Last week my boyfriend was very quiet and tick with me when i went to his house on friday he wouldnt touch me or say he loves me at all which i found very weird.Then that night he told me that if i didnt drop a dress size by the end of the month he will dump me and he cant touch me anymore cause he thinks im unattractive and dont turn him on anymore.The thing is ive been the same size since we started going out over 3 years now? should i do what he says or just let him go
2007-09-25 02:01:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's an idiot.
and you deserve better.
2007-09-25 02:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. Apparently he has found someone new and now all of a sudden your size matters. it is just a ploy to get rid of you. Say good riddance to the bum. If you want to hurt him you could always tell him that his p...s was too small anyway.
2007-09-25 09:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i think he's cheating on you. dats one of the signs. always trying to control you, tell you what to do, making you feel unhappy about ur self. probably he likes someone who's a bit smaller and attractive and he's trying to tell you that if you dont do what he says then he'll hook up witht the other girl. or aybe he got a problem. let him go. if you are heppy with the way you look then 4get about him.
2007-09-25 09:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Better yet loose weight then leave him, say now you're too good for him and to loose 20 pounds and get some muscle in 5 days or you'll leave him.
But seriously, leave him, he's just looking for an excuse to leave.
2007-09-25 09:16:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he just wants out. He just isn't man enough to say it. If it wasn't this issue it would be another one. Dump him. How could it ever be good again when he said something as superficial as that anyway.
2007-09-25 09:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by commodore64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is acting like a child...I would tell that loser, that you have been the same size for 3 years, and if he doesn't like it, you will find someone that does....You deserve better than to be w/ someone who only likes you for your size...
2007-09-25 09:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know who you are? Are you comfortable with who you are? If you lose weight, let it be for health reasons or for you. Don't ever let any man define who and what you are. I would move on. It's one thing to say let's work together to work on your weight, and another thing to give you an ultimatum.
2007-09-25 09:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shud dump him immediatley! if you're the same size he propably has sum other reason or other person and his just saying that to you to make it seem like u hav done sumthing wrong when u actually havent and his trying to make up sumthing so it wudnt be his fault. his not worth your time, effort or feelings.
2007-09-25 09:07:45 · answer #8 · answered by Piper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him go..He was obviously attracted to you 3 years ago, so what's the problem now?? I think it's something else...Are you sure that he hasn't met another woman?
2007-09-25 09:11:43 · answer #9 · answered by ZarahzMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go! You deserve a man who will truly accept you for who you are.
2007-09-25 09:07:29 · answer #10 · answered by poetry_dreamer2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you decided he's just too ugly to be seen with and that he might be gay. Then dump him.
2007-09-25 09:05:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋