Every time before we make love my boyfriend wants me to soak in an ice cold bath. Then while we do the deed he wants me to just lay motionless and not make a sound. I do it because I love him, it's never really that good anyways, and it's really better because I'm always sleepy when we do it because he always comes home late from his shift at the morgue.
I'm wondering if it's okay for me to indulge his desires and if anyone else has encountered the same problem?
2007-09-27 06:12:05 · 19 answers · asked by nixity 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's ok, my girlfriend always asks me to allow the dog in the room when we do the deed. I find it weird because he just sits there and watches. She says she feels bad for him though, and sometimes actually pets him...
...now that I think about it, there were some stains in his doggy bed...
2007-09-27 06:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like his fantasy is to make love to a dead person, that's why he makes you cold from the ice.
And lay motionless, probably gets turned on at the morgue.
I would find it highly disturbing and would not indulge in it, I would actually run.. or fly (in a plane) one way ticket to india?
2007-09-27 06:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jussy.rose 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
OK, I'll bite. Your boyfriend has a thing about doing dead people. He asks you to sit in a cold bath to make you cold and works in a morgue, hummmmmmmm.
Ever heard of Necrophilia?
2007-09-27 06:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by LimeyinAmerica 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's a hot story. I'm going to need a minute.
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OK - my advice would be to go down to the morgue and indulge these fantasies. He'd probably like that better, but he's afraid to ask.
2007-09-27 06:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by Armless Joe, Bipedal Foe 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It sounds weird..for two reasons!
He works in a morgue....
He wants your body cold (by asking you to take bath in ice cold water), and asks you to lay motionless!!
God forbid, if he is not up to something totally insane!! I would scoot, if I were you!
2007-09-27 06:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
this guy sounds like he's got some intense issues. he's most likely a necropheliac, and has already had sex with some dead bodies. and if this relationship really means a lot to you, then you should confront him with this. tell him that you can't have fun and enjoy the sex if you're not allowed to. most guys get off on a girls enjoyment of the act, they focus on your facial expressions and the sounds that you make to let them know they're doing a good job. this one doesn't sound like he's too interested in whether or not you like it, or for that matter, that he even really cares for YOU. i'd be a bit more careful if i were you.
2007-09-27 07:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by rawsonofchoice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Creepy.
2007-09-27 07:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a serious question? You're boyfriend has some creepy issues if so. Why would you date someone that pretends you're dead when you have sex? Weird.
2007-09-27 06:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your boyfriend likes his job at the morgue a little too much?!?!
2007-09-27 06:17:00 · answer #9 · answered by Gracie63 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Funny, Joe F. asked me to do the same thing last night.
2007-09-27 06:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋