Family & Relationships - 25 September 2007

why im going to chicago (i live in florida) to see my girlfriend, shes buying us hockey tickets. what can i tell her so she wont find out whats going on?

2007-09-25 09:19:20 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It does matter if you are rich, poor, middle income, tall, short, skinny, fat, or have muscles. It all comes down to how you treat women. True, some women go through a phase where they only go for the bad guys. You can either wait on them or move on to someone that appreciates you now. Anyway, nothing curls my toes faster than having a man call me honey, hon, sweetheart or some other pet name. Sit beside me with his hand on my leg. Or hold my hand while we are grocery shopping. If I thought a man honestly cared about me and treated me special, I would be there for him no matter what. Try it for a day and see what happens.

2007-09-25 09:18:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok i love David so much he's my boo, his brother just got out of prison and he served 7 yrs for some pretty serious things like Fraud, he robbed a bank, False Checks he rips people off and he has to live in a half way house or a family member David brought it up that he wants him to stay with us for awhile and i dont want to hurt his feeling and say no but i dont want him to live there he will steal from us and thats a fact he has stolen from David his own brother i dont care if he has served his time he's still a Convict, Felan whatever Advice please

2007-09-25 09:17:41 · 6 answers · asked by Lauren 1 in Family

how do you deal with them in general??? Any tips??? Esp ones with bossy narcissistic exes???

2007-09-25 09:16:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

looking for cheap reception site in massachusetts that can accommodate LESS than 20 people? our reception will probably only have about 15 people at it...

any suggestions/ideas?

2007-09-25 09:15:31 · 3 answers · asked by mums_the_word 3 in Weddings

We split once 2 years into our marriage because he treated me terrible. After I moved out he begged me to come back said how sorry he was & how much he loved me. I didnt believe him because I tried to tell him how he was hurting me before we split but he didn't stop. He came over daily, called constantly & was extremely nice to me. So after 6 mnths I went back hoping 2 work things out. He did change how he treated me, but he never did stop controlling me. 2 yrs after we got back together he started being horribly jealous & accusing me of cheating when he worked nights. I never did cheat or do ANYTHING to make him think that. I dealt with it for 4 yrs. Now that I left hes doing the same as last time telling me how hes going 2 change, I do think he can stop but whats next?! I don't think I luv him anymore but am afraid it might be bitterness. Am I making a mistake wanting a divorce? But could I be wasting my life on a bad relationship? Should I move on? I want 2 make the right choice...

2007-09-25 09:14:26 · 12 answers · asked by sugar_foot_86321 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-25 09:13:17 · 21 answers · asked by msgraham@btinternet.com 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 5'2" and 16 years old. I am not supposed to grow anymore. Ive been this height for about 2 years now. Will i be considered short for the rest of my life? I kind of like being petite, but it might get annoying. I just would like to know what other peoples perspectives would be. Am i considered tall??

2007-09-25 09:11:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok every summer i go to my fathers house down south ok so his coworkers daughter (known her since i was 11) i asked her out she said know the remainder of the summer things were super awkward now my dad wants me 2 go back for thanks giving but i realy dont want to face her or four him to find out about it what should i do!!!!!!!

2007-09-25 09:10:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just turned 25 yrs old and my husband is 29 yrs old we have been married 4 yrs.I have a daughter who is turning 5 yrs old soon from a previous relationship.Our marriage started out well but got rocky when an ex.gf of his came after him for child support .Paternity test later proved the boy was my husbands and i supported my hubbys relationship with his son.Later on after moving 3 times for my hubbys career i caved into his wishes for me to quit my job(elementry school teacher)and come home to start a family with him.I could not seem to get pregnant though and recently found out he was cheating on me all that time.Recently he ran off with her after he got fiered.
Bills are starting to stack up for water,electricity,insurance ect.I have a cell phone number to contact him but he wont give me an adress to send divorce papers too?

2007-09-25 09:09:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-girlfriend is going out with one of my friends. Yes I am still friends with her but she doesnt realize that he is not her type and all obnoxious to me and my friends, which are also hers. What should I do?

2007-09-25 09:09:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've heard it said that parents-upon reaching their late 50's or early 60's-tend to pressure their adult children to get on with their lives by getting married and have children so they can have the gift of grandchildren. My parents are the complete opposite. They're in their 60's and I'm in my late 20's but they are against me getting married in my 20's.

Can you provide analysis of why they believe this way? They married in their early 30's and expect me to do the same. More than anything, they seem to dread getting older. They don't mind having two adult children (25 and 21) living in their home (I'm the only one who lives away from home). For a while, this lifestyle seemed normal. But after experiencing some time away from them, I've come to realize that they are the odd ones. Why aren't they encouraging marriage?

2007-09-25 09:06:00 · 11 answers · asked by Andre 7 in Family

2007-09-25 08:59:34 · 21 answers · asked by BamaFan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 17 and at college studying to be a personal trainer, and as part of the course we spend afternoons in a gym to work out. There's this guy (25 years old) who's a local there, who i'm guessing fancies me, but he's so rude and disrespectfull towards me about it. When ever I walk past him, he'll say loadly to me, something like "Yes, nice ****!" or "Nice t*ts!". He always stares at me when I work out too and makes seductive looks at me, and it's makes me uncomfortable and not want to work out. I've always pretended he was invisable to me and not given him the satisfation of a responce, but it's really annoying me. Is this 'acceptable' or am I over reacting?

2007-09-25 08:58:17 · 24 answers · asked by xXxStacixXx 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we have been going out for 5 months. He says I am the best girlfriend he's ever had. He spends time with me all the time, tells his friends and family about me. They like me, it seems like. It seems he really wants to have a baby. When we have sex, he often say he wants to get me pregnant. Sex is awesome. He came inside of me unprotected a few times and it seems that he really wants to get me pregnant. One time when I confronted that if I really get pregnant, what he wants to do, he wants to have the baby with me and maybe get married. What does this mean? Does he really like me or does he just want baby? I am very happy with him and I know he cares for me but this really wonders me does he like me that much or he doesn't care and he just want baby? Please help!
we are both in mid thirties and both got divorced more than a year ago and first serious relationship after divorce. We spend everyday together.
I want baby too badly but I don't want to marry someone because I got pregnant

2007-09-25 08:57:50 · 1 answers · asked by whattodo898 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for almost 4 years (maried & living together since this past January). He has never had a voracious sex drive and has always refused to go down on me although I do it to him every once in a while and he seems to like it. We probably have sex twice a week on average. I just can't figure out why he's not more into intimacy. I love him and love other aspects of our relationship, he is very kind and a great partner. I am just having a hard time understanding a guy that is just not that interested in intimacy. He'll have sex, but it's more of a get in get out, get on with life. He very seldom touches other areas of my body which are so sensitive and important for a woman to really enjoy sex. When I bring it up, he gets uncomfortable and says that he just doesn't need it that much and that he's not really into women's boobs when I suggest that I would get more arounsed if he paid attention to other areas of my body. Any suggestions?

2007-09-25 08:55:14 · 19 answers · asked by Peachgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys would u send a text message to ur girl of 3 months every single day before going to work. "Words like you are sweet and gorgeous" or "Good morning babe "and then claim you like her a lot? Or does this translate into deeper meaning.

Girls can also answer!

2007-09-25 08:52:30 · 7 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Friends

My daughter's father pays me weekly. Has been for two years. I am having financial trouble and asked if he could take her for about 6 months. Hewould not have to pay child support of course. We live in different states (1000 miles). He was good with it until he talked to his girlfriend, who by the way is pregnant. I understand they have a relationship it will affect. I'm not impractical. I have had my daughter for three years by myself. Once homeless for 10 mos. He told me he has a new family now (the nerve). Said he can take her next summer. He wants to go through his "lawyers" now. I had left her with him for two summers with no issues. I paid for the tickets to and from. I did this about 5 times for her to see him (without lawyers). I am now asking for legal/physical custody. His visitation would be for summer, school breaks longer than 1 wk, 1/2 tickets to visit, medical, education, reimbursement for tickets I paid for (receipts). Was nice to him until this. am i wrong?

2007-09-25 08:52:01 · 13 answers · asked by tasha 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

IN ur words what is a definition of a housewife or a househusband. or what is a houseMom or houseDad.what are their supposite duties.

2007-09-25 08:47:46 · 7 answers · asked by J J 1 in Family

ok so i find my self letting my bf pay for everything what should i do

2007-09-25 08:44:32 · 6 answers · asked by SARAH A 1 in Singles & Dating

We been together a little over a year, he been staying with me for 2 months straight. I just kicked him out because he disrespected me and embarrased me a lot. I love him but i cant trust him.

2007-09-25 08:43:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How to decorate where we will be standing on the field.. ( we are getting married at the Mississippi Braves Stadium) And I don’t know what to put or where to put it.. we don’t have much to spend… so keep that in mind.. Thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-25 08:43:10 · 8 answers · asked by *Saved by God's grace* 2 in Weddings

2007-09-25 08:43:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-25 08:42:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I are going through a big problem in our relationship. I work for a fire department and work 24 hour shifts at a time. I work a female coworker and work together on a regular basis. My girlfriend is unfortable with us working together. It is strictly business with my work partner. I have tried to get my schedule changed but I can't get one. I have no idea what to do. I love my girlfriend and don' t want to loose her. Ladies I need her help on this one.

2007-09-25 08:41:40 · 11 answers · asked by myztkl1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well we decided to get engaged, and are in the process of picking rings. He just wants a simple band, doesnt matter whether its silver or gold. What i would like is to get a band that will last a very long time. He works with his hands, hes a mechanic, works on a crewboat and he also does roofing and construction. I just dont want to get a band that will get all scratched up or break in half after a year lol so does anyone have personal expirences or any tips they can give me?
Thanks!

2007-09-25 08:40:48 · 30 answers · asked by Jenn 3 in Weddings

i have step children who hate me and I don't understand why. I know their mother is jealous of my life style and the only thing that makes since is that she is turning them against me. She had a long term affair while married to my husband and became pregnant by the other man and wanted to have the baby...this is why they are divorced....The kids are just so rude to me that I want to run and hide when they are here...i don't though and try to treat them as I would any family member in our home, I just need to understand their dislike and was hoping I could get some input.

2007-09-25 08:39:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-25 08:37:12 · 7 answers · asked by Reeze 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-25 08:36:37 · 53 answers · asked by charcfc 1 in Weddings

I know we correct our children's behaviour because we want them to grow up knowing what is "right". (And also sadly, because their poor behaviour reflects badly on us.) But, is it o.k./heathly to correct a spouse's behaviour? (Stressful outrageous outbursts and honest bad behaviour.) And...if it is...or if it isn't ... Has anyone else every been very tired of doing this. I have so much responsiblity in my life, I don't want to "police" him as well. I said as much to him and asked him if he thought I was out of line and he said that sometimes it's good that I call him on his behaviour. ???????

2007-09-25 08:36:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce