What is your opinion on it? I personally am going to wait till after I am married but so many people I know can't wait to get it on. Some have even 'done things' already. Shouldn't you wait to do these things with that special someone (your husband/wife)? Why do people have sex before marriage and would you/did you? Do you agree with it or not?
2007-09-27 20:48:58 · 18 answers · asked by Pistachio 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stephen, isn't there more to a loving relationship then making it hot and passionate? So basically you are saying you will marry anyone who you can have great sex with? What about the other things like love? Or being able to talk?
2007-09-27 20:56:44 · update #1
This is ONE issue everyone thinks differently. Having sexual relationship before marriage isn't that bad after all. At least i get to know 'more' of him before than after.
2007-09-27 21:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by Troy Girl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Basically marriage before sex is marrying your significant other then having sex. Sex before marriage is basically having sex before getting married to that person. Personally for me, I believe in sex before marriage, because I think if your in a committed & healthy relationship which will eventually lead into marriage then have sex all you want & it also depends on the maturity level of the relationship and how serious each person is about the relationship, but overall this is just my opinion.
2016-04-06 04:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was brought up in a very strict Christian religion and I was a virgin when I first got married, it was awful, if I had known what it would be like I would NEVER have married him, so speaking from experience I'd say there is nothing wrong with sleeping together before marriage, if you are not compatible then you are in for a tough time.
2007-09-27 23:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try before you buy i say. Wouldnt it be awful to marry someone then find out they are a dud in the sack?
Just my personal opinion, i have a wonderful husband and have been with him since i was 18 we still get along great and yes he is wonderful in bed too ;)
2007-09-27 21:00:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you can sacrifice and wait for the right time and as for you its after marriage, then good for you. it takes a lot of courage and discipline to do that. but dont ever project your ideals on to other people who do otherwise... we have our own choices to make... not all people who have sex before marriage are just doing it for the sake of fun. some are really in love with their partners and want to express their love on that highest level of intimacy. its their choice too... so if you think that its not okay to have sex before marriage, then go and just wait. dont imply it on other people.
2007-09-27 21:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by brazenlove 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I always said i was going to wait until I was married but it never happened. I don't know anyone that has waited.
2007-09-28 02:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by lilac27 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most people do it before I did, It's only wrong in my opinion if it's with a different partner every other week-end, it should only be part of a stable happy relationship
2007-09-27 20:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by Diamond 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i am 16 years old and i always said i was going to wait, recently me and my girlfriend did have sex and i believe it is fine, i feel 10 times better now and im glad i wont grow up to be like steve caroll
2007-09-30 13:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by Cole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the point that is missed here is that we are sexual beings. Unlike many other species that have estros cycles, humans have the ability and capacity to be estros all the time or at any time. Therefore, sex is best described as a basic human need. Realizing this, why would anyone deny themsleves something that they need?
2007-09-27 21:49:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I did not. I never regretted it. I do think it's nice to have at least one thing you've never shared with anyone else and can be special with your chosen one. But, everyone has their different standards. You can't force anyone to believe as you do. Go ahead and take your own stand.
2007-09-27 22:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by Linni 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋