we've been close friends for years...he's the type of guy that gets along with everyone but only opens up about his issues to one person...and that was me. Apparently he's liked me since then and i never knew until i fell for him this yr. He's never had a gf or kiss and we had a moment and were "together" for a little but decided to stop and be friends. Things were okay again until he lost someone close and thus pushed me away. Drama and miscommunication happened; hearing different things from diferent people and it was crazy but we're okay now. I wrote him a letter explaining everything and it was good after that.(even posted up more pics of just the two of us on his page)
We just hung out 2 weeks ago and everything seemed fine. He would poke, tease, and tell me his favorite movies and which one i should watch - good day. I called him up and we talked for a little but NOW, if i call just to see "what's up", he won't answer. Don't know if he's just busy or tired...i'm getting worried...what if he's got a "new friend" now that he talks to about things? Don't know if it's because he's busy/tired, focused b/c he's saving up for a car, or too shy to call me up...
COMMUNICATION is important to me and i don't know if this is something i should worry about - did i do something wrong and he's not telling me? Or there's nothing wrong? Should I just wait for him to call or text me when he does?
2007-09-27 15:41:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's not like i call him everyday either...
2007-09-27 15:42:13 · update #1
1) BE your selef
2) Know him by records ( be sure he will not know).
3) Let him feel that you need to talk to him.
Be surewhen you talk hw will not think that he is observed very well.
2007-09-29 14:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by KRD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,you should ask him what's going on,if you just stay quiet then you won't know what's going on,just ask him and don't be nervous! It's really easy...It could be that he's still thinking about his loved one on and off in his heart.He could have a new friend and sometimes ignoring you,but if this does happen just tell him how you really feel,how jealous you are of your new friend.He will probably save some time for you.
Don't worry,maybe he will call you! just give it some time...give it a break...relax...:)
2007-09-27 22:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by Canada and my name is Alana! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want a girl who is like you cz i m a shy guy and i dont wanna talk to her cz i m afraid to be rejected
2007-09-29 05:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by Mo AB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying too hard. Be yourself and let him be himself
2007-09-27 22:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by JOHN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a shy man who was a shy boy so please just be gently direct and honest !
2007-09-27 22:48:49 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋