I love this girl for about a year and altough I'm 16 I love her so much!I can't get my mind of her 24/7.She knows that I love her but she acts like nothing has happened.I proposed a relationship to her once but she refused.Today I saw her holding hands with another guy.Even though I can't get over her should I do that?She pretty much screwed up my life.
2007-09-25 02:25:48 · 15 answers · asked by DJ Statix 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is difficult and it can affect us when we need it less. She doesn't want a relationship with you. And by holding hands with other guys, she's trying to show you that she does not want a relationship. There's nothing you can do to get over her. It just takes time. But it will happen and then you'll wonder why you even liked her to begin with. Good luck to you, you sound like a really sweet guy.
2007-09-25 02:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by catch22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are sooooo young. You don't realize it now, but you will have so many women come and go in your life. At your age you feel this is real love. It may be, but it is a child's love. You don't have to stop caring about her. No one says to get over someone you have to stop loving them. Just move on to another girl. Have fun while you are young. Believe it or not, you will feel even more for another girl someday. You will share the same feelings for each other. Let this girl go have her fun also. Who knows, maybe when the moment is right and you both are ready she will be back in your life when it is meant to be.....................
2007-09-25 09:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by Paula D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you feel as tough you love her but yes, you need to try to get over her. Try to do things to keep your mind on other things -- stay busy. I know this is easier said than done. At 16 WE WERE "ALL" -- IN LOVE.....you aren't going through anything everyone else hasn't or will do. You may be feeling down right now but I can ASSURE YOU.....she has not screwed up your "life." --- If it's meant to be, it will be. Very very few couples meet in high school, fall in love and stay together like a fairytale for the rest of their lives....just have fun right now.
2007-09-25 09:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her be with the other guy. She obviuosly has no intreast in you. I am sorry. 16 is really young for love and it is going to be hard to get over her. Try dating someone else and see where that goes. She may just want you to chase her. Some girls play hard to get. But try dating someone else and see where that takes you. Don't fall in love to fast. When she ask you on a date take the chance. Be careful. I hope you the best and I am sorry!
2007-09-26 11:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by lostinlove1919 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you do. And if you keep obsessing over girls like that...shes not gonna screw up your life , you are! Look, you cant tell girls you love them until your 21. point blank. Nothing has happened! she shot you down! Never pitch the relationship / love until youve gotten past 2nd or 3rd base. Im pretty sure theres some girl in your school that likes you. Date her, then date her friends, then date some more girls. Don't tell any of them you love them.. The girl you cant get over will start talking to you by then.
2007-09-25 09:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by tweakk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know it's hard to care about someone that doesn't care about you. However, nobody can screw up your life unless you let them.
I know you won't believe this (teenagers never do), but she is not the last girl you will love. This will pass, and if she doesn't want to be with you then that is what you are going to have to let happen.
Would you really want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you? You want someone that cares about you and treats you well - not someone that doesn't care at all.
Let her go and move on with your life. My guess would be that if you see her 10 years from now (or even 2) that you will be wondering why you were so crazy about her in the first place.
2007-09-25 09:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by nite_angelica 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Listen, you are 16! Do you know how many poeple you are going to meet in your life? Chill. Move on, life is too short. I do wish you well and hate this for you. I learned the hard way. Best wishes.
2007-09-25 09:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by HOWIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes for your own sanity get over her because there WILL be someone better for you out there. your young and you have loads of time to meet new girls. dont cling onto false hope because if shes gettin on with her life then dont make yourself suffer by thinking of what could have been.
Its not easy to get over someone especially if you love them but you can do it. in years to come you will look back on this and think how strong you were to overcome it and move on :)
Good luck and i hope you find someone that deserves to be loved by you!!
2007-09-25 09:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey young man stop dreaming and move on with life, there so many girls who will appreciate your love why stick to something you can't have you deserve better good luck
2007-09-25 09:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by Blessings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She didn't screw up your life. You're letting your feelings for her take over your life. There are plenty of women out there, and if she's not into you, move on. You will find someone right for you. Good luck! =)
2007-09-25 09:29:30 · answer #10 · answered by Vbonics 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋