Family & Relationships - 25 September 2007

Guys would u send a text message to ur girl of 3 months every single day before going to message. "Words like you are sweet and gorgeous" or "Good morning babe "and then claim you like her a lot? Or does this translate into deeper meaning. Girls can also answer!

2007-09-25 07:54:49 · 13 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Singles & Dating

Brag about it to friends or just keep it quiet? And i already told one of my best guy friends...should i have?

2007-09-25 07:53:17 · 29 answers · asked by Beach Babe 08 2 in Singles & Dating

he had i have been together over 2 years now and we have done it without a condom a couple times but it was only for a minute or two. he never got anything inside me.

I am on birth control and have been the whole 2 years we have been together. i am on the nuva ring. i was on the patch for awhile but i changed to the ring about a year and a half ago.

I really want to have sex without a condom. he isnt too ok with the idea and i know thats the smart thing but i was wondering, if i have been on bc for this long will i get pregnant? i know how baby making goes so dont talk to me like i am stupid. please.

this is a serious question.

my boyfriend wants to get his sperm counted to see how likely it is for him to get me pregnant. he doesnt want a baby right now. i dont think our age is important but we are both older then 18 he is older then 20.

please give me any information you can on the topic, i really apperciate it.

thanks

2007-09-25 07:51:13 · 22 answers · asked by litlmizbeautiful 2 in Singles & Dating

She knows you like her - but she doesn't feel the same way because of many reasons (currently involved, not her type, etc). But she remains close to you - knowing the fact you like her. Will she use the fact that you like her to take advantage of you? Otherwise, why would she do what she does?

On the other hand, that "amigos" bullsh*t? Like she really wants to or thinks you guys can be friends knowing the fact you like her?

2007-09-25 07:48:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been trying to contact this woman that I met at a party and her phone has been going straight to voicemail for about 10 days. SHE DOESN'T KNOW MY NUMBER. I know that she is from a different state, but what could be the problem?

2007-09-25 07:47:26 · 12 answers · asked by dagyaldeh 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-25 07:47:12 · 11 answers · asked by djtramper29 1 in Weddings

I have been alone now for three months. I live in "our" home that we bought together. I raise "our" dog, Rocco. We had a great life. Travel, great careers, movie dates, slow dancing in the park with no one around- stuff that movies are made of. Then three weeks b4 my wedding I find out that he committed a felony against an underage girl when he was 19. I think that age is old enough to KNOW better. He never told me.
This has devastated my life. I get sick, cant sleep, vomit blood from stress, fears of going broke. He is completely out of my life, but picking up the pieces after losing what I thought as the Absolute LOVE of my life, has been killing me. I have dreams about him- us at the altar...
My health is suffering. Money's tight- I got stuck with the entire mortgage, all the bills.
I see a young, talented, educated woman when I look in the mirror. Yet, I lost the last five years of my life. Sleep next to the dresser that holds my engagement and wedding bands. Any good advice?

2007-09-25 07:39:11 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-25 07:38:08 · 1 answers · asked by sandpeople_1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He doesn't work, I pay all the bills, and when I go home I'm expected to do the housework aswell! What should I do?!

2007-09-25 07:37:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If you were engaged to a man, and then he asked you to sign a prenuptial agreement, how would you react?

2007-09-25 07:37:29 · 18 answers · asked by introversive_guy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I noticed my husband had a prepaid credit card which he had never mentioned to me. I thought it was weird he'd not tell me about it and I jotted the number down when he was in the shower one day. I understand the convenience of one with the pay at the pump and all but I checked the account history and see charges from EUPAYCOM.NET It seems from what I could find online, all their charges are from porn sites. I can't see where his exact charges are from w/o seeing his email. We are really short on money and it makes me angry to think he is spending any money, 2 months it was just $3 but this month it's $25, on something like that when myself and our daughter do without. Do I confront him and let him know I was checking up on him? If I do he always has a reasonable answer for things, even when I know he's lying. What do you suggest?

2007-09-25 07:36:39 · 13 answers · asked by viper pilot 2 in Marriage & Divorce

You first met, and how long did you date before you were married? How long have you been married?

2007-09-25 07:28:42 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-25 07:27:14 · 32 answers · asked by fireflies 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not the type to give up when people say its over, but this love and I don't know whats going on, see I love this girl we've been friends for a very long time and I always keep my feelings strong and inside, but now I don't know what to do, I can't love her and once I return to home theres nothing I can do, she'll be there

2007-09-25 07:25:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My five children whine too much for me to drag them through the mall and I heard you're not supposed to leave the windows all the way up because it can get hot. I'm worried that if I roll them down too far, someone might try to steal the car.

Or, should I leave the car running with the air conditioning on? Would that work?

I'm so confused, please help soon since I want to go and get my shopping done before dinner.

2007-09-25 07:21:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-25 07:15:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this anoying niece that gets on my nerves so much. She just won't stop. She is 3 and I am 13. All my life I've been the one eveyone likes but now she is the one. She goes to my room and starts to mess it up. I clean it then is uncleans it. Then when my mom goes in my room she says, "I thought I told you to clean it!" I get in trouble I tell her the truth sometimes she believes me. But when she does she says oh my god she is just a baby, she doesn't know any better. I still have some of my old toys that I admire very much and boom!!! She has to get them and ask my dad if she could have them...guess what he says...of course anything you want. OMG I feel like slaping her in the face. Please give me advice in what to do!

2007-09-25 07:14:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There's this guy I know who lives 1 state away. Last fall, he started emailing me a lot and was like "Oh, I love you, Cutie," and wanted to get together and all that...then he stopped talking to me in January ('07). I hadn't heard from him in 9 months. NINE MONTHS! But guess what? He's emailing me now, and he's starting all that up again! He's 3 years older than me! I'm only 15!! I have a crush on a guy from my school who is MY age, and this 18yr/o guy is trying to start "back up" our relationship after 9 months! I'm not into him anymore. I've tried to nicely send him hints since he's really sensitive, but he's just not getting it!! I don't want him anymore! He hurt me 9 months ago! How can expect me to take him back?!? HE'S OLDER THAN ME BY 3 YEARS!!! Help!!!!

2007-09-25 07:12:57 · 27 answers · asked by ♥SorrowLasts♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 19 and after college I plan to just get an apartment and live in that the rest of my life. I dont want a house of my own some day, I would rather just live in an apartment or condo something like that my whole life. First it would be alot cheaper and second dont have to worry about the many hassles that comes with a house. I mean it would be hard to have a family in an apartment, but I am not getting married and not having any kids, so ya thats not a problem for me(no I will never accidentally have kids either cuz I dont have sex, never have never will). So size is perfect for me too I dont think its weird but know people who think its weird.
me I dont care about having a huge house and all that bullshit. I would be just fine in a small apartment
I like to be free and marriage and kids takes your freedom from you so screw that I am a very adventurous person and dont let anything or anyone hold me done. I do what ever the hell I want when ever I want.

2007-09-25 07:09:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my hubby love to watched the porn from internet.. sometime in front of me. I dont feel its a turn on for me..but he said its a turn on for him...any suggestion pls?????.. can I tell him to stop watched the porn?? How??? Thks for answering..

2007-09-25 07:08:30 · 11 answers · asked by back2future 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i have to explain it,love doesnt mean only with opposite sex.in its vast meanings.

2007-09-25 07:02:23 · 10 answers · asked by Tehseen B 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-25 07:02:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 20+ YEARS. LATELY WE HAVE SOME PROBLEMS WITH OUR SEX LIFE DUE TO MEDICATION MY HUSBAND TAKES. NOW WHEN WE DO HAVE SEX I TEND TO ORGASM ENTIRELY TO QUICKLY .I KNOW ITS BECAUSE OF THE TIME IN BETWEEN. ANY IDEAS TO SLOW ME DOWN?

2007-09-25 06:58:51 · 15 answers · asked by mybluechicken 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a high school student. When everyone else was joining cliques three years ago, I didn't. My best friend is the most popular guy in the grade. He hangs out with the sport people, but I don't. The only cliques in my grade are the sport people, the unpopular people of (truly honestly) questionable sexual orientation, the druggies and the people who are into vehicles. Mostly I hang around with people in upper grades of a mildly popular clique. Most people see me as a bit of a nerd, although I've heard some of my own jokes being quoted a bit by everyone. People from every clique will talk to me, but no more than pleasant conversation. How can I join a clique in my own grade that feels comfortable to me?

2007-09-25 06:53:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My fiance & I have two boys-6 & 18 months. I know for sure I want to wait until my littlest guy is out of diapers, but I do want a daughter. However, we obviously cannot predict the sex of our babies (don't get me wrong-I'd be more then thankful just that my baby is healthy) but I have two boys and REALLY want a daughter. I dont really want a lot of children or to overwhelm my fiance and myself. What are thigns to consider when would be a good time to start trying to have our 3rd. Also I am 23 and my fiance is 25-does that seem to young to be working on our 3rd child? We both have good jobs. Together or yearly income is around $68,000-Is this enough to raise 3 children well?

2007-09-25 06:50:59 · 25 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3 in Marriage & Divorce

a white person to be with a mexican?

2007-09-25 06:50:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

religious if you aren't even committed to keeping the commandments?

2007-09-25 06:49:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My daughter had her children removed from her custody 18 months ago. I was working in the oilfield, so I couldn't take them right away. When spring breakup came, I was named as a Person of Sufficient Interest. Her children were removed from her home because she failed to provide for them. (care, stability, clean home, etc.) They took the them because she was caught 'cutting' herself. They took them because of a harmful relationship, domestice violence. They took her children because she was not stable and went and got pregnant by the same guy who was abusing her and there is suspicion of him abusing the little girl.
I've had the children in my care for 6 months, now. I have been attending to their needs and allowing the parents a lot more than a foster family would be. They are together and doing so much better.
She's done nothing to improve her situation and has decided that I can't adopt them. She wants another 'try at parenting her children.' Am I selfish in fighting for them?

2007-09-25 06:47:42 · 30 answers · asked by The Y!ABut 6 in Family

I missed our anniversary this year, and my wife told me she wanted something in the driveway by this evening that would go from 0-200 in less than 6 seconds, or our relationship is over. I really don't mind getting it for her, but it seems an odd request to set a bathroom scale in the driveway. Am I missing something?

2007-09-25 06:47:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my dad says they r selfish becuz thats a lot of kids but i just think they must be VERY sexually active to have so many kids. and actually none of them are adopted. anyways are they selfish people? my dad thinks so =P.

2007-09-25 06:35:17 · 4 answers · asked by Hunny b 4 in Family