Should I believe psychic?

Question

I recently went to a psychic, 10 of friends had already gone & said he was spooky accurate on what he told them. I don’t think I’m an easy person to fool and can be very cynical when it comes to psychics, mediums etc. but this guy was 90% right on the money with some stuff.

The reason I went to him was because I have been having trouble on deciding what to do with my boyfriend. I ask myself a lot will he change and should I leave him.

For me to ask this is not because he’s cheated on me or mistreats me badly. Its just sometimes I think I’m not and never will be 1st on his list and that before even thinking about spending time with me all he wants to do is go out partying with his friends.

At the start I thought this was a phase and made the mistake that many woman do, think that he will change. It’s been 5 years! There as been little changes here and there but the major things haven’t changed at all.

Anyways back to the psychic, I sat down and without uttering a word he started talking about my boy saying that he would never change, either I accept him the way he is or leave him. He also said he doesn’t come with full package and he isn’t my soul mate even though we have a good link/connection. He also said he has never cheated on me and loves me but that he doesn’t like that he has these emotions for me.

Also that sometime in the future he could get emotionally involved with someone!

A lot of what he said I already thought about but should I finish with my boyfriend over this “confirmation”?

Answer 1

if you decide to end your relationship, it has to be because you decide to do it - not because anyone has told you to do so. You need to make your own mind up.

Answer 2

Everyone has a form of psychic ability...it's called intuition and some people simply have a more heightened '6th sense' than others. So regardless of whether or not you believe this fellow, is totally up to you. You really have to take all of this as more of a 'guide' than actuality. Besides, you already know the answer to your dilemma...you simply need someone to quantify that decision. Only you can do that completely however.

Word of advise? Don't settle for something you aren't happy with...if you have the ability to change it, then do so...live your life with no regrets, that means sometimes having to make decisions that are really tough but that are part of what shapes your life and creates the level of quality in it that only you know is right for you and that fits with who you are (or want to be).

Good luck

Answer 3

I would not do it because of a psychic, although I do believe that some people that claim to be psychics really are.

You have wasted 5 years of you life on someone that will not treat you as you feel that you should be treated. Life is too precious, espically the young years. I wasted 12 years to find out that it did not even seem to matter when I left. Life went on for him, and I cried for 2 years. That's 14 years of my life that I can not get back. Oh how I wish I was that young again, and know what I know now. DON"T WASTE YOUR LIFE IF YOU ARE NOT CONTENT!!! I wish I could print this in 20ft letters to let you know how important it really is. You just can't get those years back!!!

Answer 4

I use psychic sparingly, and go through thorough research first, regarding their reputation...

I make sure to go for a reading when I don't need to rely on certain responses to make decisions.

Readings are never 100% acurate. The best readers out there probably have a 80% rate, and that's rare.

Going to a psychic should be for entairtainment only, just to see a general pattern in your life.

Trust your intuition on that one...
Deep inside, you already know what to do. If you need to see a psychic to decide on whether to stay or go, your relationship is probably not the most stable to start with...

Best to you :)

Answer 5

They ask you questions because your answers allow them to categorize you. Once they get you in a category most of what they tell you will be true since most people in that category have similar truths. Also, people are always calling psychics for a lot of the same reasons (love, money, health, etc..), which also puts them into a classification. That doesn't mean the psychic will be wrong, but it also doesn't make them 100% correct. It's not "special mind powers", or "ESP". It's logic.

There may be "real" psychics out there. But most of the one's any of us will ever talk to in our life, if we do, will not be psychic. They'll use logic.

Answer 6

Be skeptical. There is no evidence that psychics are anything more than clever cons using methods such as cold reading to fool their clients. Some truly believe their talents, but again, their is absolutely no scientific evidence that psychic abilities exist. James Randi, a noted skeptic and magician has for many years offered a million dollars to anyone who could prove their psychic abilities. No one has collected the prize.

Answer 7

i think the fact that yo are asking the question should you be with him answers the question.

If there is doubt then obvoiusly you are not happy and isnt that what we all strive for.

Sometimes even though we do truly love someone and is hurts to let them go we need to do it in order to protect ourselves and search for better things inlife.

Psychics can only give you an indication of what might happen, at the end of the day we all control our lives and our futures. Take control and do what you feel is right not what anyone else tells you to do.

Good luck!!!

Answer 8

even before u mention the psychic he sounds like he will never put u first and u dont deserve to be treated this way.id move on.i do believe in some psychics but also there is some scammers out there so i wouldnt really believe everything u were told..good luck in your decision,u wwill find the answer to your question in your heart,not on yahoo or by a psychic....best wishes hun.xxx

Answer 9

Hi Saint,
My mother told me a simple truth before I got married years ago....'if something your boyfriend does irritates you BEFORE you marry, it will drive you crazy AFTER you're married."
That said, back to the psychic....
The thing to consider about psychic phenomenon is not whether it's accurate , but WHERE it comes from. Would you want people going to your worst enemy to get information about you?
Some of what they hear may be true, but alot of it would be wrong because the information is jaded, not based on accurate knowledge, mainly on guess work and lying. Your enemy may even tell people just enough truth to make themselves sound like a close friend of yours....then they'd find ways to turn people against you. That's what enemies do.
Psychic phenomena often comes from a 'spiritual' source, true, a source beyond human, but , like the illustration, it's backer is your worst enemy. I don't know if you have a religious affiliation, but in the Bible, the history of mankind and the source of all evil, is explained. Satan was once a trusted angel, until he began desiring to be worshiped like God. He made the challenge to God that he could turn people away from truth and God has allowed him to try, knowing that though many might fall for the lie, faithful TRUTH loving,people would NOT be turned away. Today we all know many people who have jumped into situations that were unwise because they didn't have enough knowledge on a subject...satan counts on this trait of human nature. Until God steps in to destroy him and his demons, once and for all, satan the devil continues to turn our attention away from God. Psychic activity is only part of the web he's spread over the earth to trap the unwary. The Bible, available to literally everybody, gives us MANY guidelines to follow on how to avoid satan's traps, and also on life in general....when searching for a marriage mate, or when trying to get along with other people, or working at a job, or...ANY part of life. The Bible's principles don't ever change, and they ALWAYS work, anywhere in the world, at any given time, because they were written to handle basic human needs. The Bible is our handbook...our 'owners manual'...my suggestion would be, before committing to ANY relationship, you sit down and study the Bible with an experienced bible teacher. Then make an informed decision.

Answer 10

i waisted 11 years waiting for my man to change he cheated then i did........ DON'T WALK OUT RUN!!!! i wish i would have took the other guys that i could have had but turn them away for someone that never changed! we got in a car accident now my life really sucks and he is with a whore! she was married cheated on her husband all the time and then cheated on my guy but he was with me so who knows well? I AM NOW THE ONE HURTING BAD AND STUCK WITH NOTHING AND I CANT DO MUCH OR CHANGE I WILL PRAY U DON'T END UP LIKE ME!!!!! IT SUCKS BAD......I WISH I COULD CHANGE IT ALL..........MY LIFE IS OVER BASICALLY CUZ OF STAYING!!! but u have to decide god bless u!!!!

Answer 11

dnt give up on ur relationship because a so called pyschic told a lot of crap ye sum of it might be true but dnt all women want there partners to change sumin in there lives he talkin a lopt of crap my dear stick with him if u love n see what happens
good luck luv xxx