I'm 17 and i've been with my bf for a year and i love him but he has 2 other girls that he is really good friends with. He hangs out with them almost as much as me and i try to be as understanding as i can. I know he hasn't cheated on me and i dont think he ever would but it just hurts a bit. I dont want him to not see them coz there his friends and i want him to be happy. But i dont know if i can keep pretending like it dusnt bother me at all.Yesterday he didnt even tell me he was hanging out with one of them and he was late to pick me up coz he was with her. It really hurt. I'm not good at confrontation but shoud i speak to him???
2007-09-27 21:00:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, but be careful. Some guys don't like girls that are "clinging vines" and are confrontational. In other words, you should talk with him in a quiet manner and tell him you just want to know where you stand with him. Since he has other friends that are girls, would he be concerned if you had other friends that are boys. If he has a problem with that, then he should be willing to drop his other girl friends.
He has to realize that if the two of you are going to have a relationship, then you must have some sort of understanding.
I hope this will work for you and I wish you to very best.
2007-09-28 05:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by loufedalis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds fishy
2007-09-27 21:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by jc c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋