Okay I have been with this guy off and on for four years and he really annoys me because he works maybe 5 hours a day, and then he has to come home and "relax" and this takes the majority of the day, then I leave his house around 6 or 7 and it is like he waits for me to leave so he can "kick back" on the couch. He says he falls asleep out of boardness. and he does this all the time. So he sleeps like twelve hours a day, and kick back the rest of the time he don't work.
Tell me... Is he lazy or am I bothered by stupid things. Be HONEST TO ME! I hate a lazy man, and I feel he is just that. Tell me, am I over reacting? I have told him he needs to go to the Doctor because this is abnormal and he says nothing is wrong, the only one it bother's is me. Would it bother any of you????
Oh yeah and we literally fight over this issue.
2007-09-27 15:10:35 · 8 answers · asked by SARAH S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he sounds lazy to me and I would be very bothered by it
2007-09-27 15:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by iheartpetewentz4e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen I know how you feel. Don't worry. Wait a few more days. If it just getting worse or stay the same have a conversation with him and talk things through. A guy is there to comfort you, to help you. If he doesn't respect you he doesn't deserve you! Take care
2007-09-27 15:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by Rochelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve sooo much better than that. If he's just gonna sit on the couch all day and 'relax', then he's missing a good thing right in front of him. Don't let him run your life - go out and enjoy your other friends. If he really wants you in his life, then he'll clean up his 'act'. : - )
2007-09-27 15:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by SpicyTinkerBell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, he's very lazy, and you're not overreacting.
Why can't you be there when he relaxes? You guys don't even got out or anything?? I don't like him. I'd be totally annoyed. Talk to him about his laziness and warn him that you don't like it. If he doesn't do something about it, dump him!
2007-09-27 15:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by Claudia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bother me ain't even a question I say he is lazy as all hell. You life has ot being boring when you are around him. I say let him be lazy by himself. Let him go so you can live your life
2007-09-27 15:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by MEMYMOM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices be miserable & unhappy for gosh knows how many more years or say bye bye.* Surely you can do better with someone else.*
2007-09-27 15:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds lazy to me. you dont wanna be with a boring bum babe... get a new man, one that is ready to grab life and run with it.
2007-09-27 15:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get with a guy who is up to your speed.
2007-09-27 15:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by Survivor 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋