One night, after drinking margaritias, me and my best friend were talking and she mentioned she had no idea what her g-spot was. I asked my husband to stimulate it for her. Even though they despise each other, they apeared to be enjoying them selves,so I let the two have their fun.
When they have sex, I gets me extremly aroused, and it honestly made the relationship between me and my husband become more intense, and I some what belive it has helped me to finally become pregnant.
Here in a few months is my due date. I belive after the baby is here, it would be good time for them to stop, so me and Bruce can start concentrating on a normal family life.
Not in any way am I worried, that my husband will leave me for her. Me and Gina have always been best freinds, and has even asked in the past if it bothers me,or if I want her to stop having sex with Bruce.
It has been a fun and healthy experience, but it needs to end. and I want to stop it with out upsetting any one.
2007-09-25 08:30:10 · 15 answers · asked by Sabrina 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you started it; Sit them down and tell them your issues and stop it.
Or not.
Play with fire....
2007-09-25 08:34:18 · answer #1 · answered by wizjp 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow. YOU opened this door by allowing another woman into YOUR relationship. It's like a house guest...they're fun to be with at first but eventually you want them gone and it's getting them to leave that's the problem!
You're going to have to spell it out for them. You (being a new mommy) want daddy all to yourself. You can't expect them to just say "ok, that's cool" because they've been doing this for, what, 9 months now?
You made a huge mistake and while it may have helped your relationship sexually, it might ruin you emotionally. Get marriage counseling...and this time...don't invite your BFF...
Good luck.
2007-09-25 15:35:43 · answer #2 · answered by kiki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats pretty sick and sounds like a Jerry Springer
show. Also you just opened the door for your husband to go tap it when ever you two get upset.
Hello you brought her in your bed room kinda weird. But I know your husband must love it. Also your friend Gina may now fall inlove w/your husband..
2007-09-25 15:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by UNKNOWN 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Youve just opened a whole new world to him, I think you are just one of the statistics now to realise that submitting to ones fantasies dont always have the outcomes we desire..
The reason they are fantasies is because we havent acted on them yet.. The minute you act on it is when it becomes a reality,, hence you are now thinking real thoughts about it again..
Love is the only way forward for you..
2007-09-25 15:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by Point 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My sister had a similar problem with her old-man and their cow. She fixed her problem by selling the cow but I think you might have a harder time trying to sell you best friend.
But know she has a new problem ,every time he comes home the dog runs under the porch. HA ha !!!
2007-09-25 15:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by Hillbilly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a fantastic lady who really has it together. Very few women could deal with the emotions that come with your situation.
That said, I would suggest you all three sit down with a drink, and just tell them what you are feeling. You've been great and they should respect your wishes.
2007-09-25 15:37:42 · answer #6 · answered by Larry W 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't even know how to answer. You must really have a lot of trust in your husband and your girl. You should simply talk to both of them. They'll understand.
2007-09-25 15:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by Andre 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, all three of you need to sit down and talk about it. Then once everything is out it should stop!!
2007-09-25 15:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by sd_mex_chic 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it should of never been started in the first place. not healthy for you and your husband nor you and your bestfriend. you risk alot by allowing that.
2007-09-25 15:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by oxygenO 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck! You might have created a "Monster".
2007-09-25 15:33:59 · answer #10 · answered by Premaholic 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hay put her on to some one els i am avalible open minded as well is she prety and willing to travel
2007-09-25 15:40:43 · answer #11 · answered by bandannaman23 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋