but in anaother way i dont want to be alone. i feel a fool to hurt her. shes beautiful brilliant and funny and extremly kind .
total pain and termoil

2007-09-27 12:25:24 · 12 answers · asked by vdgeest70 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Sorry for asking in this section, but most of the advice in the singles category is given by school aged children and I'm far from that.

I know everyone's answer will be different but that's okay. That's what I'm looking for, different perspectives. Thanks

2007-09-27 12:23:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if your husband or wife came to you and told you out of the clear blue that he or she filed for divorce and told you that they just wanted to be by themselves still giving you no clear explanation as to why they filed for divorce and did not talk to you would you get up and pack you things and leave them?

2007-09-27 12:23:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Not necessiraly fix but make things better because right now things are really bad between me and my husband and I think having a baby will help but Im not sure. What do you think?

2007-09-27 12:19:27 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when will i meet someone who is interestind in me, cute , When will i start dating??

2007-09-27 12:18:49 · 6 answers · asked by tassonechristina 1 in Singles & Dating

I want something simple, elegant, and inexpensive... and if there is anything that involves firetrucks or something of the sort that would be great also!!!!

2007-09-27 12:18:08 · 14 answers · asked by ~*Katie*~ 4 in Weddings

I'm a step-mother of a 9 year old girl and 8 year old boy. There father got custody of his children bc their mother spent some time incarcerated. We've had them for almost 4 years. There mother has a 7 month old now, and I know the kids think constantly about their little brother. There mother has gotten better in ways about getting them when she is suppossed to but not when it come interms of her drinking which it states in the decree for her not to consume alcohol. She's very mental absusive towards the kids and very verbal absuive towards myself and their father. We did get children services involved 2 years ago bc she was having intercourse in front of them and they were acting out well she didn't comply with it and we did so they dropped us.
She has bi-polar (which is fime with proper medication - I'm depressed, but I take what I need to and see my doctor if anything changes. She is very manipualtive, sneeky, you don't know if she is telling the truth or lies. She's just a very ackward person and likes to start trouble with anyone.
When their mother drinks she gets drunk especially when she's on a certain anti-anxiety pill.
Their mother likes to blame us for every action her kids do over there... she thinks we don't know how to raise them. I think they just don't mind her because of the way she is.
The kids at our house are not perfect. The boy which is ADHD did 2nd grade again. Which was our fault considering to her but he has learnig disablities. He's a little angel compared to his sister. He does not like to get in trouble so he just listens to us and follows directions here. He has his days but who doesn't. He was mad at his mom for the longest time bc of what she did to him. When she had custody she would just drop in him (3 1/2 at the time) and say here keep him. And wouldn't pick him up for days. So we got custody of him first.
The girl which witnessed and experienced things that a little girl shouldn't.... misses her mother darely and that's why she acting out. Not applying herself in school. Always making excuses up like her mother does. And today for instant when we were trying to dicipline her for her grades in class.... starting pulling her and scratching her face.
I asked her who does that? And she says her mother does when she fights with her boyfriend. It was very disturbing to see it happened.
My biggest fear is and I know this sounds very selfish. I raised these kids for 3 1/2 years and I know they need help and I know thay tell us they want to live with us and they tell thier mother they want to live with her. I'm just afraid they would want to live with her and I know it's their mommy and that's normal. But she's demaging them and she'll continue even when they do go back when they turn 12. Suppossely she wants them when they turn 12. But if she wants them so badily why doesn't she try now? An money is not an issue with bc her gramndmother paya for everything.
What should we do? Are we harming them for not helping them?

2007-09-27 12:17:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Why is it that don't people step back and just put a little more thought into who they sleep with? Especially, based on the fact that you might end up a parent with the wrong person 9 months later. All of this baby moma and baby daddy BS is ridiculous. Long term stability of a family is hard enough without starting out on unstable ground. People put more thought into buying a car than into who they end up having a kid with?

2007-09-27 12:16:49 · 13 answers · asked by C'est la Vie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello, i'm just 13 and a virgin. I DONT KNOW. So not insults, please.

If an man and woman were to have sex and the guy was just an asshole and peed inside of her, what would happen? Would she get pregnant? Would something happen on the inside? Would she get poisoned? wtf

Please help

2007-09-27 12:12:42 · 12 answers · asked by silence 1 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes our spouses just can't give us everything we need! I sometimes think it would be healthy, as long as it is done safely, to have someone on the side. I'm not saying to just go out, and sleep with the whole town! But, sometimes I just don't find my husband that sexy. Marriage is not easy. We argue over finances. Before we got married sex was hot! Now, it's a freakin chore!!! BTW, I don't think I would care if he had something on the side, as long as it was not in my face! Does anyone feel the same way as me?

2007-09-27 12:10:39 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT Creditors placing a Lean on YOUR Account.

Do you think it's another way for the U.S to make the Rich Richer and the Poor more poor.

What will the U.S do when the lower class citizens reach bottom.

Was the Jews right about Banks Stealing money.

What will happen WHEN To Much Poverty Begins/ Will Kaos begin ,(stealing/rioting) after so many years of lesiure an hard work on living from check to check...

The STOCK MARKET WILL DROP AND BUSINESS WILL BOTTOM OUT. *BECAUSE THERE ARE MUCH MORE POOR THEN RICH.. AN A BIG PORTION OF THE U.S IS IN CREDIT DEBT.

IS THIS A SCAM TO PAY LAWYERS.

IT IS A GIVEN FACT THAT ALL BANKS HAVE TO REPLY
to such court orders given from creditors.

Dont get me wrong if you owe someone you should pay them,

But Is it the Creditor Fault from being so giving to people even at the age of 18 teen years of age & younger, not knowing the indept & responsibility of life.
Because of there mistake will the U.S Fall.

2007-09-27 12:03:53 · 5 answers · asked by ★ ★ ★ ★ America United★ ★ ★ ★ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-27 12:02:51 · 4 answers · asked by James the Just 3 in Singles & Dating

Im 23 in a great relationship, w/ great girl (24), i know im going to marry her (eventually), but she is a virgin, and i am not. its starting to drive me crazy. what should i do or tell her? Cheating is not an option. serious advice only please

2007-09-27 11:59:32 · 5 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My supposedly best friend said she didn't want me to be pregnant at her wedding (she said it in a joking manner, but i know she really feels this way) I don't feel that I should base my family planning around her wedding...as long as I'm there for her at her wedding she should be happy for me...any thoughts?

2007-09-27 11:58:31 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Okay, so I don't really care, but my friend does. I'm almost 15, and she's 16, but neither of us have had a boyfriend! We are both pretty tall, I'm 5'8 and she's 5'7. Everyone tells us we're really pretty, and stuff, we both take honor classes, and get good grades, and we play a lot of sports. We have alot of guy friends, but no boyfriend, lol. Then, on the other hand, there's this super rude girl in our class, she has acne, and is around 5'3, and she has had a ton of boyfriends! Why is that? Well, thanks everyone!


BTW: We're super outgoing, in alot of clubs, and have a ton of frinds, and she's mean and rude, and talks about people behind their backs!

2007-09-27 11:56:41 · 7 answers · asked by Melissa♥ 6 in Friends

i know, i know. it's not proper to include gift details or gift preference anywhere in the invitation as guests aren't expected to bring gifts in the first place. But we all know for a fact that guests DO bring gifts and since I'm getting married in a place halfway around the planet, I'm not planning on boxing and shipping back home all the boxed gifts we will receive. We would love to receive cash as gifts but we don't want to sound as if we're asking for it.

Any suggestions on how to deal with this? Thanks!

2007-09-27 11:55:56 · 12 answers · asked by tangerine 2 in Weddings

He does not want her to have a boyfriend and she is still in school but is only allowed to go to school and work and is not allowed to see her boyfriend. I have a trip planned for her to come and see me I told her that her boyfriend can come too, the only problem is that she is afraid her dad will find out that he came with her. I also told her that if she is under so much stress with her dad that she can move here with me and I would make sure that she finished school or at least got her GED. Her dad never worried when she was 12 and 13 that she was home alone while he was at work but now that she is 18 he wants to lay down the law. She is concerned that her dad will be mad if she was to move out and she does not want to leave her boyfriend who is 19 and lives with his parents, but he does not want to move here. What would you do?

2007-09-27 11:55:11 · 2 answers · asked by scottjen_71 2 in Family

I Am In Middle School And I Really Like This High Schooler That Goes To My Church. He Always Pays Attenchen To His Friends And Never To Anyone Else




Please Help I Have Only Talked To Him Once About Age And Green Day




He Is Kinda Gothic But Not A Cutter How can I Get Him To Notice Me More?

2007-09-27 11:54:25 · 2 answers · asked by !oserkidd 3 in Singles & Dating

I really like someone but i only knew him for a minute but I really care for him!!

2007-09-27 11:53:13 · 1 answers · asked by peanut 1 in Singles & Dating

I am twenty three, intelligent, beautiful, and funny woman. I am a college graduate, and I am currently finishing up an additional degree. Everyone tells me I am so beautiful, and the guys I date agree, but I feel they dont respect me how I should be respected. I have been told I am the girl every guy wants, but doesnt deserve, yet I have been subject to heartbreak several times. Why dont good guys want to be with me? Why am I attracted to, and vice versa, to jerks who just want fun and no commitments? Is it just not my time? Or am I just not with the right type of man? Should I try and date a guy who I usually wouldnt? Please give me some advice, because I have a lot to offer someone, and I want to start soon.

2007-09-27 11:46:14 · 13 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

What is a good first dance song for a wedding.

2007-09-27 11:44:55 · 17 answers · asked by Bride2Be 4 in Weddings