Im about to marry a guy who is broke and about to declare bankcruptcy? should i marry him(i love him though)?

Answer 1

There have been far more marriages entered into under poverty than wealth. If you love each other, your financial position is of little importance (except, maybe, to your parents). After all, marrying you just might make all the difference in the world. It would be better to get married now, be poor, work, prosper and grow together than to be married and later file for bankruptcy. At least now there's nowhere to go but up.

Answer 2

Short story. When my husband and I got married we were Both headed for bankruptcy. In fact soon after we married we filed. A year and a half later, he had his own business, we bought our first house, I'm a stay at home mom and we are financially stable. Bankruptcy isn't the end, at least it shouldn't be. It should be the beginning of a fresh start. He should take some money management classes so he doesn't end up in this boat again, but to me bankruptcy isn't really a good indication of a persons character. Sometimes life happens. You live and hopefully you learn.

Answer 3

What a question!!!!! Wake up broke means no money broke means you are going to be paying for EVERYTHING, broke means he won't stay with for long because you are going to be complaining about how much money you are dishing out, and he will leave you, LOVE DOES NOT PAY BILLS HONEY If he is broke and filing for bankruptcy then that means he CANNOT AFFORD TO BE MARRIED AND HE CANNOT AFFORD A WIFE. Don't mean to sound cruel but someone really needs to give you a good shaking to snap you out of whatever it is you are in.

Answer 4

declaring bankruptcy tells that he does not pay his debts, if he is broke it can hurt a marriage. takes alot more than love to make a good marriage. being broke usually ruins marriages, financial problems are one of the major issues causing divorces today. i would wait until he gets it together and gets some money, as u can't live on love. he may not know how to handle money, which isn't a good thing to have to deal with.

Answer 5

Im a guy but thinking about this in the reverse I'd wait til the person filed and had gone through banckruptcy court getting all those they owed in legal order prior to the marriage.
Realizing what I was about to let myself in for was one who perhaps was using me,so I'd wait and see how they did if they started over got a job/career going again or if they were going to wait for me to take care of their problems.

Answer 6

I have 41 years of marriage behind me I know you want follow my advice but l will give to you anyway ;; As you ask the question SHould I marry him , The answer is NO Sorry the mistake ;;; Instead of want its Will not

Answer 7

If you are crazy,go ahead and marry him. Be ready to have many years of financial trouble. Why do you want to marry a dead beat? Unless you are desperate for a man.

Answer 8

Marry him if you want YOUR finances to go into the toilet and forever be in debt with collectors banging on your door and suing, you'll never have anything of value because you will be forced by the courts to sell what you have to pay off your creditors.

Answer 9

Although love should not be about money or worldly possessions; it is hard to live without them. If you are thinking about this instead of a life together in marriage...I say postpone it until you are sure.

Life will be tougher for you because of a new bankruptcy. New cars, home loans, etc. will be unavailable to you.

Just think about it.

Good Luck!

Answer 10

Honest answer: I think never will be a good idea to do that.You will suffer the consequences, of his terrible economic situation.Before you regret all your life: Do not marry him,listen a good advice,of a yahoo's member.