Relationship troubles...for me only?

Question

Im 23 in a great relationship, w/ great girl (24), i know im going to marry her (eventually), but she is a virgin, and i am not. its starting to drive me crazy. what should i do or tell her? Cheating is not an option. serious advice only please

Answer 1

this is the first time i answered a question like this, but from what i understand, i think you should tell her how you feel. but dont make her feel bad or make her feel like its her fault that you feel like this, bc its NOT. its her decision and if you want to be with her then respect her decision, but you both should feel secure about talking about it. you are right though do not cheat.

Answer 2

You are dating a virgin, but you don't want to wait to get married to deflower her. You really don't think much of her, or you would not even think of trying to talk her into having sex. If she has waited this long, then you should respect her and not do anything to change her. This is one of the reasons you are with her. Because of the type of person she is. You need to think of something else and not make such a big deal out of it. If you are going to get married, then maybe you should set the date, and you will have something great to look forward to.

Answer 3

well.. maybe your gf would want a sense of security. She probably would want it to do it with someone that she trusts the most, and in her mind, that guy would be her husband. If you are very serious with her, let her know about it. Also, let her know about your intention with her and make her understand that you are doing this because you have strong feelings for her.

Answer 4

I dont see what the problem is here...
What do you want to tell her? She already knows that she's a virgin.. or doesn't she know that you're not one..

Answer 5

well, you are planning to live your entire life with this girl and since u r so guilty about the fact its wise to go ahead and share it with her...good luck!