A friend of mine is married, opened up to me that he like this guy he met from our friend's house. she can't stop thinking about him and even if i told her to keep herself busy , she keeps on saying that he reminds me of someone else. What am i going to advice to my friend? Please help
2007-09-25 12:38:26 · 8 answers · asked by chuminera 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Another one added to my list of WHY MARRIAGES DON'T LAST>>>>> 'sigh'
2007-09-25 12:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by Gabby 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What's the point of getting married if someone can't learn to control their emotions, thoughts, and actions? She made a vow to be faithful to her husband and she still acts like a highschool/college girl? I bet if her husband did the same, she'd be furious and hurt about it. Bbut she doesn't think that way... she's just acting in a selfish manner thinking about herself only. Why don't you tell her to have kids too so that when she gets caught cheating, everyone's life is gonna go to shiiieet because of her. Things don't "just happen." There's a point where you know you can either draw the line and forget things and keep living a life you already have... or you keep going KNOWING the consequences and risks. There's never a time where you find yourself asking yourself "how did i get into this? this just happened to me... i don't know why..." selfishness....
2007-09-25 12:45:32 · answer #2 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her heart to heart. Ask her if she and her husband is having problems that they can't resolve. Maybe that is the reason why she takes interest in another guy.
Remind her that she's married and the consequences of what she's feeling to her family. Normally these kind of feelings don't last that long but she still needs guidance. Pray for her. Ask God to guide her and make her realize the value of a whole and happy family.
2007-09-25 12:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by toink0520 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married and I would never think of doing anything so stupid. Tell your friend to grow up, and don't add to the divorce rate. Otherwise, she shouldn't have gotten married in the first place.
2007-09-25 12:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by candy- capped 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it! Live your life!
If your life is so boring that you do not have any problems to solve, then thank God and wait. You will soon have problems of your own.... sooner than you think if you get yourself caught up in other people's problems.
2007-09-25 12:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend to let it go it's just a stupid crush and his/her marriage is more important than some stupid crush.
2007-09-25 12:45:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He or she is married, that's enough said.
2007-09-25 12:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by 400lbtwins 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she is willing to loose everything.
2007-09-25 12:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋