I'm sick worried, yesterday night my husband went to repair our car, afterward he went with his friends, he told me they were drinking, and usually he comes home early but it's almost 8 and he did'n come, he called me about 3 am and told me he was coming home in 15 min, but hours passed he he did'n show up, whas should i do? Go to the police? Report him missing? Call his friends? What if he had a car accident? What i he was caught by the police cause he was drunk? I'm going crazy, believe me it's not like him not to come home. Help me. what should I do?.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-25 01:02:19 · 17 answers · asked by SWEET ME* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
His cell phone is turned off. Last call was 3 am.
2007-09-25 01:05:44 · update #1
Go to the police.Don't actually report him missing just yet.Ask them if there have been any accidents.If that doesn't work,call some of his friends or family and ask if they saw him.Once you've done all of that and still don't know where he is,start looking.Try driving to places he usually goes to.Maybe you'll find him at a bar...Then,if NONE of those result to finding him,wait a few more hours and see if he comes home.If not,report him missing.
I'm so sorry you're worried.Just try to stay calm and focused.Good luck.God bless you and your husband.
2007-09-25 01:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by 12345 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he had been picked up by the police, then he should have had one phone call with which to reach you - unless he would have called someone else. In a similar situation some years back I ended up with the phone number of the Emergency Department of every hospital in the area and I used to call them, but he was never in one. Mostly he was crashing at someone's house. Sometimes alcohol was not the only thing he was consuming.
Yes, I'd suggest calling any friend that you know he was with. They are the most likely to be able to make suggestions as to what may have happened. If you know where he started, you can backtrack over the route he "should" have taken and look for possible accidents. If this is really out of character for him you may also want to call the police.
Is there any chance he might have decided to go straight to work rather than be late?
2007-09-25 08:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by choicecoach 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'd be SO mad I'd SPIT! Call the hopital ERs and ask if he was there or if someone without ID was brought there. If that doesn't get results, call his Mama (if you get along) and ask if she's seen him. Then, I'd start with the wives and girlfriends of his friends. THEN, I'd go to his friends' houses and look for him. If I didn't find him, I'd report him missing. Tell him he was supposed to be home by 3:15.
Grown men don't just pass out drunk after they call you and say they are on the way home unless SOME woman is around! The reason you are feeling worthless is because he pulls stuff like this. If he was a good husband, he would be aat home helping with your toddler, not out drinking and you would feel like you are enough.
Good luck and best wishes.
2007-09-25 08:37:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The police won't do anything until 24 hours have passed. If he went drinking somewhere believe you be he is at someone's house passed out. In the meantime, call his friends and call the local hospitals to see if anyone by his name has been admitted.
2007-09-25 10:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Call his friends first and see what they know about where he may be.
2. Call the police and express your concern. If there was a traffic accident, they would have record of it and could direct you to the hospital he may be in. If nothing else, give them the vicinity of where he was last located along with a description of his car.
Calm your head, hopefully he was just too drunk to drive and fell asleep somewhere in his car, or his friends house.
2007-09-25 08:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by mrsjcc0312 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could call the police and just give them the info. They will likely not call and let you know if they find him, but if they do they will check on him and make sure he's okay.
Either way, call the police and they will tell you what you are able to do ie. file a missing persons report, etc.
Do you know where he was or what route he was taking? Do you know any of his friends to call and ask them if they know what happened?
Best of luck to you hon. I've been there done that but my ex was an addict.. so I knew what he was doing.
2007-09-25 08:15:48 · answer #6 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First i would call local hospitals, Friends, and the police. If you now the bar he was at drinking call there and ask. Good luck and try to stay calm.
2007-09-25 10:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by nena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be calling friends. He probably got caught up trying to be cool around his buddy's. Not an excuse. Men are just stupid like that sometimes. I hope everything is okay.
Then start calling emergency rooms.
2007-09-25 08:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by momof2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not worry too much, I can feel your pain, but he is probably OK. If you two, do not do everything together, its not seem strange for a man to be with his friends all night. ( especially if they are drinking. ) You shouldn't worry next time that happens. Just try to let it pass and forget about worrying. I suggest that you get a hobby of something you like allot. and work on that hobby to occupy your time, until he comes home.
(I'm 49 years young, and have been there, done that!)
2007-09-25 08:21:05 · answer #9 · answered by fernominal2006 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Call the police station and see if they picked him up. If he's not in jail call the hospitals in your area and see if he's been admitted. Good luck.
2007-09-25 10:34:33 · answer #10 · answered by tictak kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋