I asked someone to homecoming today, she said yes, then we didn't talk about it again.
What do I say next?
(related to homecoming)
Do I need a corsage?
Should I pick her up?
I'm really confused.
2007-09-27 15:12:31 · 17 answers · asked by Bob F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm of course a freshman.
(so is she)
2007-09-27 15:34:25 · update #1
Yes to all of those questions. You do have to talk, I'm sure she's just as nervous as you are. First off, you have to decide on the color of your outfits together, ask her what color she'd like, that will be the ice breaker, then ask her if she has a specific restaurant she wants to go to, or would she like you to pick it out. Find out where other students are going to. Sometimes people like to make it a double date to ease things and make talk easier, or some like to go to an 'in' place. Yes, of course, you have to get flowers for her, and yes, dummy, you have to pick her up, come on now, you must know some of this. Ask your friends questions. It would be nice to speak to their folks to make them feel at ease to know who they're sending their daughter out with, a quick introduction to who you are and that their daughter is in good hands and that you will treat her with respect, that you are a good person, and that they are sending her on a homecoming date that will end well, ending it well doesn't mean getting laid :) You have to make sure you have all bases covered, including emergencies. Have fun! Make it fun and memorable for you and your date, you will look back at it with pride and joy.
2007-09-27 15:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by lisa z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down. Relax. Yes ask her if she wants a corsage? And yes pick her up. Trust me I been through this and it's not that big of a deal. And make sure your date is happy. Dance with her and even if she is just a friend girls love to grind at dances (past experience) so just enjoy the music and enjoy the quality time your spending with your date.
2007-09-27 22:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Get her a corsage
2. Yes, pick her up
3. Take her to the dance
4. Dance with her
5. Boink her
6. Wash, rinse and repeat!
Good luck bro!
Seriously though the best thing you can do is have confidence! Maybe ask her these question so the topic comes back up again....
And at the dance if you don't know what your doing atleast pretend to! If you screw something up, admit it and laugh about it. Getting flustered ain't gonna help you. Just don't worry, relax and the night will go fine! Just remember to breathe and no matter how bad you are at dancing, freakin' dance with her!
2007-09-27 22:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AW!!! k 1. talk about how excited u r or just convorsation shes just nervous or sumthin
2. yes a corsage is prob nessecarry adn it makes her feel special/ that u like her
3. yes if you are a good , safe driver and she is comfortable u ca n also put some money together with some friends and share a lim,o if u hav enough money or ask ur parents 4 sum
2007-09-27 22:16:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her up or talk to her at school..discuss if you're going with a group of friends or by yourselfs...be cheaper with a group and more fun, you all can chip in for a limo or something. ask what color dress she has or is getting typcially your vest or tie should match...a corsage would be nice..but this isnt prom..not sure how "all out " your school goes. should pick her up though..girls like a gentleman .ask your friends what they're doing to..friends help the most!
2007-09-27 22:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what color dress she's wearing, so that you can choose the same color combo. Tell her you can hardly wait to see how beautiful she'll be! Be on the dance floor the first song. Ask her out for another date before the night gets to late. Help to have others compliment on how good she looks.
ex: Doesn't (her name) look nice tonight? Relax and don't be a stick in the mud (boring)! Enjoy!!
2007-09-27 22:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes to both.
Tell her you will pick her up a bit early so as her folks can meet you and you can pin the flower on her and then they can take pics of you guys.
If you are planning to party, leave your car there and come back in a cab or have your folks pick you up. Or rent a Limo with your friends
2007-09-27 22:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by Andrew C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww a corsage would be soo cute! but you need to find out what colour she is wearing. if you can go with white... it matches everything.
yes you need to pick her up or go in a group with friends, speak to her about transportation or find out if your friends are going in a group Limo or something fun like that and get in on it. also see what her friends are doing and comprimise. its not scary just ask her what she would like to do and if she doesnt know she will tell you to pick and then you can say we'll i'll pick you up and what ever time....
2007-09-27 22:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm you need to ask her a lot of questions like the one you put in your question lol, because if you don't then you guys are going to be deciding this on homecoming day.
2007-09-27 22:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by Fashion buggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick her up, ask her what color dress she has so you can coordinate the corsage with it. Take her to dinner too. Have a good time.
2007-09-27 22:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by metaphoriclife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋