well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while but lately he hasn't ben that much into me. it's like he changed. he dosen't say he loves me or any sweet things to me anymore. and he has been talking about a friend of his but he says he's not cheating and if i keep accusing him then i might break us up. i really don't know wat to do and i really need some answers.
2007-09-27 12:28:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You guys need to sit down and talk about it. That's the only way to figure him out. He should be willing to talk as adults. Accusing will get you no where and if you are in fact wrong about it, it'll just tear you guys apart anyways. Something is obviously bothering him. Just try to be understanding and talk to him about it and try to work things out. Good luck.
2007-09-27 12:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that you are being too sensitive or self-conscious about your boyfriend. Some guys , unfortunately, are not very romantic, and he may interpret your complaints as a sign that you are too demanding, needy, or clinging. However, if you feel that you are not over-reacting, and that your observations are accurate and true, then you most certainly should tell him . Choose your time and place carefully,point out; using specific instances, what you are saying , ask him if he has a romantic interest in his friend, and then find out how you can improve what you both have . If his response is not positive or he makes no effort to meet you half-way, or he indicates he no longer wants to be with you, then you may have to make some difficult decisions. I hope though that this is a minor oversight on his part and that you can both get back on track and enjoy a terrific romance. Good luck.
2007-09-27 12:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the love cloud faded huh! just chill out he will come around when his not being mean ok..Men have there PMS moment like women do! break up when you have solid prove of why? sometimes ppl need space..and even if that means do your own thing make him see
'you have a life and does not involed all around him..he will respect you more and not think your needy eh..
2007-09-27 12:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your whole life and future do not depend on how this boy reacts to you. There is much more important stuff that you need to address like your education, your family and your future career. He probably just realizes that you are not THE ONE he wants to spend his life with and is cooling things off. Be glad! Breaking up is hard, but sometimes it frees both of you up so that you can go on with your future.
2007-09-27 12:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by oldknowitall 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just make a situation but not to obsessive, well lets say he has plans of doing something with her on Monday and its Saturday well just be like ay baby lets do something on Monday the same day then if he decides to go with u that's good
2007-09-27 12:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by Henry WUZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you talk to him and see what is going on! why all of a sudden he stoped being the guy he use to be...you never know what if he is talking to his so called friend!
2007-09-27 12:33:01 · answer #6 · answered by In love! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have some friends that you can trust have them scope him out and see if he is doing anything. or just simply ask him what is buging him tell him you think it's time for ya'll to sit down and talk about what's going on.
2007-09-27 12:31:50 · answer #7 · answered by jeannieboop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should find a way to find out the truth yourself.I,and everyone here could give you an opinion,but it would not be based on facts but just guessing!so,spy on him or whatever you think to find out.good luck
2007-09-27 12:35:03 · answer #8 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋