With women? I just can't seem to attract much any more. Maybe my attitude has changed for the worse? I don't know. I'm feeling like I'm ending up in the friend zone too much lately. Any tips to help me get out of my slump?
2007-09-27 06:43:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Heh, I've never had a problem with asking girls out, but since I started university, I'm not feeling any of it any more
2007-09-27 07:11:37 · update #1
From your pic your very attractive, so it's not that, that's the problem.Do you think your attitude has changed.?In what way, and toward whom.?Only you can examine yourself to answer this.If you've not lacked the nerve in the past, has some experience caused you to lack it now.?Perhaps one you never even considered.Think hard.?...If you like a girl, ask her out, ask all the girls out you like, one of them is bound to say 'yes'......and if they don't, well, that's just their loss isn't it.?...I think most guys go through a confidence crisis at some point, mostly when they are young, because interacting with the opposite sex is unknown territory and unnerving, you don't fit into that category, but you seem to have lost some confidence, so the best thing to do is get it back, be bold and ask.In fact, I like to be asked, because I know that if the guys bold enough to ask me, (not that it happens very often) then he has a lot of courage, coz it can't have been easy for him and I find I like him even more because of that, or if I didn't before I soon do, coz thats so cute, when they say with a huge smile that you can't resist...' Would you mind if we go out some time....."
2007-09-27 12:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tru not to go out looking for a girlfriend but a friend (s). Don't feel you're losing your touch!Instead start getting back in touch with you! Love yourself, value yourself, praise yourself for what you do well and your confidence will develop. Others will notice and after that! You'll end up having to pick among a group of girls who will all like you because you'll be so confident! You'll be the coolest guy about.
2007-09-27 14:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mention attitude, has it change? good or bad, are maybe your not really trying to be in a relationship. Only you can change your slump. Be more sweet towards the ladies and see what happens good luck.
2007-09-27 13:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by flowback master 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well....
I dont think with girls its ever a "Friends zone" unless they definatly know your friends
if you havn't discussed it then there might be something there with your "Friends"
Dont give up now
Beaty is in the eye of the beholder
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2007-09-27 14:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by Huggles [mozzafan] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be brave and ask girls out...we're really not that scary! Be confident and relaxed and you'll be fine!! Good luck x
2007-09-27 14:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to make a move before you become the gay but straight friend that they always call for advice and help. show signs that your interested early and maybe ask for a date, hope this helps.
2007-09-27 13:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
IS GOOD TO HAVE A FRIEND,IS THIS THAT WILL LEAD YOU TO KNOW YOUR BEST-FIT.FIRST VIEW YOURSELF TO SEE THAT YOU ARE HAPPY FOR YOURSELF AND HOW LOVELY YOU ARE,LOVE IS FORGIVING, ENHANCING AND DOING GOOD SO YOU MUST TRY TO DO THIS TO YOUR FRIEND AND LISTEN TO WHAT SHE SAY ABOUT IT BUT YOU NEED TO PRAY SO THAT GOD WILL CHANGE THINGS OF THE FRESH TO SPIRITUAL BECAUSE IS THE SPIRIT THAT GIVES LIFE AND GOD IS MOST GIVER OF THE SPIRIT THAT WILL LEAD TO BETTER LIFE SO PRAY HARD EVERYTHING WILL BE WELL.
2007-09-27 14:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by laryea k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think i'm in same boat as you mate
the thing with girls is they will only flirt so far, you just have to take the plunge and push it a bit further
good luck
2007-09-27 13:48:55 · answer #8 · answered by Stoner Here To Help 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need tochange your attitude. when you see a girl you want, go for it.
be sweet and turn on the charm.
how come you never answer my questions? i want a man who will answer my questions. lol
2007-09-27 14:04:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol ... asking lady friends out would be perfect for a head start
2007-09-27 13:52:59 · answer #10 · answered by DaisysMumma13 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋