Family & Relationships - 25 September 2007

When I was passing in the school hallway today I saw the girl that I love with her hand around the shoulder of an another guy.Then they holded hands together,and she laughed about something.Her girlfriends were around him doing similar things.The funny part is that she knows that I love her and she rejected me before,but now she does this just when I was passing by.They weren't doing anything when I was out of her sight.When I returned in the classroom I was ready to kill somebody,I broke stuff,shouted.(we don't study in the same class).I'm pretty much ready to give up of everything in life cause knowing that she's free kept me going.But do you think she did it on purpose or they're just friends(they study together so that is a possibility)?If you want to save a life from a breakdown please answer!

2007-09-25 01:48:35 · 15 answers · asked by DJ Statix 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is going through a divorce and a custody battle. The Ex Husband is a complete tool and will say stupid things and then go back on it. Every time we have to pick up the kids from his house after work he just starts rambiling about pointless stuff and trying to get at my girlfriend. Last week we caught her four year old son in a lie. He was claiming that his father didn't feed him dinner before we picked them up. I called him up and had her son talk to him. He proceeded to get angry at that fact that we "put him on the spot".(He feed the kid so why is he getting angry?) He then insulted her on the phone and was making it like she was the bad guy. I want to confront this lowlife but I fear I will only make it worse. No matter what I say. Is there anything I can do to help her and tell him off?

2007-09-25 01:48:05 · 15 answers · asked by Ryan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello,
I have a family member who is in need of an Intervention. The problem is that our family lives in different locations and it may be difficult to meet with a mediator and arrange schedules in order for all to be involved. I have to admit, I do not know what the procedures are and I was wondering how this could be conducted without a mediator. I am most certain that he will feel betrayed and deny the help. I'm also scared that this may throw him further into his addictions. Any advise on what we should do if he refuses the help?
Thanks in advance to all who have helpful answers!

2007-09-25 01:47:08 · 4 answers · asked by Teresa S 4 in Family

i really hate why i really liked this boy. i really love him but he never notices and he really doesnt care.. since we were a child i started liking him already. i hate that i cant stop liking him..

2007-09-25 01:45:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-25 01:43:17 · 17 answers · asked by Ruthy 1 in Family

He cheated for about a year. He said that she means nothing to him, otherwise he would be with her if he cared about her. He says he is very sorry and that I'm the only one he would ever love. He says that he made a promise to himself not to ever do something that would hurt and end our marrige. I dont know what to do? I do love him and we have a beautiful daughter....

2007-09-25 01:42:10 · 32 answers · asked by MM 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What if no christian girls want to be with him, and the man is just tired of being alone, and lusting women, while he sits around at home? Could he just have sex with a non christian girlfriend, who he loves? Hell! Christian women aren't doing their jobs according to the bible (I know someone is going to throw up some loose interpretation as always). But if you believe one part, you're supposed to believe it all. They are caught up trying to be something great a lot of times in the church, especially if they have looks. It's harder to get a christian girl, because every guy wants her almost, cause there aren't as many in one congregation. She has her full pick, even more so than an attractive girl that isn't a christian. It's quite irritating. It seems better for a lonely christian man to find himself a beautiful woman in the world, that wants to love him, and satisfy each other physically, than to wait for some church girl to choose him.

2007-09-25 01:38:54 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

since i laid eyes on him i really do like him a lot. it started out just like "okay he is just my crush" but when time goes by it seems like i'm loving him already even though i havent seen him for almos 4 years now. he is a son of a very close friend of my dad. for the past 4 years he was very busy attending college. but when i saw his picture on friendster my heart beat was so fast and i dont know what to do. i liked him since i could remember (prep days)..can u imagine that since i was a very young child... oh no..
i never liked anyone as much as i like him! he lives nearby and when i see his car i feel very happy or excited even though he cannot see me.. by the way he is 5- 6 yrs older than me....

2007-09-25 01:38:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf (future husband) is from another country and i'm not. he's mormon and i'm christian. i am here in hawaii and you don't wanna know where he's at. anyways, the problem is i told him that i'm looking for a job so i could save some money so we can go renew his papers to his country when i return back home. during our phone conversation, he wanted me to come back home. i told him that i want to work here because of the good payments they have and for me to save some money to renew his papers. i'm so confuse, because i want to do both. what should i do? should i go back home to be with him or should i stay here in hawaii and save some money to renew his papers?

2007-09-25 01:38:10 · 5 answers · asked by phooah 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not your average 19 year old college student. Instead of drinking, going to parties, and hanging out with lots of people, I am more into coming home to my dog and boyfriend, going out to dinner, and trying to finish school so I can have a baby like i've always dreamed of. If this a bad thing? I've heard plenty of times not to rush through college because it is the time of your life. But what if i'm not into any of that? I've tried to be . . but i'm not. I've felt guilty and felt like I don't have any friends . . but the truth is I dont really like any of the girls my age. I relate to people older than me. Besides feeling guilty because I have my mom making me feel like I am doing it all wrong and missing out, I think I am happy the way I am, atleast I hope . .
is the way I feel/think wrong ? ?

2007-09-25 01:36:00 · 10 answers · asked by jenn a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My cousin talked me into having oral sex with her she’s 20 and I’m 14 she said it would be good practice and that there’s nothing wrong with it. No one has ever done the things she does to me before and at first I thought it was great she even used her boobs. But now I’m starting to feel a little bit guilty because I have a girl freind plus she’s my cousin. What should I do??? Should I let her continue with her practicing??? Or how can I make her stop??? Her boobs are way bigger than my girl freinds and I see her everyday???

2007-09-25 01:31:40 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

be in a real world and answer pls.

2007-09-25 01:29:57 · 2 answers · asked by calibre92 1 in Singles & Dating

Women always act like they don't like you, when you're a decent looking guy. And if your actually a nice guy too, then women don't understand that you may be shy, and perhaps you haven't dated every woman in town. You walk in and they ignore you sometimes; it's like you're not even there. And if you try to make a move, sometimes they are even on the defensive. The only way seems to be to overcome all the obstacles oneself (AS A MAN), but that sucks...big time! Especially if you are actually a quiet person.

2007-09-25 01:27:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If so or if not, what things would she have to do to prove she isn't married so she can be single and happy again?

Or, does she have to file for divorce?

They have not seen each other for 5 years. He abandoned her and her child she had with him. The child was conceived at approximately the same time as the marriage occured, so it's hard to say whether it was before or after they were married.

2007-09-25 01:26:44 · 10 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

just a survey! when is the best time to have sex with ur husband? night time or day time? which do you prefer? just wanna know...thanks...

2007-09-25 01:26:13 · 14 answers · asked by paypet 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I did.

2007-09-25 01:22:10 · 15 answers · asked by sexy grandmother 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother currently has custody of his daughter. The mother is trying very hard to get custody back. I believe the mother should have it. I believe I have information that would help the mother to get it. Should I tell her what I know? My brother is currently living w/ a woman who is still married! My brother is into porn and even watches it when the daughter is in the same room! My brother has even watched porn on my computer, leaving all the traces of it behind for my children to see...!!! clearly, he has some serious issues that the court should know about! Should I go to his ex-wife and tell her all of this? I don't care if he's my brother, it's what's best for the child...

2007-09-25 01:19:44 · 26 answers · asked by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to be a senior this year and have never had a boyfriend...ONLY crushes. I have never been kissed and only have been on one date....and that was for prom. I am kinda a shy person but I thought that I would have a bf by now. All of the guys I like are preppy and popular and I am neither of that. Did anyone else not date much in high school but later on found some one?? I want to grow up and get married but based on high school...I will probably be an old maid. And I highly doubt I will get a bf my senior year. Everyone I know has had a boyfriend....and i haven't. I am scared some people will start to think I am a lesbo even though I am NOT! I know that there are some guys that like me but I don't have the same feelings for them that they do for me......is that okay???? Someone....can you please give me advice? Thanks

Whenever I tell someone that I have never had a bf before they start making fun of me and calling me weird and it makes me feel REALLY bad about myself.

2007-09-25 01:15:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

am looking for a website for emotional support on taking care of my aged parents.

2007-09-25 01:14:36 · 2 answers · asked by kittymeow63 2 in Family

I'm sick worried, yesterday night my husband went to repair our car, afterward he went with his friends, he told me they were drinking, and usually he comes home early but it's almost 8 and he did'n come, he called me about 3 am and told me he was coming home in 15 min, but hours passed he he did'n show up, whas should i do? Go to the police? Report him missing? Call his friends? What if he had a car accident? What i he was caught by the police cause he was drunk? I'm going crazy, believe me it's not like him not to come home. Help me. what should I do?.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-25 01:02:19 · 17 answers · asked by SWEET ME* 3 in Family

If a boy gets high honors, doesn't his parent brag to his co-workers that his son has high honors?

2007-09-25 01:00:34 · 13 answers · asked by Nicolas 2 in Family

its in a pub so i was thinking lyk a black anf white party or somethin~! wud love t here from ya's!! it has t b on d cheap side as wel so gud luck lol!!! thanks xxxxx

2007-09-25 00:55:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

when they look nowhere ten years younger, on the contrary, they look like their own fathers (if judge by the age they give, which may be false). Who are they trying to dupe this strange way?

2007-09-25 00:46:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently went to a psychic, 10 of friends had already gone & said he was spooky accurate on what he told them. I don’t think I’m an easy person to fool and can be very cynical when it comes to psychics, mediums etc. but this guy was 90% right on the money with some stuff.

The reason I went to him was because I have been having trouble on deciding what to do with my boyfriend. I ask myself a lot will he change and should I leave him.

For me to ask this is not because he’s cheated on me or mistreats me badly. Its just sometimes I think I’m not and never will be 1st on his list and that before even thinking about spending time with me all he wants to do is go out partying with his friends.

At the start I thought this was a phase and made the mistake that many woman do, think that he will change. It’s been 5 years! There as been little changes here and there but the major things haven’t changed at all.

Anyways back to the psychic, I sat down and without uttering a word he started talking about my boy saying that he would never change, either I accept him the way he is or leave him. He also said he doesn’t come with full package and he isn’t my soul mate even though we have a good link/connection. He also said he has never cheated on me and loves me but that he doesn’t like that he has these emotions for me.

Also that sometime in the future he could get emotionally involved with someone!

A lot of what he said I already thought about but should I finish with my boyfriend over this “confirmation”?

2007-09-25 00:25:31 · 18 answers · asked by saint251083 1 in Singles & Dating

my freind got on Viagra and what a surprise his wife is very overweight and has hair shorter than he does!! straight men are programed to be attracted to feminine women who actually look like women and not the guy from that show the king of queens. i don't need any of you telling me ED is a real problem. i know it is. i'm just saying help your man out! get in shape (this goes for guys too!) and maybe put on a dress once in a while eh? and guys put away the costco jeans and put on something nice for your lady too eh? don't the people we love deserve the best we can give them? instead we just expect them to love us no matter how disgusting we let ourselves get. sad.

2007-09-25 00:25:23 · 22 answers · asked by mrhairajar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Whats the best way for a 26 year old guy in Melbourne who is single since more than a year to find a girl friend for himself

2007-09-25 00:12:57 · 7 answers · asked by Sunny Boy 2 in Singles & Dating

after sixteen years of marriage i have done the most stupid think possible i have had an affair for the last few months i know this is unforgivable and if my husband found out it would be the end of my marriage the problem is how can i cut all ties from my lover without seeming cruel as he was after me for years before we got involved,he is also married do you think he will be allright about this and no one will ever know, as i am sure he doesn't want his wife to find out and we live in a small town.There are five children involved in this even if its for there sake please give me some advice.

2007-09-25 00:09:02 · 33 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a student and take private tuition.My teacher is a boy of my age. Generally he is good.I have a girlfriend named purbita. My teacher arindam also likes her. He asks me to send her for giving tuition to her also. I cannot disrespect arindam sir because he is a very good teacher and a very very nice man. I know he is lonely and he needs a friend. Shall I sacrifice my love for my sir or shall I leave the tuition ?

2007-09-25 00:05:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What other ways ar there to sign off a letter which would be more meaningful then "take care". If you know the person well but dont currently have a relationship with them, but perhaps do want to show them you really do care. I don't want to use the word love.

2007-09-25 00:04:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was raped by my own cousin when i was younger but haven't told a soul,but when he vists i seems like he doesn't even care or remember what he did to me
HE HAS ****** MY LIFE!!!!

2007-09-25 00:00:36 · 13 answers · asked by lollpoppz Loves sweetness 1 in Singles & Dating