I really didnt confront the girl but I text her and told her to knock it off or I will tell her husband and it made her mad and my man mad so I feel things were going on but he's not man enough to admitt it cause he doesnt want to hurt me, well its hurts even more not knowing the truth in my eyes . I have been showing trust to save the realationship but not sure really whats going to happen. I think and hope this is all a test of our realationship to make it a stronger one but in reality not sure . I hate it for the fact that I cant say I love you and have that closness agian I really do still love him and I want it to work and Ido forgive anything that might of happend but I cant get him to be honest with me I mean maybe he is but I get the feeling he wants to tell me something but is affriad to. If you really love someone and want it to work should you stay and be patient and see what happens???
2007-09-27 12:35:06 · 3 answers · asked by Brenda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There will always be a part of you that loves him. If you don't have peace in your heart, I say move on. Are you married? If not hit the door running, if you are pray to God for some strength to get you through this. Pray to God for your man to be able to make up his mind also!!!
You say you think this is a test, if it is a test from God, he won't let you fail. He wants you to be HAPPY and maybe he doesn't think the person you are with, can do that for you. It's already looking like that, don't you think?
2007-09-27 12:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by Peng-you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes love him and stay. He needs to tell the truth. you really don't have much to loose other than time and it may cost you a little heartache...or it may not be what you think. Untill you know for sure put it on hold and wait patiently...you can talk though it some other day
2007-09-27 19:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by just duky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It allcomes down to one thing;just how much are you willing to put up with him and all the lies and crap? Think really hard about it
2007-09-27 19:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋