Why is it? I try staying away from my family but the favors is never ending, They will go crazy very (nasty acting) just to turn around and ask me for a favorite? like do they get enjoyment out of it.
2007-09-27 18:18:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Maybe not on purpose...I learned that how they were raised has a big part to play on the way they act sometimes. Some people with selfish parents end up being selfish themselves, even though they don't realize it. Whatever you do, don't keep giving in - you need to stand your ground and demand respect. Good luck!
2007-09-27 18:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by Pandi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the get their kicks this way.
This is about boundaries.
If they are not good at returning favors, quit giving them.
You have to learn not to answer their call, and how NOT to be a doormat.
Use an answering machine to screen calls no matter how much they whine and beg.
2007-09-27 19:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its depens to the family and how they think they have do the best thing to their children but not. as the dauther or son of one family we should alert and must know why they do like that. and if the things that they do is to hard for us to follow just tell them. if not the problem will not be solve.
2007-09-27 19:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by ridzuan s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋