my bf (future husband) is from another country and i'm not. he's mormon and i'm christian. i am here in hawaii and you don't wanna know where he's at. anyways, the problem is i told him that i'm looking for a job so i could save some money so we can go renew his papers to his country when i return back home. during our phone conversation, he wanted me to come back home. i told him that i want to work here because of the good payments they have and for me to save some money to renew his papers. i'm so confuse, because i want to do both. what should i do? should i go back home to be with him or should i stay here in hawaii and save some money to renew his papers?
2007-09-25 01:38:10 · 5 answers · asked by phooah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should question yourself as to why YOU are the person who has to earn the money to renew his papers. Will you be supporting him as well?
2007-09-25 01:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah the sheer perals of life..lol. Really you have to think what is best for your realationship wise and in reagrds to your finaces, job and security. if what you are going to do will provide better opertunity and stability in the future for you as a couple then yes this is the most sensible thing to do sometimes out feelings can controll our common sense and that is quite easy to do yet you have to find balance in regards to that. Not just consider the present but also the future sometimes sacrifices have to be made to get that step ahead in you life as a couple. Maybe you could come to some comprimise hmm?
2007-09-25 02:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by Bree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get pegnant by somebody else and blame your BF for it; that way you can assure yourself he loves you for you and not the residency papers.
2007-09-25 01:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by Ron R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's Mormon, then he's Christian.
2007-09-25 20:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by mormon_4_jesus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what he says .
2007-09-25 01:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by adnan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋