Why is it that don't people step back and just put a little more thought into who they sleep with? Especially, based on the fact that you might end up a parent with the wrong person 9 months later. All of this baby moma and baby daddy BS is ridiculous. Long term stability of a family is hard enough without starting out on unstable ground. People put more thought into buying a car than into who they end up having a kid with?
2007-09-27 12:16:49 · 13 answers · asked by C'est la Vie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's easy.... a relatively few people care about anything these days. Permissiveness, lack of caring/morality, and just plain stupidity have replaced common sense. This is precisely why conservatives don't get along well with liberals. Liberals have become so stubborn in their passion to save the world with unproven ideals that they can't hear the voice of reason when a conservative tries to explain how things really work. So liberals simply go off blundering through life. Eventually, the intelligent ones, find their way with logic and reason but, alas, far too many just buy a Volvo to truck around their unwanted kids and work so much to pay for their house and car, they don't have the time or energy (or brains) to properly raise their kids.
I have a name for these folks: "Pimple-brained morons". You can call them anything you like.... as long as it's politically incorrect, preferably.
2007-09-28 01:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Peachy® 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Britney was 16 when she started singing, and already she was talking about sex. This was way before lil wayne, so i wouldn't put all the blame on him. Sex has been in the media for a long time. Plus, I don't know anyone who was personally affected by that song. It's not like kids actually listen to the lyrics and learn about oral sex. They just like the beat and the hook.
2016-05-20 02:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the risk of getting everyone's thumbs down, I'm gonna say that sometimes life happens even if you HAVE thought it through. That's the case with me.
I waited to have kids through a husband who promised me them as soon as we got married and kept putting it off once we were. I waited through a divorce I never thought I'd go through, since we talked about everything on earth beforehand and seemed to agree - but didn't. I waited through countless boyfriends that I could have tricked or simply had be "sperm donors." I waited, in fact, until I was 35, had thought about for most of those years what would be best for my baby, not just me, and thought I'd checked every scenario and come up with my baby being fine.
That's still mostly the case, but I definitely didn't take into nearly enough consideration the ex-wife from hell that showed a good enough game that over 20 people with above average/genius IQ *and* a whole lot of common sense couldn't see through her gunk. So while things are mostly fine with my 16 month son and he has both parents around, attentive, loving, and trying for the best for him no matter what, sometimes things in life happen that you just can't control.
Peace! (:
2007-09-28 03:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by Hoosier Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. But you are right people put more thought into what car to buy then the other parent of their child or even their babysitter. I am so sick of working with people that some how "end up" pregnant. Even family, is there really a reason to have 5 children with three different men, having all while not married and at taxpayers expense on top of it? Then they wonder why their kids cannot manage to behave themselves when they see mama fighting with all the various daddies. We all know where they come from but ...................
2007-09-27 12:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by hoppykit 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've wondered that for a long time. The only thing I can figure is that they are people whose brains never got above their crotch.
You'll notice that the people who breed indiscriminately are usually not very bright... so Stupidity plays a part in it as well.
These people don't care NEARLY as much about their kids as they do their cars.
**La Loca... What's mean about it? She wonders why you would spread your legs and create a life with someone you don't want to LIVE with. That's an excellent question.
Why did you do that? You didn't think about your child, you only thought about that orgasm. My parents, when I was conceived had been married 17 years, there were 5 other kids before me, I was not a mistake.
YOU, however, spread'em for the first hard penis that came along and now your kid gets cheated.
2007-09-27 12:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girls want boyfriends and if they are age 18 or over almost all will have sex with their boyfriend. That is who most get pregnant by. The girls pick the most desirable boyfriends they can get and if that requires having sex they will.
The problem is girls date up and guys date down. Therefore, the girls are having sex with guys that are dating down. That is, girls that are acceptable for sex but not acceptable for marriage. And most young girls are too naive to recognize the difference between a guy that is their equal and therefore a guy that will marry them and a guy that is out of their league that will only have sex with them.
The girls are picking the best guys. However, usually the guy will only have sex with her because she is not pretty enough or desirable enough for marriage.
2007-09-27 12:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by John 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No kidding. I had two kids before I figured it out. I have no idea what I was thinking. Some people just can't seem to see anything past the moment they're in. I was that way. Now I would never have sex with someone that I wasn't fully prepared to raise a child with.
2007-09-27 12:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by The Naughty Librarian 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Excellent point and I like the comparison to buying a car.
I don't have any answers for you but, I think the world would be a better place if they considered the ramifications of their actions.
2007-09-27 12:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by Earl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I'm 33, and don't have kids. I would have an abortion before having a child with the "wrong person" - but contraception has worked well for me so far, so I didn't have to worry too much about whom I was sleeping with.
2007-09-27 12:21:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
pogieboy316=agree with ya..Don't judge or else you would be judge..ASK your parents how or if you we're a accident or planned..I bet your a accident they wished they NEVER had! Harsh NO ..you are MEAN..for saying something that..makes single parent's look bad..and We are not..**** happens..and ppl make mistakes..like you..and your ignorace of so called perfection..U are not perfect..and I hope someday you get knocked up..on accident so ya know how it feels fool P E N D E J A..
2007-09-27 14:02:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋