I feel my friends (40+, married) are using age as an excuse for the decline in sex. The problem is the my spouse is starting to feels that sex isn't needed after 45 too. While I don't think my body can be the same as a 20 year old, I would like to feel wanted and needed. Do other 40+er feel that sex isn't needed?
2007-09-25 12:40:53 · 12 answers · asked by byee77777 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
after 40 you don't get it on like you did in your 20's but its still something I like, need, want, and I can't imagine not going more than one week without! Twice a week is good and I am 50 and I will continue until I drop dead ...hopefully while having sex, what a way to go!
2007-09-25 12:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 58, fit and fine for my age. I love sex. I could have it every day, but the men in my age group cannot. Unfortunately, I am not attracted to younger men, the majority of the men I meet in my age group are fossilized so I am frustrated most of the time. Here is a question. Where are all the attractive, healthy, fun virile men over 55 hanging out these days
2007-09-25 13:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by lovergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're guys, Randy. Don't we always want or need sex?! LOL. Sucks for you (or not!) if your wife doesn't want to have sex. I'm 51, and my 48 year old wife and I still have a good time ." So, revive your marriage, will you? Time to go buy her some flowers, or jewelry, or both. I hope you're still putting as much effort into your marriage as when you were newleyweds. If not, maybe she's doing it with someone else. I hope not.
2007-09-25 12:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by Rick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAN YOU HAVE APPLY THE PRESSURE.remember when you was 20-something, sitting on the couch with your girl friend , hard as hell. What did you do- you started petting, rubbing,kissing, feeling until she got hot enough to drop those panties. You have to apply that same pressure to your wife. you can't let her go day by day without touching her *** or kiss her . sex has to be still relevant. because women will take it for granted-men have ask and demand it and also physically show it.
2007-09-25 13:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what sucks about being a guy were good to go from the moment we hit puberty till we die women on the other hand have like an expiry or something.
2007-09-25 12:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding, we just getting started. Sex is great and it's fun when you are over 45 cause nothing embarasses you anymore.
2007-09-25 12:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by 400lbtwins 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm only 36, but my 42 year old hubby is as into sex as he's ever been....the only time he is not interested is when he's really stressed out
2007-09-25 12:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want sex more than ever, and I am very close to 40. I want HOT, erotic smack down sex.
2007-09-25 17:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by AskMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her feel wanted and needed. That's your job. Now get off the computer and get to it!
2007-09-25 12:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think people dwell on it so much once they get older. I think it is still needed and wanted just not like when we were 20,30's....
2007-09-25 12:45:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋