My ex-girlfriend is going out with one of my friends. Yes I am still friends with her but she doesnt realize that he is not her type and all obnoxious to me and my friends, which are also hers. What should I do?
2007-09-25 09:09:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, if you all are friends then you need to approach him. Tell him what he is doing is not cool at all! If that doesn't work try talking to the girl. Let her know that you have put the past behind and that you are advising her as a FRIEND!
2007-09-25 09:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by *Dimond* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You leave it alone because no matter how much you care for her well being she needs to figure these things out on her own. This may make you out to be the "bad person" if you try to exploit his obnoxious ways..all you can do is be there as her shoulder to cry on when things turn sour.
Goodluck!
2007-09-25 16:13:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing. You have no role in helping her choose a suitable mate.
You claim to be his friend also. Why, if he is so obnoxious? There must be something you have in common with him. How do you know, she doesn't also have some kind of connection with him? If she doesn't, she will find out soon enough.
Stay out of it.
2007-09-25 16:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mention something to her about it now she may just think you are trying to hit on her again - just be there for her. If things don't end well, which it sounds like they won't, make sure you are there for her.
2007-09-25 16:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by Laura L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her advice once and then let it be. You don't want to be a wedge between peoples love for one another.
2007-09-25 16:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont know what her "type" is but i have to say your friend has crossed the line dating your ex.
you could gather your dignity, act like a gentleman and move on.
2007-09-25 16:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like jealousy. Let her make her own decisions and mistakes.
2007-09-25 16:12:15 · answer #7 · answered by Pieter K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it go, caz if u talk to her she'll think ur jealous...or u can just give her a hint...
2007-09-25 16:13:59 · answer #8 · answered by egy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her be, she should see for herself. she will think uy are just jealous.
2007-09-25 16:11:30 · answer #9 · answered by IPFREELY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u are just jelous .. if she likes him let them be !
2007-09-25 16:11:33 · answer #10 · answered by n0sleep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋