Family & Relationships - 25 September 2007

2007-09-25 02:26:15 · 9 answers · asked by clarybell c 1 in Singles & Dating

I love this girl for about a year and altough I'm 16 I love her so much!I can't get my mind of her 24/7.She knows that I love her but she acts like nothing has happened.I proposed a relationship to her once but she refused.Today I saw her holding hands with another guy.Even though I can't get over her should I do that?She pretty much screwed up my life.

2007-09-25 02:25:48 · 15 answers · asked by DJ Statix 2 in Singles & Dating

i split with my ex 12 months ago, she stopped me from seeing our daughter for 3 months i took her to court and she gave me everything i asked for even said in open court i was a good dad and our daughter loved me our daughter is 3 years old ,after about 3 months she broke court order and again stopped me from contact with our daughter over some arrgument we had where i couldnt pick her up when court order said i would be 2 hours later so again didnt see our daughter for two months. i instructed my soliciter to go back to court i paid up front £500 soon as she new it was back to court access was given back to me i still wont to go back to court becose i dont have perents responsibiltys my name is not on birth certiffecate and my ex wont sign anything to give me them iv always paid my maintenance and i have over night care but my ex says she carnt trust me . can she stop me from having parents responsibilitys? also i wont to put my name on birt certiffecate can she stop that

2007-09-25 02:22:23 · 13 answers · asked by mark h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

would you rather just be so bad that they just needed something else, or turned them gay

2007-09-25 02:22:04 · 19 answers · asked by rev. jay mccain ( . ) ( . ) 3 in Singles & Dating

What do you do when the parent / child roles reverse? I feel like I am the parent now and my dad is the child. He is not going to work, hasn't been for at least a month or 2 now. He drinks almost all day long and makes stupid comments about life insurance paying his bills. He thinks it is all a big joke. He has depression and has gone back on his meds but refuses to do anything other than that. Half the time I am not even sure he takes the pills. I just don't know what to do anymore. I don't like seeing my dad like this and I hate that he refuses to do anything about it.

2007-09-25 02:21:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If you had sent birthday and Christmas cards with money in for over 17 years to a relative and you don't have a thank you off them, would you continue to send them anything?

2007-09-25 02:21:50 · 5 answers · asked by CMH 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Anyone else having issues with other girls trying on your engagement ring? I've taken my ring off a couple of times to let some friends get a better look at it, and almost every time someone attempts to try it on. (WITHOUT ASKING!)

It just bugs me! I know some people even think it's bad luck.
To me, it's like when people go up and rub a pregnant lady's belly without asking!

Am I being selfish? I really don't want MY engagement ring on anyone else's finger, and I ESPECIALLY don't want it on there without the person asking first.

Am I over reacting?

2007-09-25 02:17:31 · 35 answers · asked by Mrs.10/18/08 4 in Weddings

I mean they are just lumpy body parts. Ive been married for 14 years and my husband still looks at mine all the time. You think he would be bored of it by now.

2007-09-25 02:17:06 · 26 answers · asked by mixie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I need a gift idea for an older woman--this is her first marriage. Thanks!

2007-09-25 02:16:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We married very quickly after we met and have been married 2 years, it has been extremely rocky and now I am also taking care of my 74yo father who has lung cancer (in the hospital with pneumonia since Friday night but will be home today as he is better). We moved to Oregon to take care of him and then he moved in with us to make it easier. I helped my mom through liver cancer 8 years ago as she died.

Anyhow, back to us, it has to do with respect. He has at times chosen his friends before me, he cheated, (once that I know of, more times in my head, where is the trust),he threatens to leave when we argue,etc, intimidates.
Sounds crazy to me, why would I want to be together, I know I cause as many arguments as he does (although he says if I would just be happy everything would be great). I feel utterly betrayed and I was wondering how I could get him to see these feelings of mine and how hurt I am and how can I feel that he places my person on an equal level with his, respect

2007-09-25 02:16:30 · 6 answers · asked by scsspace 3 in Marriage & Divorce

well lets see my mum shouts at me even when i aint done nuffin and its my sister shes a year younger

2007-09-25 02:14:52 · 3 answers · asked by christina h 2 in Family

I have been divorced for over 3 years. I told him to contact the kids via the 2 oldest cell phones. They ignore his calls and do not call him back even though I tell them they need to. I do not want him calling me because we are going through some issues regarding child support and every time I talk to him he is controling and manipulating. I tell my younger one to call her dad cause he misses her and she always say no or I will do it tomorrow. He blames me and I am sick of it, he needs to look at himself and where he has prioritized his kids? Has anyone else dealt with this and what should I do?

2007-09-25 02:11:58 · 6 answers · asked by Jessica S 1 in Family

I have been married for 1 1/2yrs. My husband is very controlling and mental abusive. He is always telling me I am hateful and b***h all the time. When I tell him I am going to leave he just says get the f**k out. The only problem is we have a 11 month old baby. It isnt fair to her but I know things with us is never going to get better. I have been with this man for 4 yrs now.

I am 21 and he is 34. I have no life now. He never wants to go out. He never spends time with our baby. He has never helped in feeding her or giving her a bath. He said she has girl parts she he cant give her a bath. He has two other children as well that I spend more time with than he does.

My question is should I get out or not? He want sit down to talk things out because he said I have a problem not him. PLEASE HELP!!!!

2007-09-25 02:11:53 · 9 answers · asked by Mommy of 2 sweet babies 3 in Marriage & Divorce

is it true that u can only ever love 1 person in your entire life???

2007-09-25 02:11:51 · 5 answers · asked by Halloween Child !!! 2 in Singles & Dating

i can't wait to leave school and go party

2007-09-25 02:11:17 · 18 answers · asked by bluedevilsgirl07 2 in Singles & Dating

why do people feel the need to ***** about people behind thei back and then go running back to the people they were bitching about?

2007-09-25 02:10:57 · 15 answers · asked by linsy 4 in Friends

My friends think that one of my friends that is a boy is trying to drug me but I've told them that that is not true

2007-09-25 02:08:49 · 2 answers · asked by Giovy 1 in Friends

do i ask him out?

should i get him to notice me?

do i flirt with him?

he asks alot to feel my boobs, should i say yes?

how do you like a girl to act towards you?

what to you like in a girl E.G brown, black, blonde hair. skinny or fat. big boobs. smile. hair etc

2007-09-25 02:07:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does care for me as much as i do for him. I want to quit but i love him too much and it hurts like hell.. i feel bad for myself but i do love him. i ve tried n tried but we r not oon d same page. wht shud i do? frgt abt my self respcet m stay or just leave. he claims he loves me but he has his profile all over d net which i saw by chnace. there is a lot of hisorty. let me knw ur opinion.

2007-09-25 02:05:12 · 8 answers · asked by Reina L 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship for nine years with a man I thought I knew. The first three years were rough, but great. I felt like he had so much respect for me. Later, he met some new friends and started disappearing and disrespecting me. I have to nag to get help with bills and I always feel like I was playing second best to his friends and ex-wife. He never seemed happy with me, but he's always happy when he is with his friends. He recently met a new friend a year ago who he works with and took a trip to Florida. I asked to come, but he told me it was an all guy trip. I later found out that females were also in Florida hanging out with him. I also found out from his coworkers that he has been hanging out at strip bars on and off duty with this same man. I feel that I am the only one hurting. He calls sometimes for my son and tells me that we will work things out, but we are not together. He also said that he had to get his own place because I threw him out. Shold I move on?

2007-09-25 02:04:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to forgive is divine so let's have a glass of wine and have make up sex till the end of time....time ....time.

2007-09-25 02:03:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I find that when I haven't washed my hair in 2 - 3 days I can totally control it, better than days when I wash it and style it.

In general my hair looks a lot better when I haven't washed it.

But what should I do if I was to go on a date and wanted my hair to look nice?

2007-09-25 02:02:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last week my boyfriend was very quiet and tick with me when i went to his house on friday he wouldnt touch me or say he loves me at all which i found very weird.Then that night he told me that if i didnt drop a dress size by the end of the month he will dump me and he cant touch me anymore cause he thinks im unattractive and dont turn him on anymore.The thing is ive been the same size since we started going out over 3 years now? should i do what he says or just let him go

2007-09-25 02:01:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

recently i had to quit my job and stay home with my husbands mother who has dimentia. she is just 64 years old but her dimentia is pretty bad. she doesn't qualify for a nursing home and assisted living facilitys are just too expensive. she draws a small income every month and with that and my husbands salary it just isn't enough after our living expenses and hers too. is there any kind of financial help or grants for this kind of situation? i live in tennessee. she also has diabetes and she's a 24/7 job.

2007-09-25 02:01:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

But I just want to run back to our world before I left and leave all this sick/nausea feeling behind. I know leaving was the best for all concerned but it doesnt feel like it at the moment, Is this feeling normal???

2007-09-25 01:59:20 · 22 answers · asked by Me xx 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We talk 3 time a day and were flirting back and forth, then I found out he has a girlfriend and seems pretty happy with her. He doesn't seem to see anything wrong with it, but I'm a little uncomfortable. Am I overreacting? Is it wrong to keep talking to him?

2007-09-25 01:58:51 · 15 answers · asked by crazyjen 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-25 01:55:01 · 12 answers · asked by Blessings 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a working girl and her boss come close enough to call each other true friends.. the boss is married and 10 years older than this girl. they have to roam a lot for the business tours purpose. previously the girl was uncomfortable for this but then after seeing his attitude she is ok.. they r really good friends that they share all the things happening in their lives.. they love eachother as friends.. and his wife knows everything about them.. one day on the time of their tour the boss comes near her and as usual keeps the head on her lap and says i m happy. and suddenly looses his control and holds her tightly in arms and starts touching her and kissing her.. she protested and moved away. he then went out and cried and came back and then fell to her feet saying he lost his control and that he regrets. but because of this she should not leave him. he needs her as a friend. he loves her. he thinks her as such a good friend that all his thoughts up. wat do the girl do? is he true?genuine?

2007-09-25 01:53:20 · 11 answers · asked by jill 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend Ellen is a nerd and I don't know why. Do you?

2007-09-25 01:51:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She just doesn't seem to comprehend a simple task of just sweeping and then moping the floor. She instead mops first and then wants to sweep a wet floor. (She's 18yrs. old) I'm trying to get her reeady for when she's out on her own but she's as dull as an antique knife; But hand her a cell phone and she knows all the features and gatgets. Help....

2007-09-25 01:49:35 · 5 answers · asked by Ruthy 1 in Family