I want to stop it with her but i can't. How should I do it?
2007-09-25 08:14:08 · 18 answers · asked by John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you want to?
2007-09-25 10:34:07 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem about five years ago with this girl I couldn't stand, but she was really hot and did some nasty things I had only seen in pornos. Anyway, I told her from the beginning that I had no desire to have a relationship, which she was fine with. I ended up feeling like a piece of trash after a while of this and told her I just didn't feel right about it......but......I was drinking heavy at the time and would call her every time I was drunk and by some form of slu# magic, she'd be next to me in the morning. Anyway, it didn't end until I went out on a few dates with the same girl and developed an interest in her. At that time, I laid off the drinking and the slu#s.....I'm sure you didn't need all of this, but you left out quite a few details. Maybe try and start dating someone else is what I'm trying to say.
2007-09-25 15:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by Personal Insult 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to stop? As long as no one is getting hurt, I don't see what the big deal is. But if you really want to, find someone new. That way, you can tell her that you can't because you have a new girl and you'll know that you can't because you will only want to sleep with your girl.
2007-09-25 15:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pray for spiritual cleansing! Unless you are married there is no reason to do it. Not to sound all Bible thumper like, but if you don't see yourself, being married and having children with this person, why bother! ACCIDENTS HAPPEN!!! Then you are stuck with that person. I am not saying that children are accidents, just that you may open yourself up to trouble that you don't want or that could have been prevented.
2007-09-25 15:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking about how wonderful and beautiful and sexy this new girl is while your having sex with your girlfriend... and she will help you stop.
2007-09-25 15:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by bill45310252 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you? She doesn't live with you, does she?
Are you attached like RichandAmy in Zits?
What kind of person are you that you cannot control your urges and tell her to hit the road?
Suck it in, say goodbye, and go take a shower.
2007-09-25 15:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need more info. How old are you and she, is she considered your girlfriend or just a sex toy. stay away from her for a while and go take a cold shower.
2007-09-25 15:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by the_chief 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be a man. You shouldn't be having sex if you're not man enough to control your actions, feelings and desires. Good luck with that though.
2007-09-25 15:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by geminiqtpie22 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop moving. If you are no longer going back and forth, then you are not having sex anymore.
Works for me.
2007-09-25 15:17:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her so.
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2007-09-25 15:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by secret society 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your pants zipped and walk away. This is not exactly a question we need a brain surgeon for now is it??
2007-09-25 15:18:06 · answer #11 · answered by lunasage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋