Family & Relationships - 25 September 2007

lies about everything from the finances to what he has eaten on any particular day? And when he gets caught in his lies, he lies more to cover up the previous ones.

2007-09-25 08:36:02 · 11 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I am 20 years old, and I have been dating this guy who is in his thirties. (Age does not matter so don't give me anycrap about how young I am, if that is what you have to say then don't even leave an answer) We have been together about three months now, Sunday he told me that he is falling in love with me, and he doesn't think we should see each other anymore because of the fact that he feels like if we stay together that he would be holding me back from having a "real" life. He said I deserve to get married and have children of my own, and that he doesnt want to get married or have anymore kids. I told him that it should be my choice what I want to do with my life. He said that he loves me and he is doing what is best for me, and I will thank him for it later. I know that this isn't what he really wants, because he was crying, and he still wants to see me everyday, I love him and his kids. What can I do to convince him that what I want out of life is to be with him and his kids?

2007-09-25 08:35:31 · 14 answers · asked by spoiledrottenchica1987 3 in Singles & Dating

does he/she just let you get on with your job, or do they ask you to do anything that is'nt in your'e job description.

2007-09-25 08:34:19 · 6 answers · asked by louise d 6 in Singles & Dating

One night, after drinking margaritias, me and my best friend were talking and she mentioned she had no idea what her g-spot was. I asked my husband to stimulate it for her. Even though they despise each other, they apeared to be enjoying them selves,so I let the two have their fun.

When they have sex, I gets me extremly aroused, and it honestly made the relationship between me and my husband become more intense, and I some what belive it has helped me to finally become pregnant.

Here in a few months is my due date. I belive after the baby is here, it would be good time for them to stop, so me and Bruce can start concentrating on a normal family life.

Not in any way am I worried, that my husband will leave me for her. Me and Gina have always been best freinds, and has even asked in the past if it bothers me,or if I want her to stop having sex with Bruce.

It has been a fun and healthy experience, but it needs to end. and I want to stop it with out upsetting any one.

2007-09-25 08:30:10 · 15 answers · asked by Sabrina 1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married what will be 5 yrs soon and I am 25 yrs old going on 26 ;my husband is 35 yrs old.I have a daughter who is 5 yrs old from a previous relationship and a son who will be turning 2 yrs old(not my hubbys son)


Long story short is my hubby cheated we seperated for 5-6 months he moved in with his secratary and a week or two before before he came back home i had sex with my daghters bio-dad.I told my hubby we might need a paternity test when i found out i was pregnant but the doctor placed the conception in the time line we had gotten back together.All was well till few months ago my son had a medical problem and we found found he was not my husbands.Its been a bad situation since then.Will this all come out in divorce court what can i expect?

2007-09-25 08:30:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-25 08:29:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Met him in April and had sex w/him in June. Was it too soon or did I give it enough time?

2007-09-25 08:28:57 · 6 answers · asked by Lily 3 in Marriage & Divorce

they used to let me allthe time now suddenly they suspect stuff has been going on , and it really ticked me off .

2007-09-25 08:26:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi every one, what would u do if your wife/husband lost there wedding ring?i mean would u go mad etc?
My husband is in the army and on excerise and has lost it somewhere.Im gutted and so is he, we have been married 16 months and it wasnt insuired either.
Thanks

2007-09-25 08:26:01 · 24 answers · asked by jenlouise 2 in Weddings

"hey this is ____ sorry i couldnt call u back my phone died, anyways ya i would like to go halfs with u" call me later...

he has been talking to this guy who during the begining of the summer was getting high on crystal meth.

my hubby promised me he would not smoke anymore and in the past he did do drugs ..... during the begining of our marriage he did it untill he confesed to me....

I DONT KNOW HOW TO HANDLE THIS !!
please give me some advise....

2007-09-25 08:23:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was walking in the hall this morning and this kid said you should wear skirts more often, you know all the guys are checking you out. What does that mean... does he like me or does he think I'm hot or what...

2007-09-25 08:20:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am currently in a relationship that i had high hopes for. THis young man is very caring and sweet. He helped me through the breakup i just went through and promised to be by my side for the rest of my life. HOwever, i didnt trust him 100 percent and i saw something that made me upset and i asked him about it. He told me there was nothing to worry about but i didnt feel safe. I told him that until i feel i can trust him that i need to be single. He was sad and told me that he loved me but then after that day he became distant and didnt talk to me. I called him to ask him whats wrong and he says he is busy. ( mind you this young man would call me before he goes to school and right after he gets home from work.) Then on his myspace he put up pictures of girls and exchanging numbers. He tells me i need to trust him but he is acting like he doesnt love me anymore. I want to trust him but a big part of me says : CAUTION! I dont know if it was what i said.

2007-09-25 08:19:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Some people keep saying that "guys can never just be friends with girls". how can that be?

2007-09-25 08:19:11 · 50 answers · asked by AnGeL 2 in Friends

i am currently in a relationship that i had high hopes for. THis young man is very caring and sweet. He helped me through the breakup i just went through and promised to be by my side for the rest of my life. HOwever, i didnt trust him 100 percent and i saw something that made me upset and i asked him about it. He told me there was nothing to worry about but i didnt feel safe. I told him that until i feel i can trust him that i need to be single. He was sad and told me that he loved me but then after that day he became distant and didnt talk to me. I called him to ask him whats wrong and he says he is busy. ( mind you this young man would call me before he goes to school and right after he gets home from work.) Then on his myspace he put up pictures of girls and exchanging numbers. He tells me i need to trust him but he is acting like he doesnt love me anymore. I want to trust him but a big part of me says : CAUTION! I dont know if it was what i said.

2007-09-25 08:18:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you cover your little sreakers with paper so that on one can see you possibly because there may be a camera in them watching your every move ? Or do you ever imagine that there is a camera inside your screen filming you. Have I become a schitzophrenic please help me to be comfortable and not paranoid.

2007-09-25 08:15:08 · 5 answers · asked by ღOMGღ 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to stop it with her but i can't. How should I do it?

2007-09-25 08:14:08 · 18 answers · asked by John 1 in Singles & Dating

I know I will always love him, but he is a cheating dog.

What can I say/do to get him not to come back?

We have been off and on for 7 years.

2007-09-25 08:12:03 · 12 answers · asked by baby_rost 3 in Singles & Dating

There's a man in my life who insists on doing things for me finacially although I told him I don't wanna be with him. I take the money because I need it. I've been honest as I can be about not having the same feelings towards him, but he still wants to do for me. I've known him for years, we've dated, but I just don't wanna be with him. Am I using him or just accepting gifts from an old boyfriend who really cares about me?

2007-09-25 08:07:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i live with my disabled parents they can still walk and do a lot of stuff for themselves but they can't do too much,i can't get a job because that would mess up the money they get and i don't have any money saved up,i would like to stay and help my parents but even if i find some way to put a trailer on the land their own but that would mess up their too.i really want a place of my own and a kid of my own but if i move out i would have to get a job that doesn't pay much because i've never had a job before so how do i buy or rent a house if i have no money

2007-09-25 08:05:13 · 5 answers · asked by gin 2 in Family

2007-09-25 08:05:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

between a separation and a legal separation

2007-09-25 08:03:38 · 12 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Tonight is my husband and I are going to marriage counseling. He had an emotional affair with a 20 year old. He says he loves her romantically but he is willing to give us a try. I just wondered what to expect tonight if anyone has gone through this.

2007-09-25 08:01:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He says he's on the fence? He takes me out, we booked a vacation, & he still wants sex? When all goes well he is happy.If he doesn't get his way then he wants a divorce again & is fed up? Is he playing with me or is he nuts?

2007-09-25 07:59:00 · 11 answers · asked by lostsoul67 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost three years. We have had some really tough times in our relationship like his mum died a while back, and i went through a period of depression and treated him really shittily. He ended up cheating and we decided to try and work through it but he just didnt put the effort that was needed into it (this has been last 4 months roughly). We've had some good times but also really bad and he decided he had had enough and wanted us to finish. We have 'broken up' a few times but always got together really quickly. This time its different though. I know that we could make it work if we both put the effort in, and he says he still loves me and misses me so much. But I don't know how to get him to try. In some ways I think it would be good to break up but I hurt so much physically and love and miss him like crazy. We have been talking and are going to meet to talk things through this wk.How should I go about trying to get him to make it work?

2007-09-25 07:57:51 · 10 answers · asked by Fiona A 2 in Singles & Dating

And when you realize it, how do you tell your partner? Consider being married 5 years, with two kids.

2007-09-25 07:56:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-25 07:56:49 · 2 answers · asked by TX Mom 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

On a wedding program "the bride & groom will not be sending out thank you notes. They will be donating what would have been spent on postage to a charity"

I notice that they did not ask the guests to donate instead of buy them gifts. I also notice that they didn't name the charity. I think their heart is in the right place but it seems like they are only doing this because they don't want to deal with the task. Am I just old fashioned?

2007-09-25 07:56:30 · 31 answers · asked by Cheyenne 4 in Weddings

i am currently in a relationship that i had high hopes for. THis young man is very caring and sweet. He helped me through the breakup i just went through and promised to be by my side for the rest of my life. HOwever, i didnt trust him 100 percent and i saw something that made me upset and i asked him about it. He told me there was nothing to worry about but i didnt feel safe. I told him that until i feel i can trust him that i need to be single. He was sad and told me that he loved me but then after that day he became distant and didnt talk to me. I called him to ask him whats wrong and he says he is busy. ( mind you this young man would call me before he goes to school and right after he gets home from work.) Then on his myspace he put up pictures of girls and exchanging numbers. He tells me i need to trust him but he is acting like he doesnt love me anymore. I want to trust him but a big part of me says : CAUTION! I dont know if it was what i said. Then recently he told me that i sh

2007-09-25 07:55:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do guys like me more, when i tell them?

2007-09-25 07:54:54 · 3 answers · asked by thischick 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-25 07:54:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating