Family & Relationships - 27 September 2007

Can somebody help me cuz of the rumore i may not talk to my friend?
Its so annoying help help help !!!!!!!!!?
This thing is killing me?
there is this guy who me and him r friends for like last year this year started and he havent talked to me i think cuz he thinks i like him and his dum classemates r annoying him (since thy think i like him)cuz he like failed 2 years and his classemates r kids and its like so annoying i dont like him i just want to be friends like before.i dont know if i like him or if he even does its just annoying stupid kids
hhhhmmm i also meet him at the libary period and 1 of his classemates comes u think i should sorted out there or do u hv better ideas. if u hv any ideas on how i can tALK to him or he may come talk to me plz tell me

2007-09-27 06:50:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-27 06:49:28 · 2 answers · asked by Marie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife and I have been going through a very difficult time over the last several months. She is a stay at home mom to our 17 month old twin girls, and I have a home office. As you can imagine, it's not easy calling clients when there are two babies crying in the background! So it creates tension between us. And the other night we got into a big fight. We used every name in the book, she threw some things at me off the counter, and I kicked her in the asss soccer style. That was Tuesday night and she's still not speaking to me. I sleep on the couch and we bascially ignore each other. I want to try and repair what is obviously broken, but I'm sick of always being the one trying to fix things. I feel like we're failing our kids and each other, and it sucks. So should I insist on trying to talk to her and reason with her? Or wait until she's willing to come to me? Willing to wait, but not looking forward to another 3-4 days of not speaking and dragging this out.....

2007-09-27 06:47:41 · 19 answers · asked by ? 5 in Marriage & Divorce

With women? I just can't seem to attract much any more. Maybe my attitude has changed for the worse? I don't know. I'm feeling like I'm ending up in the friend zone too much lately. Any tips to help me get out of my slump?

2007-09-27 06:43:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my husband and i are planning for a family, and we came across something we both is improtant and that is a will, god parents, etc. and we were trying to deside who should get our kids (when the time comes). I really don't want my mother to have them b/c she is a good mother but manic depressant and her religious beliefs are not what i want for my children. His mother lives in a different country (israel to be exact) and he doesn't want to put the financial burden on her of having kids at her age. Our other two options are my cousin who we agree will raise our kids ith the same values that we would, or his brother. Is it ok to put the burden of my child on my cousin when she is not immideate family? can i also give whoever access to property and resources we have built up to be used for the children? and can we put somewhere in a will that the children are required to have a certain amount of contact with their grandparents and aunts? and how would you feel if cousin you were?

2007-09-27 06:40:13 · 6 answers · asked by Brittany M 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 21 and there is a man 33 years old, that wants to date me! will age be an issue?? He is also just going through a divorse i have a son who is 1 1/2 and his daughter is 11? should i try it out??

2007-09-27 06:35:48 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

drugs, guys come and go. and those two things are her umber one priority i moved out due to this issue but its hard to just sit there and watch my brothhers suffer but i dont know what to do?

2007-09-27 06:35:47 · 10 answers · asked by Elizabeth J 1 in Family

I have primary residential care of my son. He visits his Dad once a week and every other weekend. And whenever his Dad asks for more time. I want them to be close. My ex cheated and left for the other woman and moved in with her almost immediately. She is in my son's life and I have accepted that. However, last night my son told me that his Dad's girlfriend may start picking him up from school. I do not agree with this plan. My ex has to pick him up once a week. It gives him a chance to touch base with teachers, friends, make sure homework is being brought home, deal with any issues, etc. I think he should make the effort. It feels as if this is another parenting responsibility he is leaving to someone else. What happens if homework is not brought home or there is an issue to deal with? She cannot make parenting decisions which means I will have to deal with it the next day. My ex and I agreed we would handle the parenting of our son. Is picking kids up from school parenting?

2007-09-27 06:32:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was engaged, and got pregnant. Shortly after I got pregnant, we had some difficulties, with him lying to me, and I didn't feel I could trust him. I told him we needed time apart. He said he didn't want time apart, that he loved me, and wanted to be with me, and only me. He says that he's heartbroken, and wants to work things out, but he won't contact me. When I contact him, he gets angry, and shuts down. Now he won't return my phone calls, im's, text messages, nothing. I'm just starting my 5th month of pregnancy, and he doesn't seem to care about me or the baby. (Having kids was HIS idea, but he never really showed any kind of emotion about it when I got pregnant.) What should I do? Should I write him off? I do love him, very much...

2007-09-27 06:31:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Before taking my wife to work, I asked her if she needed any money to get drinks and/or snacks while she was at work. She said no, even after asking a second time to reassure that she didn't want any money. After dropping her off, on the way to my job, I stopped to get a cup of coffee. Later, while picking my wife up, she stated she was hungry. I stated that I was hungry too and that the only thing I had all day was the coffee from that morning. Now my wife is calling me selfish because I used the money I offered her (yet she refused) to buy myself a coffee. She said that I didn't think of her and that she expected me to bring her a coffee as well, even though she can't have drinks while working. She then changed her story about refusing the money, saying that she didn't say no to the money, only to the example I gave of possibly using it to buy a soda or snack while on her break.

Before buying my self anything, I offered her the $, so am I really being selfish here?

2007-09-27 06:31:32 · 7 answers · asked by KoiDragon 2 in Marriage & Divorce

In any context?


I've heard it so many times but never thought to ask?
dont worry it wasn't someone saying it to me


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2007-09-27 06:24:28 · 18 answers · asked by Huggles [mozzafan] 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My brother just found out that he is going to be a daddy. He is 23 years old and his fiance is 21. She is the baby. She has 2 older sisters and 2 older brothers and 2 older half sisters. She was spoiled rotten to say the least. My family has always been able to "get by". She has decided that she wants to go anywhere from 50-100 miles away for each doctor visit and to have the baby...this of course will cost a lot in gas. She only makes 150/week if she continues to work. They do not have their own home yet mind you. She has also made mention that eventhough she is reluctantly willing to get on medicaid that she does not want anything to do with WIC because that is for "nasty people" and she doesn't want to take any "stupid parenting classes". She just mentioned to my mother that she plans to get a Vera Wang Diaper Bag...I am so outraged. None of her siblings have any children and she being so childish and unrealistic. How do I get through to her?

2007-09-27 06:23:46 · 24 answers · asked by sapphiresunstar 3 in Weddings

My husband and I have been married for almost seven months. Since we have been married we have had many, many problems. He has had a very large problem keeping a job, and I am unable to work because I am a college student. I know that he has difficulty finding a job due to the fact that he is the "babysitter" while I am at school for out six month old son. However, I believe that he could work an evening job somewhere, which I have done in the past.
We also have problems with our marriage because he feels as if it is my responsibility to do everything around the house. I don't feel like I should be responsible for everything since he works three hours five days a week. We want to work things out, however, we are not at this point sure that it is possible. He also spends more time with his friends than he does at home. What suggestions does anyone have about what we should do concerning our marriage? Only serious answers will be considered for the best answer.

2007-09-27 06:23:43 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-27 06:20:16 · 2 answers · asked by u_r_my_best007 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im turning 18 in about a month. Theres a grl i like thats turning 16 about the same time. My buds are harassing me and telling me shes too young. Im not sure.

2007-09-27 06:17:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl tells everyone that she's 19. She doesn't look 19 to me. I think she looks like she's about 14. What do you think? Do you think she is really 19? You will have to click on this link to see her picture. http://www.geocities.com/maxtor5/e796scd.jpg

2007-09-27 06:17:49 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Every time before we make love my boyfriend wants me to soak in an ice cold bath. Then while we do the deed he wants me to just lay motionless and not make a sound. I do it because I love him, it's never really that good anyways, and it's really better because I'm always sleepy when we do it because he always comes home late from his shift at the morgue.
I'm wondering if it's okay for me to indulge his desires and if anyone else has encountered the same problem?

2007-09-27 06:12:05 · 19 answers · asked by nixity 6 in Singles & Dating

Maybe I'm wrong but it seems like sometimes my husband just goes overboard with the excitement during intercourse. He couldn't be THAT excited could he? It's not so much the moaning and groaning, but it's just the heavy breathing and some of the sounds that he makes.

He has accused me of faking moans and groans and to be honest, I don't know if they're natural or fake because I have never put that much thought into it. I am VERY satisfied with him in that department so I can't imagine why the moans wouldn't come out naturally. However, how many people do you know who have intercourse and the room is completely silent? That seems kind of weird.

2007-09-27 06:02:56 · 17 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

didnt had a fight b4,no arguments or what so ever,he just left,no note,no messages,no call from him for a week now,

2007-09-27 06:01:03 · 4 answers · asked by mayanelle wonk 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Could anyone help me.

2007-09-27 06:01:02 · 10 answers · asked by sox45732 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance cheated on me twice,the 1st time was 5 yrs ago and I forgave him.Now 5 yrs later we have 2 children together & engaged.I want to keep my family together so I stay hoping we can work things out.Is it worth trying or should I just give up and move on?

2007-09-27 06:00:01 · 25 answers · asked by Brittany 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriends mother's funeral is this saturday. He wants me to go but I didnt know her well. He and I have had our ups and downs and we are working through things. Should I go and support him?

2007-09-27 05:59:07 · 49 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6 in Singles & Dating

Are you suppose to offer it to him or just wait to he feels it's not pushy anymore to ask you. He told me this, but I am not sure if I am suppose to anything after that.

2007-09-27 05:58:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what sounds do you make in the heat of the moment (moan, scream, heavy breathe, talk dirty, quite, etc.....)

2007-09-27 05:57:40 · 7 answers · asked by Margaritavillian 6 in Singles & Dating

My rude little sister in law got engaged earlier this year at my wedding. As one can read from my earlier posts, she does not care for me or approve of my marriage to her brother. We recently received her ‘save the date’ magnet and visited her wedding website the magnet had listed. To our surprise, his sister included every younger family member in the wedding, including cousins that live out of town who she rarely talks to and her new future sister in law is her maid of honor. She’s included so many family members in her wedding that only three of her friends play a role in it. My husband and I were also surprised to se my sister in law had listed my husband as an usher, even though she’s never asked him to be in her wedding. My husband tells me that no matter what, he’s not going to play a role in her wedding, as she’s continuously disrespected our marriage.
A part of me is relieved not to be in her wedding, however, apart of me wonders if she isn’t going out of her way to snub me. Little sis in law was not in our wedding because we had a destination wedding and had no attendants, guest books, ushers, etc. Has anyone ever heard of such a thing? Is it typical to have out of town cousins who are still in high school do duties such as programs, guest book, etc. while completely leaving out your brother’s wife who lives 15 minutes away? I really didn’t want to be in her wedding, but at the same time I’d like to know if I’m once again being snubbed or if stuff like this happens all the time. Also, should my husband suck it up and be in his sister’s wedding just to make his parents or sister happy? P.S. My husband is my sister in law’s only sibling.

2007-09-27 05:57:26 · 9 answers · asked by MazyStarFan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been dating a man who is 13years older then me for about a year im 22 hes 35 i want to know how the rest of the world sees our relatonship just for fun!

2007-09-27 05:56:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are you supposed to buy a gift if you are in the wedding party?

2007-09-27 05:52:04 · 28 answers · asked by baseballguy20052004 1 in Weddings

my boyfriend goes to a different school then i do.. and hes always getting theses girls writing him telling him to call them and sayign how sexy and cute and adorable he is and im glad hes telling me and not hiding it but im so sick of girls hitting on him everywhere we go!! i mean i know ic ant do anything about it i just wanted to write it out and get it off my chest i dont want to say anything to my boyfriend because its not his fault but i cant stand it..

2007-09-27 05:51:24 · 16 answers · asked by JBaByGurL 1 in Singles & Dating

Personnally I don't think it is right or wrong but I can't hold it against someone if they want their kids to look like them and decide to stay within their own race. What annoys me is that some fools who like to play the race card will call you a racist if you aren't attracted to people outside your race...

What do you think?

2007-09-27 05:51:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-27 05:49:55 · 16 answers · asked by southernbelle 1 in Marriage & Divorce