tell me what you think?

Question

i am currently in a relationship that i had high hopes for. THis young man is very caring and sweet. He helped me through the breakup i just went through and promised to be by my side for the rest of my life. HOwever, i didnt trust him 100 percent and i saw something that made me upset and i asked him about it. He told me there was nothing to worry about but i didnt feel safe. I told him that until i feel i can trust him that i need to be single. He was sad and told me that he loved me but then after that day he became distant and didnt talk to me. I called him to ask him whats wrong and he says he is busy. ( mind you this young man would call me before he goes to school and right after he gets home from work.) Then on his myspace he put up pictures of girls and exchanging numbers. He tells me i need to trust him but he is acting like he doesnt love me anymore. I want to trust him but a big part of me says : CAUTION! I dont know if it was what i said. Then recently he told me that i sh

then he tells me that i shouldn't cry. he said that he doesn't really care or worry because he can get any girl he wants. He then says that he is able to get a girl faster than i can get a man. I told him that if that is the case then he needs to go else where because i do not like a man who feels he needs to have women around him to make him feel good about himself. It made me realize that he doesn't love me because if i am worried about him not loving me a true man would comfort his love not make her feel worse. He manages to call his so called girl "friends" but doesnt have time to talk to me. I am about to say good bye to this person unless someone can convince me otherwise.

Answer 1

Well then he is not truly a nice guy because for one thing if he loved he would hae allowed you time to think and give you space without ignoring you and moving on to other girls fast. Think about what he said to you does that sound like a nice or someone who remotely loved you. If he got with a bunch of girls that fast than I am sure you warning sign were confirmed. Dont let him play with you move on and find you a real nice guy not someone who is going to put a show on for you

Answer 2

Trust your gut. He's sending all the answers to your questions.

I dated a guy like that. When everything is going good he's your best friend and always there for you, then he does something to question his motives and now he's making you feel like you did something wrong. Is that really someone you want to give your heart to?

Answer 3

you pushed him away, deal with that. you ruined the relationship, he has all rights to seek out new girls

Answer 4

your whole problem is hes a young man

Answer 5

Say goodbye.

Answer 6

you pushed him away.