Whenever I go out guys never talk to me. Last week, I had a girls night out with some co-workers and this one guy kept coming up to our table asking if any of us wanted to dance, but he would never look at me. Even when I tried talking to him he had a hard time looking at me. Is there something wrong?
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2007-09-27 04:05:53 · 16 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're attractive enough. Try being more outgoing and assertive.
2007-09-27 04:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by Billy Bob Barker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times I think you have to look approachable. You may want to consider smiling specifically at whoever you're interested in or being more assertive.
The next time a guy comes to the table and asks if anyone wants to dance...just say, I do and jump up. Some times guys are intimidated by attractive women and may be scared to address you directly.
Good luck...
2007-09-27 04:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by trysh_mc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are we kvetching over some guy in a bar?
Ignore him - he obviously wanted to "do" one of the other girls. Be glad he didn't hit on you.
And even though I am hetero married female (pretend I'm your mother) you're an attractive young woman - so don't feel dissed over some jerk who was probably looking to just get laid.
2007-09-27 04:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by Mama's on the half tip 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many possible reasons for that but it's really not good for us to assume. If you would see him again, bring the subject up. If you could handle the reason for his actions then take the risk of finding out. I could only just say perhaps...
perhaps he is not interested in you...
perhaps you're not his type
2007-09-27 04:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by RuSSian Empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your very attractive. Men find it hard to talk to pretty women. If he wouldn't look at you then you were the one he was interested in. Male logic, I'm guilty of it as he is.
2007-09-27 04:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by Sid B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't see anything wrong with you.. you look like a pleasant young lady with plenty of good looks.
i don't know what was wrong with the guy, but there's nothing wrong with the way you look at all.
take care, and i'm sure someone great will come along when you least expect it, hon.
2007-09-27 05:15:30 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be that the girls u hang out with are more attactive than you.
men are visual creatures... so maybe u can do a honest check with some close friends and get their opinion on your appearance and see if any other improvements can be done.
2007-09-27 04:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by Dore 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you're very pretty. Maybe he thought he could never get you? Who knows, guys are weird! You are definitly not a beast or anything!
2007-09-27 04:13:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably thought you were out of his league.
2007-09-27 04:09:02 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Maintenance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you do this everyday just so you can send people your picture?? this is not a personal ads forum..
2007-09-27 04:16:38 · answer #10 · answered by *DiZzLe* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋