Family & Relationships - 25 September 2007

2007-09-25 12:42:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I feel my friends (40+, married) are using age as an excuse for the decline in sex. The problem is the my spouse is starting to feels that sex isn't needed after 45 too. While I don't think my body can be the same as a 20 year old, I would like to feel wanted and needed. Do other 40+er feel that sex isn't needed?

2007-09-25 12:40:53 · 12 answers · asked by byee77777 2 in Marriage & Divorce

IE You at a party and a somebody flat out asks you if you want to have sex

2007-09-25 12:39:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine is married, opened up to me that he like this guy he met from our friend's house. she can't stop thinking about him and even if i told her to keep herself busy , she keeps on saying that he reminds me of someone else. What am i going to advice to my friend? Please help

2007-09-25 12:38:26 · 8 answers · asked by chuminera 2 in Singles & Dating

have you noticed that all girls get hit on at the clubs? why is it so hard for even good looking men to get laid that they need to pay for it at times? where as even the BIG women find it easy to get sex and dont even have to pay?

2007-09-25 12:37:39 · 20 answers · asked by vanilla_thrilla01 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think it would be pretty if my 4 bridesmaids all wore the same dress but in different colors?
For example,
The first bridesmaid would wear the dress in light pastel green.
Thd second one would wear the same dress, except it would be light pastel pink.
The third one would wear the same dress except it would be light pastel blue.
The fourth one would wear the same dress except it would be light pastel purple.
And the groomsmen would have vests to match their respective bridesmaids.
So....would this be cheesy, or pretty?

2007-09-25 12:36:09 · 27 answers · asked by Annie 4 in Weddings

Can you fall in love with someone that you have never met in person. The guy is a friend of a friend. I was introduced to him 8 months ago online through my friend. We have not met coz he lives afew cities away. We talk to each other loads about anything and everything... we have spoken on webcam and live conversations...and over the phone... he knows loads of people that I know. but we have never had the opportunity to meet. We will be seeing each other in a months time at an event we both will be attending. Ive noticed this last month though that we have become more close... trust each other more...and that there is some sort of feeling there... its undescribable...but we both have felt it... and feel that it is getting stronger...so I have told him that I shall not contact him for the next 2 weeks... just to see if these feelings may change.

2007-09-25 12:35:22 · 4 answers · asked by RKB 2 in Singles & Dating

Or is this a touchy question.
I feel very blessed and lucky he decided to marry me instead of having to face heartbreak.

2007-09-25 12:34:09 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there this really hot freshman on my bus his name is matt, and he has a twin rob, and im a senior and i like matt. rob is the more outgoing type and matts is more shy but not really shy or anything, and he doesn't like to sit next to anyone on the bus but i asked on YA if i should and you guys said yes. so i did.and he didn't seem to happy at first. but we talked and it wasn't just me initiated convo's, he did too but just about small talk. and he would never ask me questions about myself and when i told him something about myself he wouldn't really make any further comment. the convo really just ended up centered on him. and i know ppl r gonna say im weird that i like a freshman, but i already know that. I get checked out a lot by jocks my age and all but i don't like them. so i like to be different. but i noticed to he looked at me a couple times. and once i thought he was going to say something so i looked back at him and he looked away. should i continue to sit next to him?

2007-09-25 12:33:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For the past like 2 days I haven't really felt anything....like there was this guy that I likeD...(i don't anymore )and my other guy "friend" told me that he likes a different girl but he didn't know that i still like this other kid who i'll call "Ben" so this other kid who will be named "Jim" told me that he liked a different girl who is my friend...i thought that i would cry that night or something.....but i didn't...i even tried to cry but i couldn't
then my friend did something that would usually make me mad....but it didn't....i wasn't mad at all....
and usually after i get in the car at volleyball i'm cranky at my mom because she is usually 10 minutes late to pick me up cause she works til 5 but i was perfectly pleasant
and there's lots of other times were usually i would be all sad or mad or something.....but i'm not i'm just like....normal..its WEIRD
has that ever happened to you?

2007-09-25 12:32:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 11 years, have two great kids, and my husband is funny and thoughtful. BUT, he lies about money & little things to try to cover his @$$.
We have been in serious debt for our whole marriage & I finally had to take his name off the checking account. He was borrowing from those check cashing places, bouncing checks left & right & has bill collectors calling the house daily. Now I have this giant mess to try to clean up.
I don't see him changing. He's always sorry, says he wants to change but I am so tired of fighting. I've tried temper tantrums, begging, bargaining, calm discussions. I love him & our family so much, but when is enough enough? When am I just stupid for staying?

2007-09-25 12:31:56 · 14 answers · asked by gypsy rose lee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When and how did you know SHE was that special person you wanted to spend your life with?

How did you know SHE was different from other women you dated?

I am marrying my true love Joseph this year!

2007-09-25 12:31:35 · 8 answers · asked by Pssssh Whatever 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-25 12:31:06 · 5 answers · asked by Great 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i have been with my husband for 5 years now we got married in marhc but the last few monht things hvae gotten very bad quick. he injured his back 3 years ago and it is so bad that he cant work but he is going back next week after being out for 9 months. anywas my parents are not supportive of us being married nor were r friends. i feel like i have no one in th e world. he has been very angry lately and getting mad at every little thing i do. he gets mad when i go out with my firneds without him bc he never wants to go out and he never wants sex. well i met a guy at work an di know im married but he srated to make me forget my problems when i was with him and i think i fell for him. but i dont think he wants anythign with me anymore he did at first it hink but now he doesnt. he is still nice to me but not as sweet as he used to be. i get upset when i see him with another girl but i shouldnt. i am so unhappy i feel like no one in the world understands me. should i save my marriage?

2007-09-25 12:30:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I'm a girl starting a date again and I need guys opinons on:
1. Good ways on how to draw a guy in
and
2. Tips on how not to look desperate (When to call, and if I text message you and you don't reply what I should do after that? Should I call, resend the message, etc.?)

2007-09-25 12:27:38 · 7 answers · asked by lalaland2405 2 in Singles & Dating

this is for homework pls help

2007-09-25 12:24:46 · 4 answers · asked by Rebecca J 2 in Friends

Can you count on what they say? Or is it all just wishful thinking or BS?

Do you have any personal experiences you can share?

2007-09-25 12:22:59 · 20 answers · asked by Rhiannon 6 in Singles & Dating

So I'm a girl starting to date again and I want to know..

if a girl doesn't offer to pay for half of the bill on the first date does that come off somewhat concieted that she expects you to pay?

I've done another survey and the answers I got back showed me in the end the gentleman should and want to pay but it's nice if she offers, but if she doesn't offer at all does it come off like she expects that from you?

2007-09-25 12:17:47 · 27 answers · asked by lalaland2405 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-25 12:13:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my hubby have argued quiet a bit about him spankin it and how i will ask whether or not we are gonna have sex that night he mentioned that he doesnt like that and he hates that i check up on him and what he is looking at online..now i have stopped asking qeustions and have even stopped worrying about him taking care of himself because i know thats normal but still bothers me..so today i asked him if he was goin home first or goin to pick up the baby then go home he thought i was askin him because if he was goin home then i would think he was taking care of himself which is not why i was asking at all but first he laughed it off and some how it turned into this big blow out about how i make sex like a chore because i want to have sex everyday and i get home late and he works a hard job and is too tired and he thinks i am being inconsiderate when like i said i havent been asking about it or even mentioning it so i hung up w him cuz i didnt want to listen to it anyway i text him..

2007-09-25 12:13:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my husband got custody back of his kids, but was told that he could not reside with me. is this true? i never put the kids in any kind of danger.

2007-09-25 12:06:40 · 5 answers · asked by LadyV41 1 in Family

i was at school today and i was running and i ran by these guys (about 5 of them) and i ran by and 1 of them was like "babe watch!!" and they started to whistle. i wasnt wearing revealing clothing or anything... do u think they were being sarcastic or serious????

2007-09-25 11:55:08 · 7 answers · asked by DINO_GOES_RAWER 3 in Singles & Dating

So we've been working through some issues with frequency / desire .... Last night we were talking (really openning up - I thought). She asked me why I felt that the "Sex thing" was all on MY shoulders.... I responded by stating that I feel she views it as a duty and that she really doesn't 'want' to do it - only out of obligation. I went on to cite the fact that its pretty stale, very little different positions, dang near silent, etc... I also stated that it frustrates me because when we were first dating / married - she was much more open, vocal, and adventurous - that I wanted to be like that again.

Well - she started to cry, then got MAD. She stated that "I'm not good enough for you-you want the old me-not me now..." I was like, "No, I want you - I just wish it could be like it used to be...."

HER -, "Well things change, you should just be happy you have a gal that wants to do it after 10 years..."

Ladies- How else could I have stated this as to not offend her?

2007-09-25 11:53:29 · 28 answers · asked by aa889d 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i ask how to advertize baby sitting and people tell me to go to craigslist so i go there and dont no what to do.

2007-09-25 11:51:20 · 6 answers · asked by cait 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-25 11:46:42 · 1 answers · asked by Brittani O 1 in Singles & Dating

My grandma is about to die. She is in the hospital. They tried to fix that last time. They being those that said she is okay to die. Me upset at everbody in the room you took everything. She could have lived in another place, she would have been better.

Am I wrong to say she had 200K that financing? Am I wrong to say, maybe if you used the 200K instead of taking it and putting it in your own pocket.

Did they steal it? If that money could have been used to give her 1 more day.

Do I have a right to judge.

2007-09-25 11:45:40 · 7 answers · asked by financing_loans 6 in Family

like show off

2007-09-25 11:38:16 · 25 answers · asked by ~Psssh! Yeah I'm hot~ 1 in Singles & Dating

She uses to have nervous breakdowns, during which she gets really violent (verbally and in the past sometimes phisically)

I'm living alone since when I was 18, entered in a highly competitive college with a great scholarship

Last week I came to England for a postgrad, and before leaving I was kind of sad, because I was leaving friends and the guy I love behind. As I started to cry during dinner my Mom got mad and told me I am a real weight on the whole family and they can't bear my presence anymore (NB:I'm living alone most of the time) and she refused to talk to me ever since.

Now I'm in England, I've started my postgrad, and I'm really sad, because I feel I don't have a family anymore, and if I have, it scaries me to death, I really don't feel like coming back home and being treated like ****. I think it's unfair, because all these years I have studied really a lot to get scholarships, my parents didn't have to pay anything, the other parents saw me like a model

2007-09-25 11:37:06 · 19 answers · asked by lagartija_azul84 1 in Family

I feel so nerdy, I know im really not, I know this sounds really self centererd but I am actually really pretty I think. But i am also really smart, I got on the math squad because I got good grades and Now Everyone who got in it are like... Im not gonna do that I don;t want to be a nerd! Im not saying people on the math squad are always geeky, I personally am excited to go but, I am also afraid people are going to tease me if I really get good in it , WHAT DO I DO???

2007-09-25 11:32:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok, i am now 14 and i am in 9th grade, my bf is 15 almost 16 in 10th, and theirs this boy that i also like but we r both good friends and he keeps askin if we can be friends with benefits but i dont know what to say, and i am also not sure if it is ok, i need some help can someone help me, and if it is ok, what are we allowed to do, and should i tell my bf, should i ask if it ok with him as well, im so lost i need help, someone help me please

2007-09-25 11:31:38 · 17 answers · asked by Beth 1 in Singles & Dating