Me and my boyfriend or ex boyfriend have been together for 2 yrs, and we have a 3 month old son together. i have been talking to someone online and like him alot. he wants to meet me but im scared to cuz me and my ex just broke up a week ago but as far as im concerned it was over a while ago because he treated me like ****. do you think its wrong that im already looking? well im not really looking, i kinda stumbled upon it. please help me out im stressing over this bad!
2007-09-27 03:43:58 · 16 answers · asked by Dimmuchickx666x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are no time limits to these things....when you're over it, you're over it. However, be cautious because there is a child involved.
2007-09-27 03:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel-Pit Police-DSMG 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, hold up there.
Before you go meeting some online stranger, take a deep breath and don't get yourself up into a whole new situation.
You
A. Don't know this online friend. He could be a nut.
B. JUST got out of a relationship, although you're ex was probbly a creep, the best thing you can do for yourself is give it some time.
C. You also need to think in the best interest of your child. He happens to be the product of the "sucky" relationship you just got out of.
If you decide to meet this person, please be careful. Don't let him know where you live, or what kind of car you drive. Go and meet in a very public place, without your child, of course, and have a friend nearby just in case he is crazy or you decide you don't like him.
Good luck.
2007-09-27 10:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong its not your fault that he doesn't know how to treat u right an if u stumbled on this new guy it must have been faith an faith wants you 2 meat this new guy if understands u an promises 2 b there 4 u as a friend or a boyfriend u should go ahead an move im pretty sure hes probley moved on an if not u shouldmake the first move an show him ur 2 good 4 him
2007-09-27 10:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ BABEZ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not get carried away jus because this online friend tend to treat you better. Think you should give yourself some time to think about yourself and your son's future. It is not wrong to fall for someone who is nice to you but it is better to be cautious so that you dont fall into the same"trap" again. Consider carefully whether you should get into another relationship as it's only one week that you broke up. Take care!
2007-09-27 10:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where the idea of waiting a predetermined period of time to go out with someone after you've broken up a relationship. Honestly, that does not make sense to me. For whatever reason, when a relationship is broken, both member of such relationship are and should be able to make their own lives and decisions as soon as they see fit. Waiting to ask out or to say yes to someone who has asked you is only prolonging the relationship, or the feeling of the relationship, past the actual relationshipness. Just do what your heart tells you. Good luck.
2007-09-27 10:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by j-o-v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong but you are taking a risk thinking of meeting someone online...the internet hides the faults you see when you live with someone...look for someone closer to home and most importantly whatever you do put you son first...good luck
2007-09-27 10:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by hanz2602 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have answered your own question. If you are stressed about it... give it a few weeks. Just hang with some girl friends or family until you are ready again.
2007-09-27 10:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by Wayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay if you and your ex are broken up then why should'nt you meet someone else ? I mean you two are broken up then you have every right to see someone else and what is the harm in it ? If you and this new guy get along that is great and maybe you can form a new relationship with someone that is better for you . good luck .
2007-09-27 10:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, it just sounds like you want to be treated good and not like the way your ex treated you. you are ready to move on and should. the more you worry and stress about this is the more likely your goin to become depressed. and you dont want to be that way .
2007-09-27 10:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by baggy22pants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you feel like it is over then it is perfectly acceptable to start some kind of other involvement. The big question is whether you are ready to handle it emotionally.
2007-09-27 10:47:24 · answer #10 · answered by ledbetter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax babe and let things happen on their own,no It's not wrong ,actually things are happening the way they are because it is what's suppose to be,relax and enjoy,k.Always keep your head up and your eyes and ears open though,Trust is to be gained and good luck on that one. I wil personally never trust again,sad,I know.
2007-09-27 10:50:41 · answer #11 · answered by nanna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋