but know in the back of your mind that you can do better and that you can get any girl that you like..?
2007-09-27 20:07:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it depends what you mean... if you are thinking in your mind that you can do better in the looks department, then thats kind of shallow and you need to think a little bit about personality more. however, if you think you can get someone more attractive and you find yourself constantly thinking about it, i would wait to get married and see what happens first. although i do think you should stick with the person you truly love, regardless of what they look like compared to the rest of the population, if you commit yourself to marriage, it could end badly if you suddenly begin looking at more attractive people that you cannot have.
2007-09-27 20:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by ironic_chipmunkk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good question. I think it's advisable find a woman who's pretty attractive and decent all around, so you can squash any lingering doubts and/or thoughts about your lifetime commitment. I've seen some athletic guys married to ladies who don't exactly inspire construction workers to whistle at them ... to put it nicely. I think they marry those particular women because they're overall faithful and make good mothers. But, unfortunately, many of those same guys tend to go out and about and secure mistresses. I personally don't see why a guy, after marrying a woman, would want to add more drama (and expenses) to his life by cheating on his spouse.
2007-09-28 03:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must know my husband because he to felt that way,he didn't say it but i just felt it. I think that's why he had an affair,before he left me i told him that what ever it is your looking for you already have it it's in your own back yard and you can't even see it but you will . By then it might be to late to do anything about it. Two years later is when he realized what he was looking for he had all along and chose to walk away from it. What a stupid, stupid man !
2007-09-28 03:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in one of the "settle for now" kid of relationships.That relationship lasted all most 2 years. It hurts like hell to find out that your not even the type of woman he wants to be with. It's UNFAIR to her that your even dating her. So my best advice would be to end it before she becomes more involved with her heart, and to think about the type of person that you want for a life partner instead of settling for Ms. Right Now.
2007-09-28 08:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by navywife_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! If that is meant to be as conceited as it sounds...you probably shouldn't marry anyone. It sounds as if you love yourself more than you could love any woman.
2007-09-28 04:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if that is really what you think then you are really NOT in love with the girl that you intend to marry!!
2007-09-28 03:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by Injunswife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't commit, and go find that woman who you think is better.
2007-09-28 03:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by lordmisrule2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon you know dang gawn well if you think of
being with another then you can't be with her as
you will not be committed and if you are not
committed then you should not marry, just that
plain and simple, dag nab it.
2007-09-28 05:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by RudiA 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you feel like that then don't settle because you will always be tempted to look else where and may just end up breaking up/divorcing down the road. Its easier to do it now then later for both of you.
2007-09-28 03:12:47 · answer #9 · answered by jaimie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you love her and want to be with her then commit if you have doubts tell her dont lead her on if your really not into her and dont really want to marry her thats cruel
2007-09-28 03:15:26 · answer #10 · answered by The Misses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋